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TTC after a Miscarriage - Love and Luck to all who need it!

848 replies

jinglediddle · 24/11/2005 13:05

Well its about time you had a new thread.
I wanted to wish you all the best of luck with your trying to conceive and say that it might take weeks months or years, but you won't find a better group for support.
We have all been through the same experinces and talking to someone who has felt the same makes a world of difference.
You will all get your BFP's soon and in the meantime, lets try and keep as calm and de-stressed as possible.

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OP posts:
firstnikki · 02/12/2005 09:52

Hope everything is fine today Slink x thinking of you.

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 09:53

Morning Firstnikki!I see we didn't scare you off!! Will you be a regular on here?

mygarland · 02/12/2005 09:54

morning all, just gonna catch up

firstnikki · 02/12/2005 09:57

Morning, yes more than likely as I find it comforting. Also with that much going on you can't leave it for too long else it takes a while to catch up.

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 09:58

Goodmorning firstnikki. Sorry to hear your going through it aswel. How are you feeling today?

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 09:58

Welcome to the gang Nikki now we have to get you a crimbo name!hmm.....

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 09:59

FirstSaintNikkilass!!

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:02

GET IT??!! Nikki-lass coz she's a girlie! Lass, girl!! St Nicholas - get it??

firstnikki · 02/12/2005 10:02

feeling a bit resentful and guilty, DH has a child from previous relationship and we have her sister too, every weekend and in the week. It helps DH but I am finding myself not looking forward to their visits and my patience is tested. Trying to be brave in front of them but its hard.

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:03

Good Morning, I am new to this thread but not new to posting on the truing to conceive after m/c threads. I am on day 21 today usually have a 29 day cycle so on that dreaded last week waiting. Anyone testing soon? Has there been any BFP on this thread yet?

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:04

Thanks Stockinghanger sounds good just updated

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:05

I'm sorry Nikki am I being too jovial? I do apologise. Its just my way and you'll get used to it. Plaes just tell me to shut up - I won't be offended.

So you have DH child plus their sister that is of no relation to DH? Seems a little harsh. Can you not arrange to see the child another time, give yourself some time and space. Surely DH would understand.

I really feel for you, and others in this situation

Atomicstockinghanger · 02/12/2005 10:06

Hi Trix1!! Long time no chat!! How are you? Waiting patiently for testing day??!!

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:06

I think you may of misunderstood me... good name just updated my nickname.

Sorry for confusion x

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:06

Morning all!
Slink am thinking of you today xx
ASH what about FIRSTdayofchristmasNIKKI? btw fab email
MUMS sorry to hear you feel so crap hun im feeling a little rough this morning but have a sneaking suspsicion it could be down to the fact that i polished off a bottle of pinot last night
Hope everyone else is good (firstnikki so glad we didnt scare you off )

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:09

SH, DH is soft and has brought her sister up as his own and therefore come as a package. they good girls but tried to explain to DH but on this occasion he is not getting it.

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:10

FirstNikki- Can you not excuse yourself for the day that they come down, or ask DH to take them out for the day, i'm sure he'd understand.

Carly - I have no sympathy for you if you've got a hangover!! lol. ok a little

mygarland · 02/12/2005 10:10

morning trix, nikki, ash, mxw, xack and diddle
slink- hope everything's okk this morning I expect u're at the EPAU now, hearing heartbeat is a good sign, really hope all goes well for you and that you rested last night.
nikki - I found this site a great help, I mainly only talk on this thread and find the people here excellent, they've really helped me come to terms with things even tho I haven't really talked about it! Hope u find the same support on here I know I'll try to give it.
mxw - hows u?

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:10

Morning all!
Slink am thinking of you today xx
ASH what about FIRSTdayofchristmasNIKKI? btw fab email
MUMS sorry to hear you feel so crap hun im feeling a little rough this morning but have a sneaking suspsicion it could be down to the fact that i polished off a bottle of pinot last night
Hope everyone else is good (firstnikki so glad we didnt scare you off )

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:10

Hi there Atomic, how are things with you?

Firstnikki - I agrre with Atomic, could you either not be involved in the visit this week or have them for less time. How old are they? Its very hard after a m/c and to be around other poeoples young children can be upsetting at first.

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:11

Thats an idea MumsXw, so simple yet today I can't see the wood for the trees. Thanks may give that a try.

carlychristmas · 02/12/2005 10:12

sorry i dont know what happened there
Trix1 i will be testing next saturday if af doesnt arrive

FirstSaintNikkilass · 02/12/2005 10:12

they are 5 and 7 (next week birthday celebrations for eldest - oh joy!) can't blame them though.

mumsXMASwish · 02/12/2005 10:12

sorry

trix1 · 02/12/2005 10:14

Does anyone else get really sore swollen heavy boobs for the second two weeks of their cycle. I do and it really gets on my nerves. I used to get my hopes up and think it was because i was pregnant but I wasn't. Is this fairly normal!!!!!