Over 40 & TTC?

[Dodsey]

Anyone out there over 40 & ttc?
Had 2 DS's at 35 & 38.Now I'm 41 & have been trying for 15mths. should I just give all my baby stuff to the nearest charity shop?

So I take it you will be changing your name to Decaff again.

Why have I filled up over someone I have never met??

wow

Fantastic news Arabica ...

take care now

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bump literally

OMG Arabica well done. I'm feeling tearful I'm so happy for you.LadySherlockofLGJ I know what you mean.

Can you believe this thread has only been going for two weeks & we have 2 BFP's.

I'm going off to Gleneagles with an even bigger smile on my face.

Go madness & Arabica, Go madness & Arabica ......

God I've just got to give you both these ......

Well done Arabica Brilliant news!
hope you have a perfect pregnancy

a wow,Arabica, good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

What a lot of lovely supportive messages. I can't quite believe it myself! I am trying not to get excited or tell anyone other than closest RL friends, just in case.

ARABICA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations! How utterly, utterly fabtanbulously amazing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, so, so pleased for you!!! You horribly fertile old thing!
Deeeelighted!
You have made me quite irrationally happy. Frabjous day.

And of course, you too Madness! Only I've met Arabica at Coram's Fields at a meetup and I'm an old girl too, so it's a bit special.

I love all these old girls! (I'm 42 btw and had dd at 41)

You're just a young whippersnapper, Aloha! I can't believe it will end in a baby though, not after what happened last time--know what I mean? And so long to wait too, I won't be 13 weeks until mid January ffs.
I'm fineabsolutely no physical symptoms save feeling v tired and worried about earning more moneyam only writing for one mag at the mo and in dire need of more dosh!

Oh Arabica!!!!!

How bloody fabulous is that!!!

XXX

just want to add my congratulations & really hope that everything goes OK for you. Fantastic news

Oh, Arabica. How absolutely fantastic.

Well back from my break & with usual good timing started my period.

I do really want a 3rd baby but I can also see the positives about sticking with 2 if that's the way fate wants it. For one thing my Mum would not be so willing to take 3 kids when me & DH decide to head off overnight somewhere.

Also my sisters live at the other side of the world so long haul flights are easier with a ratio of 1 child to each adult!

I was with a mate who has 3 kids today, aged 5 months, nearly 3, and 5, & what with the constant demands for boob, wipes, loo, nappy change etc etc, it took her 1hr 30min to eat her jacket potato!

Ah, but she's got three. Two is a doddle.

Congratulations Arabica!

There's hope for us all!

OMG, Arabica, fantastic news! VERY pleased for you all Best of luck.

Thanks PB, and thanks Marina. BTW DS is loving it at Guildhall, even though it's a struggle to get us all up and ready on time so early on a Saturday!

so that's going well too Arabica lovely

woo hoooo

Wow, congratulations Arabica! I know how long that first trimester feels - hope Xmas makes it shorter for you! Go the Golden Mums....