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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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With angel babies in the sky, some of us expecting rainbow babies, others still ttc and definitely swi!!

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Bluetinkerbell · 22/08/2011 21:56

started new thread! we do talk a lot, don't we? Wink

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greenzebra · 26/09/2011 09:36

blue might be ov bleed have you done a ov test?

razzdazz · 26/09/2011 09:39

Morning all
green, go on, poas, you no you want to [devil icon]. Like ciwi I also just knew that I was pregnant and actually did a test 4 days before AF was due which I had promised myself not to do due to the previous CP's. Wishing you loads of pregnancy vibes.
dachs so pleased to read of your lovely outcome at scan and your casts sound lovely.
too, how funny, I also did the ring test on saturday (during x factor break) and it said boy for me also. However, I saw a world famous medium in July who predicted this pregnancy and told me it was a girl, she got loads of stuff spot on so who knows. I do not care one little bit, just want a baby. it is fun to do though.
mel I hope your dinner with in-laws went well and that you are feeling a little better.
cheese I so no how you feel regards not 'feeling it'. I am also having to try hard to conceal the pregnancy at home aswell as work. Dont want my children to be aware until I am hopefully given the all clear at oxford which is hard with my vomiting.....ds thinks I have a stomoch ulcer, bless him.
jane hope you had a great time at the wedding and angel I hope you enjoyed being pampered, I am green with envy Envy.
Waving to all I havent mentioned.

razzdazz · 26/09/2011 09:42

green just thought that I would add that I have not had sore boobs at all this time, not even fuller, nipples can be slightly sensitive. If I wasnt so sick I wouldnt even believe that I was pregnant!!!

greenzebra · 26/09/2011 09:43

razz I dont need much encouragment to poas, dont have any money on me now but I have a stick at home, wondering if I could persaude DH that tommorrow I should test? Dh is a little worried that we could have a chemical pg again and doesnt want to test till later but I might be able to persaude him as if we do test then tes tthe next day to and it gets darker then its all good. We didnt do this last time.

greenzebra · 26/09/2011 09:44

good to know razz

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Bluetinkerbell · 26/09/2011 09:48

hmm no not done an ov test, it would be a very early ov though... considering I have such long cycles...

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greenzebra · 26/09/2011 09:49

when do you usually ov blue?

razzdazz · 26/09/2011 09:52

Never say never blue, I usually have 35-40 day cycles but the month I concieved this time I was having a 28 day cycle (hubby was only around for a short time period) as confirmed with scan dates. First 28 day cycle since I fell pregnant with my son ten years ago aged 22!!!

greenzebra · 26/09/2011 10:16

thats true Blue my cycle lengths have changed and ov has moved a day since I had Ophelia.

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Bluetinkerbell · 26/09/2011 10:29

well did an ov test there is a test line, but it is lighter than the control line, so that is a negative then... will do one again tomorrow!
don't have a clue yet when I usually ov... need to try and understand my cycles a bit more first. At the moment DH and I are on a swi every other day routine Wink

he's just gone off to sell our car, as we now have his driving instructor car. And I've just realised I'm meeting up with a MN lady tomorrow, and would need the car to get there... well could also go on the train but that would be a £8 return ticket...
he also gave me the key of the driving instructor car, as I will need to go and pick him up when he does sell the car, I don't even know where he's gone off too... Major stress for me, as I don't like driving somewhere I don't know!

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greenzebra · 26/09/2011 10:33

blue on one of my cycles after Ophelia died I ov tested everyday from day 9 just to make sure my cycle wasnt complety different, but then again I am a person who needs to know everything.

ciwi · 26/09/2011 11:03

blue I had ov bleeding in the 2 cycles before I fell pg this time, maybe you are about to ov. I have found that with me the test line starts light and gets darker till it's positive. Get on with the swi!

janedoe25 · 26/09/2011 13:11

Hi girls, hope you are all well?
The wedding was fab and AF has stayed away Im now on cd 38 of a usual 28/30 day cycle! I have tested twice once on cd 28 and cd 34 both bfn. I am way to scared to test again so I'm waiting it out for AF to arrive.

greenzebra · 26/09/2011 14:52

jane glad the wedding went well, frustrating about the non bfp, did you ov late?

