TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

[maddyd]

May this be a lucky lucky thread for us all. xxxx

Diddle & Lottie and Humphreys corner, leave your baby dust before exiting this thread please.

carly82-does sound like you are PG. But, test in the morning with a 10iul and then you can join me on the July thread as I am still all alone on there .

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well, I did it through a legit lender. Northern Rock. But because our incomes are so low £22k a yr between us, they've had to stipulate that we have a 5yr interest one. Plus we were hoping to get a 100% mortgage (which they've given) I get that the 5yrs will be wasted money but thats the only way they'll give it us. Thats why I was hoping we could do an investment and then just give them the 100K in a lump sum. If we cant do that tho, maybe we should either do the interest 1 for 5 yrs THEN pay it back (we were gonna do a 35 yr morgage anyway) or see if we can get one of these shared ownership houses or council house? (with right to buy later)

MUMSWISH - i have a repayment only mortgage, so i dont know much about endowment policies but i know there not a good idea, i agree with HC you should go and see someone then they could go through all your possible options

HC i would love to join you on the july thread i will be keeping everything crossed xx

Oooh my first graduate from this thread. How exciting and a new pal for HumphreysCorner

oh its great! I cant wait till you get your 10ui's to check properly then everyone can give you a proper thumbs up!!

youre not getting rid of me that easily even if its a def bfp i will just hang on here as long as poss (if thats ok )

mumswish-Northern Rock are a fine lender so you will do right by them. The thing that bothers me is that you would like to save up your capital but you would need to save £238 a month for 35 years as well as paying the interest-would it not work out cheaper to pay one repayment to the mortgage? If your mortgage is flexible you can also increase your monthly payments in the future which will drastically reduce the term of your mortgage and you can also pay lump sum payments off it.

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Your welcome to stay Carly. If, and thats a big IF, i get my bfp, i won't be going anywhere! You'll be stuck with me!! hehe!!

carly82-I'm staying put for awhile yet.

I'm meant to be going and doing some housework and I'm still on here. Has your post come yet maddyd?

CH when are you testing? it has been so great to have this chat this morning was feeling like i was going crazy (checking and re checking the test ) its nice to talk to other fellow nutters (meant in an affectionate way )

No it hasnt. Im working away with my ear flapping for the letterbox

Carly i understand you staying, i did last time thank god. Weve made some good friends on theese threads.

dont worry HC im supposed to be working on my coursework!! but the children are quiet (god bless mr cbeebies!) so i thought buggar it the coursework can wait this is much more important lol

HC - If we can do that thats what I'm gonna do. Hopefully we can save up for 5 years whilst paying the interest, then when the after the intro period I'm hoping we can give them a lump sum and ask them to make it to a repayment. So it knocks the capital down and hopefully we've knocked a lot off already. I just hope that works! will ask I think.

Carly & CH - I hope you get your BFP's, But dont you dare go anywhere. LOL. at least keep checking in on me.

I'm gonna be left on my own here this month I think, going on everyones signs! but i'm so happy for you all.

MW any sign of your af yet? i wont leave, i will be here at least until the baby (if there is one) is born lol

nope, no af and any idea of it turning up has gone aswell. (had af signs yesterday but gone now)

I dont know if I should do a pg test cos we've been bding like crazy (got my sex-drive back after coming off the pill )

MW if your anything like me you will test before the week is out but if you can try and hold out till the weekend that way you can save yourself the dissapointment if you keep getting bfn's cos its too early do you know roughly when your af would be have been due?

my af was due about 3 wks ago!! LOL I'm on CD 43 (going on first day of last bleed)

So I've now no idea when it would be due, I just wonder whether I didnt get my withdrawal bleed from the pill because I stopped 2 days before the end of the pack and I havent got one now cos I'm pg. BUT docs did a pg test last thurs and got nothing so I doubt I'd get anything now.

My body is just wierd!

well today would have been cd41 for me because of my strange month last month, and i am only just getting v v faint lines so dont give up hope just yet, i am going to do a 10miu test in the morning if they turn up in the post that way i should know

well maybe, if I wait till the weekend (CD 47, sat) then thats a full week after a doc test so it may show up then!

Thouroughly doubting it tho. I'm thinking I'm just wierd. LOL

I'm back briefly-maddyd-post???

nope no post from maddyd yet. She best hurry up tho. I'm all excited!

Still waiting At least im getting all my work done though otherwise id be pacing the floor. The latest its ever been is 12. Maybe ive got no post today, we will see.

you best let us know ASAP maddyd! can you test that late in the day tho?