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TTC after a Miscarriage - Wishing you all more baby dust than is physically possible to type!!

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Coathanger · 31/10/2005 15:33

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I wish you all every happiness and great TTC success.

Much love to all of you, you'll always be my friends!

XXXXXX

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Diddle · 07/11/2005 07:23

Carly - How are you doing??

mumswish · 07/11/2005 09:54

Goodmorning ladies,

How are you all?

So Sorry to hear it was a definate MC, I hope it doesnt put you off trying. but I can understand if it does, just give it time.

Morning Didds, hows tummy?

carly82 · 07/11/2005 10:43

morning girls!
feeling a little better this morning still bleeding but not ready to give up just yet i had a really bad day yesterday, felt every emotion possible. I was angry with myself for not being able to hold on to this baby, sad that i always let myself get so excited and heartbroken that it happened again and i know even medical proffesions dont class a foetus b4 8 weeks as a baby but it was still my baby anyway i dont want to bring this thread down already hope everyone else is doing good xx

mumswish · 07/11/2005 10:48

Carly, If you need to talk, i'm here, and so is everyone else. Dont worry about bringing the thread down. We want to help.

carly82 · 07/11/2005 11:04

thanks mums i think i might just leave it to fate from now on. No more going through twenty preg tests the only time i will test is if my af is more than a day late, and no more trying to find when im oving. I want to be stress free and not worrying the whole cycle

mumswish · 07/11/2005 11:10

thats how I think making a baby should be. I dont think you should all be testing 20x before AF is due and only bdin when oving. Just go for it, have sex when you want it, not when you thin it'll make a baby. The only time you have to start doing all these tests is when after 1 yr of trying you're no where.

Thats just my opinion and the way i'll be trying to handle it when I ttc.

I also think you should get drunk one night each month. Cos you always hear of people getting pg from a drunken night of passion. LOL

carly82 · 07/11/2005 11:18

LOL at the drunken night of passion im sure i could persuade my dp to do this oooh at least once a week (just to maximise my chances of course )

mumswish · 07/11/2005 11:23

of course!

plus if you're drunk, you're more relaxed so should help the little buggars!! lol

mumswish · 07/11/2005 14:14

where the bloody hell is everyone today?

you're all so quiet. I'm bored so I'm gonna tell you all about my weekend.

I went to see another house on Saturday. It was gorgeous had a huge garden and huge bedroom. DF doesnt like the kitchen but we could work round it. Put an offer in and it was rejected we decided we could offer no more than £89K they wanted £97k so was hoping abit but there you go. Its soooo not fair!! lol was lovely house.

Yesterday we went shopping, watched some films and had a fillet steak dinner. So yummy.

Today I've been looking at rescue centres' web pages and theres some lovely dogs there, i want one now. lol

anyway where are you, what you doing? having a party without me?

rodeo1 · 07/11/2005 14:39

Peepee - thanks for the message on the Nov thread, lovey, we think of you too And the others we lost - Diddle, HK, MaddyD, Xena.

Love and best wishes to you and everyone TTC x x x

HumphreysCorner · 07/11/2005 21:08

Evening ladies

Too busy being back at work to be on here

carly82-sorry to hear that you have MC. Please, please don't give up hun. However many weeks you were it was still a baby. Sending you tons of virtual hugs.(((((((((((((((((xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx)))))))))))))))

wannabump2006-I never suffered from discharge until after my MC-don't know what causes it. ((xx))

mumswish-hope you find a house soon-bit of a busy time of year to house hunt-don't know where you get the energy from! Good luck hun. ((xx))

peepee-sorry you are feeling low hun-it's hard when you know someone who is happily PG isn't it. ((xx))

Diddle, Coathanger (if you are lurking), maddyd, petunia, mygirllolipop, wishingchair, spub and anyone else I've forgotten-hope you are all doing OK. (((xxx)))

I'm too knackered to type anymore so off to my lurvely bed.

Catch ya's later.

xxx

spub · 07/11/2005 22:19

HC - just a quick hello.
How ya doing?

Diddle · 08/11/2005 07:58

carly - fancy worrying about bringing this thread down, you're doing no such thing, this thread is here to support anyone going through a miscarriage or recovering from one, so you feel free to share everything with us, we're here to support you!!!
I am so sorry that you'e going through this, and even though medicaly it is not classed as a baby, it was a baby it was developed enough to have features etc. You're baby will be playing in the nursery in the clouds with my two little angels, don't worry they'll keep him or her company for you, and your baby will always be in your heart x x x

mumswish - tummy is doing ok thanks, its now big enough to hold up me new jeans, which is great as they are so comfy, still feeling pretty yuk, but thats good.

Hope everyone else is ok. sorry i vanished yesterday, had internet trouble, it didnt want me to come on here

mumswish · 08/11/2005 09:14

Morning eveyone

HC - Thanks for the good luck with the house. We've got energy cos we're not doing anything else yet, I know when december comes we'll relax abit cos of xmas but until then I will find my house!!

Didds - Glad to hear belly's good and that its holding up your new jeans, must be starting to show by now?

Carly - How you holding up?

Everyone else, hope you have a good day.

carly82 · 08/11/2005 09:28

morming all
not feeling too bad this morning had a few glasses of wine last night and slept for about eleven hours bleeding seems to be calming down cramps still there though
DIDDLE just wanted to say thanks for your kind words i could almost imagine that little nursery
hope everyone else is good xxxx

mumswish · 08/11/2005 09:47

Glad to hear your feeling a little better carly, just dont stick to the drink well ok, have a few more.... lol.

Diddle · 08/11/2005 11:53

yes mums - i'm huge, jeans are maternity jeans, cannot fit in any old trousers at all, even my joggers dig in.

Rough week thsi week actually, it would ahve been my 2nd babies due date on Friday 11th, so although i'm thrilled to be pregnant i coudl be 39 wks by now

mumswish · 08/11/2005 12:00

oh didds, I'm so sorry to hear that, I've passed all my bad dates now (the first time around) but its still horrible to know that they'll be back.

I hope you feel ok, talk to me if you need to,

I'm off for lunch now tho, but I'll be back in an hour!

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Coathanger · 08/11/2005 12:22

I know I shouldn't be here (by my own doing) but as we are talking milestones, I should have been 20 weeks today I think that is adding to my misery today

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Diddle · 08/11/2005 12:56

OH Coathanger - you have far too much on your mind at the moment, think you need a day off from everything to just gather your thoughts and relax a little, you need a nice spa day, i bet you can't wait until you get that oen next year

mumswish · 08/11/2005 13:04

when is your due date didds? my birthday is in June so was wondering whether it would be close to me

Diddle · 08/11/2005 13:23

due date at the moment is 9th June, but according to my last scan it could be changed to a few das after that, which doesn't surprise me as i know i ovulated later than the 14 days into the cycle. whens your birthday MW?

mumswish · 08/11/2005 13:36

29th June!!

I'm not gonna have a little diddle on my birthday then!!

Diddle · 08/11/2005 14:04

well you never know, anything could happen, don't fancy waiting that long though

mumswish · 08/11/2005 14:25

oh go on keep your legs crossed just for me!!

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