TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

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A fresh new thread.

Lets hope this one is as successful as the last and we can help as many people as we can to come to terms with what has happened to them.
Lets spread some christmas support for everyone.

xxx

Be back little later off to get this house sorted.
Carly - will check back to see how you got on. {{{{{{{{hugs & luck}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I haven't seen this much chat on a Saturday morning on here for a long time!!

G4P - for you hunni. But I am sending you loads and loads of {{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}} and lots of luck for the future too. I'm glad you have such supportive family around you too. Makes the world of differnence. And it is good to see that Xack managed to makes you smile with wind jokes (next time she's on ask her about her "ring of fire" ) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hello Mincepee!! me old mate!! Lucky you - Hogmanay in Scotland!! Sooo jealous You'll have a fab time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Mygarland - hi hun xxxxxxxxxxx

Carly - you tested yet?? Hope its good news Everything crossed for you sweetie xxxxxxxx

Right I need to sort this meet up out. I haven't booked a table yet coz nothing has been said for a while. I was wondering if you could post if you can or can't come and whether you are bring DH/P and/or children with you.

For those of you that are new to the thread, the invite is well and truly oopen to you too. We are planning on goint to

Bella Italia
Leicester Square, London
Hoping to book table for 3pm on 21st january

You are all welcome!!

Hi im back. Dh of doing shopping, im chilling in nightgown. Feel like i should try and dress, but cannot b bothered.Had some teary phonecalls this am, but nice to know im loved.

G4P - Oh hun but crying helps, it helps you to deal with your feelings. I bottled everything up after my MC, and it was the worst thing I could do. I broke down and became depressed after, because I hadn't faced up to how I was feeling. Let it out and make sure you allow your feelings to be vented. Dont fight it. xxxxxxxxx

believe me, you only have to ask how i am and i start bleeting. But i hate the frustration of not being mobile and feeling weak etc

It must be bloody rotten G4P. But try and see it as a positive thing - the longer you are "immobile" the better you will heal. You mustn't try and do too much too soon. I know you know all this and really I'm just rambling (and just tell me to shut up if I get on your nerves !!) but it is so important to look after yourself. I knew I should be gentle on myself and to take it easy, but I didn't do it. Anyway to take care of youself, take it easy and don't feel guilty for still being inyour dressing gown!!

sorry havent been on for a while, pc was not working again!!!! anyway good news my car passed mot bad news got a bfn was expecting it though so not a shock and its still early cd28 today and no af yet so im not giving up yet. Cant stay here too long so just a quick hello to everyone and hope all are ok xxxx

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Been out all day....bloody theives
Dh has gone out for a family drink tonite so I won't be gaetting any later actuaslly bit of a releif. It's starting to become more of a chore than fun and spontanious. Never mind. I have put DH under pressure cos I told him I wanted a BFP for christmas day. I hope he buys me something too.

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FOR THOSE OF US WHO ARE TRYING...........

Thanks for the baby dust MP.
Sorry for your BFN carly love.
Morning ASH, XACK, G4P and any1else awake.

going for walk in country side this am so better get ready!

Morning all!!

Carly - hunni for BFN, but like you said, don't give up til AF arrives But fab news about car!! What a relief!

Mincepee - thanks for the dust hun! Bloody theives! Go tell 'em them are restricting your
time and will be telling the judge!! Totally out of order!! Know what you mean about BDing becoming a chore. I have no idea when I will OV this month after such a weird AF so just doing it every time we have a bit of peace. And with DH doing nights and 3 kids in the house, it proves a bit tricky. So we end up at it when we don't really feel like it! Grin and bear it though love, it will be worth it

Enjoy your walk Mygarland!!

ooooh! just realised! Have MN taken that thread off - the one about not knowing baby's father??

Thanks ASH enjoyed walk, was long tho! Yeah they've taken that thread off

hi ladies! sorry i havent been on all day again, am just feeling so low right now i didnt want to talk to anyone (sorry if that sounds selfish ) another bfn today i just wish af would turn up and stop playing these cruel tricks on me im not buying anymore tests neither am i working out when i ov'd because its driving my crazy anyway i hope evryone is good and well will speak soon xx

bless u carly, don't worry about us it's not selfish at all, but we do worry where u've got to cos we care!

have fun bd'ing instead of doing it according to charts etc, hope u feel well soon love, x

MOrning!!

Carly - Aw hun don't feel down. There is always hope until AF shows up. You will get your wish, as soon as your body ans mind are ready. If this month isn't your then just think you can enjoy christams, enjoy a drink or 20 and eat what you like. Then in the new year you can start afresh - clen slate and all that.
Stay positive sweetie, don't give up hope xxxxx

so sorry to hear about you BFN Xack, but glad you're not too dissapointed, you're right, you have a lot on at the moment, would be good the close one door before you open another.

Carly - so sorry to hear fo your BFn topo, hope you're ok.

G4P - i am so so sorry for what you have been through in the last week or two. life is well and truly unfair, and we all deserve so much better. I will investigate ectopic support and email you after i've done the school run, in the meantime, you rest up and concentrate on looking after you!!!

Xack - have emailed you hun xxx

So whats everyone got planned for today then?? I'm here this morning but have got to go out this afternoon. Its my B/Fing support group crimbo gathering so will get to see lots of old pals Looking forward to that.

Morning girls, I'm having a truly p**d off day today. Boss has been at me already, turns out shes not having holidays but at least she's not here thurs & fri (xmas party) so thats a relief.

I'm knackered so when she annoyed me I had to go toilet so no tears to be seen. Last thing I want/need. Anyway, got the cheques to do now. Speak to you all later!

OMG!!

My DH cousin is a big up and coming film director!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is all over the SHowbiz news!!

There is a film out in the new year called Joy Division and its one of Dh cousins!!! WOW!!! Cousins brother is already quite well known (nightclub owner and dated a popular TV presenter too) Ooooh, fame in the family!!

Mums - sorry boss is being a cow! I can sympathise though. When I found out I was PG with DS1 (after trying for 3 years and having fertiity treatment, bear in mind) my boss at the time was a total bitch. She made me continue climbing ladders in the filing rooms whilst carrying large heavy NHS hospital files. I had to continue doing all the things I shouldn't have been. I was called into her office one day so she could moan at me for touching my tummy too much FFS!!! I was really fed up and quite depressed, so I saw my GP who signed me off for the rest of my PG, telling me I was not to work in those conditions Bless my GP!! It really was too much though. So, I can understand when you moan about your rotten boss. I think it women bosses TBH, they always seem very unsympathetic when it comes to pregnancy - jealousy probably coz they know you can walk away from your job....

Xack - I'm having trouble emailing you hun! Keep getting message returning my mail to your address

ASH - She doesnt even know I'm pg yet! I dread to think how she's going to be when she finds that out.

I know she doesn't hun I suppose it could go one of two ways - either she might actually be nice about it, you never know. Or she could just continue to be a mare Just carry on, get your head down, adn keep in your mind that you won't be there forever. tke MAternity leave as soon as you can. Is it 28 weeks????

I dunno to be honest, but I dont want my mat leave too early cos then I cant spend much time with baby when its born. Would rather work till I drop then go from there. I'm alright with her being a bitch just have to ignore her and vent, and cry in the loos abit! lol