TTC after a Miscarriage - Wishing you all more baby dust than is physically possible to type!!

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And thats only a small sample of what I am wishing you!

I wish you all every happiness and great TTC success.

Much love to all of you, you'll always be my friends!

XXXXXX

wasnt thinking you were peepee, dont worry, its just I was trying to think of a way to stop what was happening and there is always an answer to whatever I was thinking (doesnt matter who said it, I knew deep down nothing could be done) just annoying adn upsetting for all involved even if there is only a computer to hug.

peepee - Can't believe they haven't found any problem at all. Maybe baby just wasn't developing properly, such a shame that you've had 5 and all appear to be down to chromosone abnormalities. No fair at all.

just like to say a quick thanks for all your lovely messages i live in gwent in south wales and think the nearest private clinic is in bristol which is about 45 miles away. have spent most of the day running to the toilet (cos i dont want my 2ds to see me crying as they are way too young to understand whats happened) everytime i manage to compose myself something else sets me off i just dont know how its possible to have all these tears left in me

carly - you let them all out, it will help you feel a little better, and will also help you sleep later. are you having any pains?

Lurking mostly! Shelly and Carly. so sad that you are both having a rotten time. Hugs.

DIDDLE- nothing horrific but they are still there i just hate feeling so useless by just ahving to wait and see what happens

carly82-have just got in and seen your news-I am so sorry hun I really feel life can be totally unfair. Hugs to you (((xxx)))

wannabump2006-what sort of ignorant shite people work in your office????? To be honest, I wouldn't give them the satisfaction of resigning on Monday, I would stick with it at least another 2 weeks (if you can) then don't return from lunch one day. It's just if you need a reference from them you have to be polite but it sounds like they would do the dirty on you anyway. Think about it over the weekend hun ((xx))

Love and hugs to everyone else.

Night night

xxx

Maddyd and HK how are you doing today? My due date was today too. I m/c back in april at 11 weeks. DH never wants to talk about our little angels so I just sit quietly and get on with life.
Thinking of you guys.
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Peepee- hope you're OK today. I was 11wks pg too when I mc, a week before I was supposed to have my dating scan. These dates are awful when they come up aren't they?
Carly82- hope you're OK too. {{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}

Hi there, Peepee hope your doing ok.

My due date willl be the 18th but im just finding the whole month miserable and we are only on the 5th. best i cheer up soon eh!!!!!

Having chinese by my self tonight so may pop on and off. Theres a young girl only 17 thats been posting abit and im following her story with interest. Its the am i preg thread

Evening ladies

HellKat, maddyd and peepee-thinking of you all ((xx))

Hi to everyone else, hope you are having a good weekend.

maddyd-I have been following tweeni too-I hope she gets some friendly help.

Have had a firework party tonight so am knackered now as we had a long day out yesterday at the Bike Show in Birmingham.

Night night

xxx

Hiya Hc, i hope she does too. I have a 17 year old DD so its quite close to home. I really feel for her, she must be very confused and mixed up at the moment. Bless her

just quickly posting for an update, i can safely say that i had a m/c bleeding got so bad yesterday i went to my a&e done an internal scan and said it was empty but if the bleeding hasnt calmed down by mid week i have to go back for another scan just to check. I am just feeling so low right now and i think this will be my last month of ttc. I dont think im strong enough to do this every time ive got no fight left in me. I wish everyone lots of luck and wanted to say a huge thanks to those who have helped me through the last few months xxxxx

Carly, I'm so sorry hun. Why does life have to be so bloody cruel? I am thinking of you sweetheart, and if you need to talk remember where we all are. And if you decide to stop TTCing like HK and I have then you can always come onto the Non-TTC chatty thread so you can stay intouch Take care of yourself and give things time before making any real decisions. Lots of love xxxxx and {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

carly82, please don't give up. We are all here to support you. I know it's hard but you must beleive that this happens for a reason and we will all one day get our little gifts.
We will one day hold our babies but we will always remember the little angels we lost.
IT WILL HAPPEN.
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is anyone there??????????????
Am feeling a little low. DH is on his way to Wales and wont be back until friday night.
I really wanted to try again and be pregnant b 4 christmas, but it isn't going to happen is it? I have just found out that one of my colleagues is 17 weeks p/g. I am sooooooo jealous. I feel bad for feeling jealous.

Peepee- Sorry you're feeling down but it's understandable really, especially because of the date yesterday. And what with your DH leaving for a few days and finding about your colleague. It's just all really bad timing everything happening at once isn't? And it doesn't help that the weather has been pretty grim today (well it has here in Leicester). Is there anyone you can ring e.g. your Mum or a friend and chat to them?

Aww Peepee! I'm sorry you're feeling low. I would offer to say something really wacky, but I don't think its appropiate. You are a strong (in a good way) person, and I'm sure you will get through this. We are all here to help you and are great at listening, so you can rant, scream, cry, shout, wail, whatever you need to do. I hope you feel better soon, I'm sure you will. Remember we are here...

Oops, shouldn't be posting here! Norty CH! Gotta go before the TTC police catch up with me....

Hi girls hope you all are ok this evening.x
Carly:so sorry you are going through a m/c at the moment,life really isn't fair sometimes,please just give yourself alittle time to rest up and recover before making any decisions about giving up ttc,maybe leave it acouple of cycles like me,before making your mind up?(lots of hugs and love to you.x.x.x.x)
Peepee:sorry your feeling so down at the mo.x,i remember when i had my m/c in sept and i found out that a lady i knew was also preg and doing fine,i felt sooooo jealous too!!!!i just couldn't understand how unfair it was!(so its completly natural to feel that way.x)

I've got a personal question to ask,so soz if TMI,but really need alittle reasurrance/advice.....i had my first af since my m/c around the 23rd of october,and it lasted about 5-6 days(usual for me),and then obviously stopped.Now over the last couple of days i've had this brownish/pinkish discharge now and then when i wipe,and am wondering whats going on,i think at the mo its the time when i'd be most fertile,but as some of you may know i'm playing it safe this month and we're going to ttc after next af.So any ideas what this strange discharge is?has anyone else had that before?Is it perhaps my bodies way of just settling back down as my DH suggested??...am alittle confused girlies...any ideas??....xx.x.x.x

Sorry, me again...

Shelly, I had exactly the same. I had MC at beginning of August and got my AF 28 days. Since then I have been getting odd coloured discharge about 10 days before I am due AF. I thought this month was implantation bleeding but obviously it wasn't as I'm not PG. When I went for my smear a few weeks ago and the nurse said I had blood around my cervix, which has alarmed me. But then I found an article saying that you are more likely to suffer cervical erosion after a MC. So, I have just decided to carry on thinking its that.

I hope it doesn't carry on too long. Mine only last a day or so. Hope thats of some help to you xx

Thanx ch,i'm sure its just m/c related,but you know when you think,'i'll just check',its not heavy or anything,just there now and then when i wipe,so hopefully it will just fade?.x

Its good to hear your still around ch.x.x

where is everyone tonight!?.x

Hello!!??anyone there,its not good you know!?...all this talking to ones self!!

is anyone still here? could do with someone right now