Ive just got DH to agree to test tomorrow and well now hes said yes I dont feel that pg anymore, what am I like. I still have all the same symptoms and Im cramping kind of like a period but not. Ok Im going to stop obsessing now, I thought I wasnt going to obsess this cycle, I just cant help myself.

janedoe25 · 26/09/2011 16:14

green I have no idea when I ov, I haven't been tracking it. It is so hard not to obsess, fingers crossed fro you.

ciwi · 26/09/2011 16:26

green keeping everything crossed for you tommorrow x
jane fx you ov'd late and will still get your bfp, as long as the witch doesn't show you are still in the running x

TooImmature2BDumbledore · 26/09/2011 19:29

Oh man, 3 possibles! The excitement! Blue, I read your post too quickly and just saw the bit that said there was a faint line, and I had a split second of super-excitement and then I realised it was an ov stick Blush. Maybe it's a good omen for later in the month.

Green, test, test, test! In the morning, natch, so as to have FMU and hike your chances of seeing a line. I didn't have sore boobs until well after getting the BFP - you're maybe just too early for that yet. Arf at not feeling pg now DH has agreed to the test! Grin

Jane, 38 days! FX so crossed I'll give myself carpal tunnel. It would be a brilliant early wedding present for you. You could always cheat by peeing on an ov stick if the pg tests are too scary.

Razz, hope the vomming eases up soon.

Where's Angel? She's not on mat leave yet. Is she on holiday this week or something? Hope all is well with her and GILS.

Hi Ciwi

I am suffering a bit from SPD, grr. It's not as bad as it was last time, but last time it wasn't sore at all until about 30 weeks, not 12! I need a physio appt, but I am a bit reluctant, because I think I will have to go back to the hospital where Thea was born, not the one I'm going to this time. The consultant said she could only refer me to a local surgery (ie, local to her hospital, which is not really local to me), not to the 'good' hospital and not to a physio in my local area. I might have to make a GP appt and ask there.

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Bluetinkerbell · 26/09/2011 21:51

hehe Too wouldn't that have been nice! way too early though!

need to buy some more ov-tests me thinks Grin

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Bluetinkerbell · 26/09/2011 21:56

okies... how many ov tests shall I buy? 15-20-25-50? or a combination of ov-test and pregnancy test which is pack of 50 and how many of each then?

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AngelGeorgie · 26/09/2011 23:00

Cooee!! Too I m here!!! Been on our lush spa break got back today. Was fab. No , I m not on mat leave yet on AL now then back at work next Monday for a week. Finish 7 th October.
Hi to all; good luck blue & Green when testing.
Hope everyone is well? Sorry not to name check only had a quick skim through xxxx

greenzebra · 27/09/2011 07:15

BFN and AF all within half an hour booooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

its ok though Im not too down, roll on swi

janedoe25 · 27/09/2011 07:23

green Boo to AF! I had another BFN this morning but still no AF, I am now on day 39.Hmm I wish the with would show herself.

angel Im glad you had a nice break, you deserve it.

blue I would get the combo of OV and PG tests.

too I hope you get an appointment at the hospital you want. I had SPD quite bad with Zoe, I still get twinges around AF time.

Hope everyone is well. x

CheeseandGherkins · 27/09/2011 08:57

Morning all. Really foggy here this morning, looking very halloween like. I'm really stiff and in pain today, started to get worse yesterday and today is just as bad. My left leg is really painful and my shoulder is too, it's hurt since the crash but now it's worse. Not relishing the thought of more doctors appointments :(

jane glad you had a good time at the wedding.

blue I'd also go for a combination

angel spa break sounds like it was really good, glad you enjoyed it

green sorry AF arrived :( hopefully next month, it took me 7 months I think to get pregnant after Scarlett, felt like it would never happen.

too spd is horrible, I had it with ds2 and a little with Scarlett too and it started fairly early on. Hope you get the physio sorted. I have a physio appointment on Thursday but that's related to the car accident so I'll see how that goes.

greenzebra · 27/09/2011 09:21

My DH said that next month is the the month he has a good feeling about it. It sucks though Ive just looked at the calender and realised that its 5 months today since we lost Ophelia and its kind of hit me that another month has gone to waste.

too and cheese I feel for you with the pain, I had side pain all through pg it was hell ended up in hospital for two days as they thought I had a kidney infection.

blue go for the combo, I think I might be joining you as the clear blue are getting expensive and I only have one left as I used one this moring for the BFN. and Want to save it for a deffo BFP as they keep really well still have Ophelias BFP stick.

jane I hope you body sorts itself out and you either get that BFP or you get af so you can start again.

angel glad you had a good pamper!

TooImmature2BDumbledore · 27/09/2011 09:29

Grr, stupid AF, Green! Roll on next month.

Will post properly later - at work, and just logged on to check how the testing was going.