TTC after a miscarriage - Jingle Beans, Jingle Beans, Beanies all the way!!

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A fresh new thread.

Lets hope this one is as successful as the last and we can help as many people as we can to come to terms with what has happened to them.
Lets spread some christmas support for everyone.

xxx

xack it'll come round again soon enough!

Anyone there?

Is Mincepee about??? Haven't spoken to you for ages!

night night all, going to have a nice takeaway and get tucked up in bed

not gonna be able to get online over the weeked, we're going to the in laws for the weekend. so
Good luck to all who are testing!!

catch up monday, don't get talking too much!

Hi anyone there?

Morning all.
Awww Going4Potty, so sorry to keep missing you. How are you? Are you ok?

Tad relieved here (never thought I'd say that) because it was a BFN. I've got so much going on atm health wise that now is'nt really a great time to be pg. But as soon as I'm sorted out, I'd better get a huge, clear BFP! .

How's everyone this morning?

Carly- good luck hun!!!!

morning. Glad your ok crimbo. Not so good here. The Hcg results came back wed pm and had gone up a bit, but still no pregnancy seen in uterus. I was admited on thursday am for emergency laproscopy and ended up having a salpingectomy for an ectopic. Back home fri pm. really sore, upset etc. not sure what to do with myself. Cant even hug hubby and ds properly as full of air. Ironic, as i now look pregnant! Apparently they put lots of air in you, now i cannot wear any of my clothes. Cant go to sleep comfortably and also embarrasing wind . When i asked wether iwas a high risk, was told not at all, actually verylow. just unlucky! I just cant believe ive lost a tube, its so unfair, especially as i was looking out the hospital window seeing all the pregnant women outside smoking. it even got dh riled. Sorry to go on, but i just feel sad and angry, ive tried to be healthy, i exercise, no smoking , no drinking! i hate this.

awwww hunny {{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}} you poor thing!!!!
if you need a chat, support or anything, my addy is jjhellkat at aol.com

I've had 2 laproscopies and yes you fart like a trooper after! they put Co2 in there to expand everything so they can see but leaves you totally bloated and huge after!!!!

Im so bunged up eating veg and drinking water just is not helping. Burping too! I just feel so cheated, cause now, not only have we lost our baby, i have less chance of getting pregnant and if i do i have a greater risk of having an ectopic again.

On a more selfish note. i have a c section scar and three holes from the laproscopy and my tummy doesnt look like it belongs to me.

It must be awful for you .
I've never had an ectopic but had 4 previous m/c. You've been through a truly crappy time and need to let yourself grieve.
(and break wind too) sorry hunny could'nt resist

Lol ohhhh so true. Even after vaginal births, your tummy still looks like an empty cows' udder (mine still does anyway). I've got very funky cross scars on my tum from the laps and pretty stitching through my belly button. Ohhhh and don't get me started on the road map of Great britain (stretchmarks on my tum).

Thats ok, i needed it . Desperate to have a number 2! I only have fitted trousers and rigig jeans in the wardrobe. I may need to wear my work out gear, eeek

rigid jeans even.

God stretch marks.!!!!! they arenow good friends that never went back home.

If in doubt, trackies!!!

I never got any with ds2, think they thought as I'd got so many with ds1, no one would notice if I had anymore anyway

Oh potty, bless u honey, again no ectopic/shere so can't advise not even had laprosacpies so can't even advise there. just hope u r comfortable, (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))

Well being indian, i may get away with a two piece trouser suit, if i can find a warm one.
On a nicer note, i have had loads of messages and flowers and visits. Feel lucky.

Now that is handy!
Awwww that's lovely!
Morning Mygar.

mums had the little one again, which is helpful, as he loves sitting on me. He is really clingy at mo, and wouldnt leave me when he saw me in the hospital. Stood right next to my head and kissed me. Little love. Dh had to distract him with the promise of diggers outside (he has a slight obsession).

Well of to have a shower and make myself pretty for visitors!! See you later, bye.

OOOOhhhhhhhhh, I have missed loads.
Not to worry I have caught up on wots going on.
No excuse for not being here other than work [anggry]and bd'g .

Unfortunatley, this is what I call the silly season. All these idjiuts theiving, getting drunk, fighting or getting too amorous. It is very busy. Never mind only two days left and then am on leave until 6th Jan.

No dinking for me at the mo, well at least not until after my test on 25th.. If its BFN then I will be getting pissed

We are going to scotland for 4 days over the New year. Staying in a cabin type thing near a loch on the west coast. There are 10 of us going..

Has anyone finished their crimbo shopping? I still have to get DH some stuff. Have no idea what!

Amazing how they know when something's up.
Have fun hun, take care.

Ohh Mincepee you lucky thing!!!!
I bet it's busy this time of year.
Big {{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}} and luck for the 25th hun!!!!!
I've still got dp to buy for and not sure what at all. Hoping something will jump up and say "Buy me"