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TTC after a Miscarriage - Love and Luck to all who need it!

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jinglediddle · 24/11/2005 13:05

Well its about time you had a new thread.
I wanted to wish you all the best of luck with your trying to conceive and say that it might take weeks months or years, but you won't find a better group for support.
We have all been through the same experinces and talking to someone who has felt the same makes a world of difference.
You will all get your BFP's soon and in the meantime, lets try and keep as calm and de-stressed as possible.

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mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:15

I get heavy boobs, just as af is gonna start but not sore, I got the sore boobs when pg.

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:16

Nikki, have you mentioned this to your dh, sometimes things have to be spelt out to our dh they dont always get it.

Carly when is your AF due?

I find this the worst week of all hoping and praying that I am pregnant looking for signs then to be disappointed!

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:17

trix my boobs have felt very heavy and a little sore to touch but i blame that on the fact that the last two nights i have slept without my bra on (i wont go into details of why ) i also had a little leak the other morning which was very strange

mygarland · 02/12/2005 10:19

nikki- u'll be no good with them around when it's so fresh u've gotta get dh to do something either not have them, have them later in the wk (which prob wont b much help), take them out or u not be there this one week. U'll be a wreck being around them it's for your own good, dr mn prescibes u do it. (Again sorry for the joveal (sp?) nature on here but I found it helps and that's the way we are), love and hugs.

Morning carly - i'll b testing the wk after u just in case but dunno how long my cycles are, at least I know I'm having cycles!

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:19

sorry trix xpost then. My af is due next saturday normally i would be testing now up until then using early tests but i dont want the upset if i have an early miscarriage so i will wait until friday or saturday at the earliest when will you be testing?

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:19

Nikki - sorry case of crossed posts earlier. I get a little carried away sometimes and end up having to apologise for gettng over excited. Glad you like the name and promise me you'll tell me to shut up if I get too much!! (the others do!!) I find my way of coping with hard situations is to laugh through it. I hope we can get you giggling too

I hope slink is okay too. I'm sure everything is just fine and it was just a scare.

Okay, sorry to those who can't come but I really need to get a rough number to book this table later. so far I have:

ASH + DH
Carly
Cori
Diddle + DH
Hellkat + DH + DS's
Lottielou + DH
Mincepee + DH
MyGarland + DH + 3DC
Slinkie
Strike + DH

Any more for any more!!??

(BTW Nikki and Trix1 its open to you too of course!)

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:22

I agree I get sore and heavy boobs to around AF time..

Carly - leaky boobs - strange all that as I have had that since last year before trying for baby?

mincepee · 02/12/2005 10:23

ASH we have done ages b 4. I am the maturer one out of the lot 37 I look young though. The fat stretches out the wrinkles giving me a more youthful appearance.

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:23

firstnikki when i had my first m/c i was 17 and my dp at the time took me to see his dad who had two young girls they knew i was pg so no one told them any different. Of course when we were there they asked when the baby was coming and i had to walk out. I would explain to your dp/h that your not up to seeing anyone and as someone else mentioned ask him if he could take them out somewhere Im sure he would understand.
Mygarland what date is your af due? We need a bfp for this thread just to start us off

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:24

Where are you all going??

Atomic would you test up to a week early using the early testers? when is the soonest you can test. I will probably test Sunday if AF has not arrived - what usually happens is I test get a BFN then 1/2 an hour later AF arrives

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:25

I want to test.... no scratch that I want a reason to need to test, no scratch that, I want to try!!

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:26

Mincepee lol am i the baby then at 23 (she asks hopefully)

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:26

???? BFP... could you help on the abbreviation please - thx

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:27

BIG FAT POSITIVE

I'm the baby.... 21

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:27

I get sore boobs about 10 days before I am due on , but then my cycles is totally up the wall since my MC. I always have a little bleed around 21 days (body teasing me as I always think is it implantation grr!) then it stops. Then I have a slight (TMI coming up) browny sludgy bleed from about CD 25 up til I get proper AF on CD29/CD1. BUT!! this month, things have been mege wierd - I had all this asusual but on Tuesday (CD29/CD1) i didn't get AF proper. Its really slow and nothingy. I am only using a "panty liner" (god I hate that name) not needing tampon or towel. But when I goto the toilet, y'know , ermm, for a "number 2" , I bleed quite heavily.

Not sure what is going on there - can anyone shed any light?

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:29

Just a thought girls but is it worth putting up stats again for nikki?

Sorry ASH but i have no idea about that.

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:30

Atomic that does not sound right at all (about the bleed when going to the toilet) mention that to your doctor. So are you having your period if not do a test

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:30

Right you lot slow down I can't keep up!! Everytime I write a post, I come back and you've changed the subject!!!

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:32

Right you lot slow down I can't keep up!! Everytime I write a post, I come back and you've changed the subject!!!

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:33

MUMS damn!!!
ASH i am so immature everytime i hear that word (pantyliner) i giggle like a little schoolgirl. My nan calls them "pant liners" im awful aren't i? i can't even watch the ads when they advertise them my dp thinks its fab! and then breaks into a full on rendition of the "whooaah bodyform......"

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:33

MUMS damn!!!
ASH i am so immature everytime i hear that word (pantyliner) i giggle like a little schoolgirl. My nan calls them "pant liners" im awful aren't i? i can't even watch the ads when they advertise them my dp thinks its fab! and then breaks into a full on rendition of the "whooaah bodyform......"

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:33

MUMS damn!!!
ASH i am so immature everytime i hear that word (pantyliner) i giggle like a little schoolgirl. My nan calls them "pant liners" im awful aren't i? i can't even watch the ads when they advertise them my dp thinks its fab! and then breaks into a full on rendition of the "whooaah bodyform......"

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:34

my stats are

me 33
dh 35
ds 3.3/4
2 prev m/c

  1. Dec 04 - 14 weeks
  2. Oct 03 - 8 weeks

Been desperate for another pregnancy since last Sec

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:34

MUMS damn!!!
ASH i am so immature everytime i hear that word (pantyliner) i giggle like a little schoolgirl. My nan calls them "pant liners" im awful aren't i? i can't even watch the ads when they advertise them my dp thinks its fab! and then breaks into a full on rendition of the "whooaah bodyform......"

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:34

sorry to be rude SH are you sure the bleed is from "baby slide" and not the other??

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