TTC after a miscarriage. Good Swimmers & Sticky Baby Dust a Must!!!!

[maddyd]

May this be a lucky lucky thread for us all. xxxx

Diddle & Lottie and Humphreys corner, leave your baby dust before exiting this thread please.

Quick up date on where im at. Waiting for af after another mc. Early one and didnt bleed for long. Not sure when af should come. Shall i count mc as af??? If sio ill be due on Sat 29th, si if i havnt then ill test as its my hen night the day after.

Getting married in 3 weeks time, god i cant believe how quickly its coming roung. Ill be away for 16 days and ill have so much to catch up on so someone will have to keep track of whats happened whilst im a way, so i can have a quick run down on my return.

Brilliant title maddyd!

Hoping to stick around abit longer if that is OK then I'll pinch some babydust and spread it around before I leave.

xxx

Cool Hc. We need all the old favourites on here. We know what we about iyswim.

Anyway how are you feeling? How far on are you? I noticed you did an early 10 ml test, how early did you test then.?

I think im 8dpo now and have ordered some tests for Monday just in case ans have had a pos reading at 10dpo before.

maddyd-tested on the Monday with a 10 iul-nothing, a 20 iul on Tuesday-nothing then used a 10 iul on Wednesday and got a line . So mine worked 3 days before AF due which is today. So have tested every day including today and will then do a clear blue if AF is a week late, so next Saturday. Was so pleased when I got a BFP but am now so worried all the time that I am not enjoying it. Don't know when to contact the midwife-perhaps if I get to 6 weeks.

Good luck to you hun and everything crossed. ((xx))

Off to do some light housework.

xxx

Hi everyone,thought i'd pop onto this new thread and hopefully it will bring us all some good news.x.x
Hope everyones ok?i'm doing alright,really up and down emotionally right now,am contemplating getting some profesional help,but not sure yet,just feel so empty after everything thats gone on
There is a girl in the pub we drink in that is currently 14weeks preg(if hadn't miscarried i would have been 15weeks now),some people were saying that she had miscarried too,and i felt so sorry for her,but saw her yesterday and shes still preg-was just chinese whispers...felt relieved for her then an overwhelming sence of ....i know for a fact that she does alot of drugs(cocaine etc),and that she hasn't stopped either since being preg,and i just think why do people like that have no problems keeping hold of a preg,and i have to go through 2 losses,and i don't smoke,rarely drink,and am generally quite fit!!!(soz for moaning..can't hep having a daily rant atleast once everyday,these days...soz!!)
ANYWAY!!....Mads:so good to have you back on mn(don't wori,my dh has a moan about mn too sometimes!)Have been reading your messages and see your waiting for af like me,i've had spots here and there this week,but no proper af as of yet,so am hoping it will arrive soon so i know where i am.xCan't believe its that close to your wedding either(how exciting!!)I bet you can't wait!
Has anyone heard from chocolatepeanut?..i really miss chatting with her!!?.x.x
Hows everyone else?.x.x
shelley.x

Hi everyone.
Great title

I really hope this is going to be a good one for us all.
DH and I have been at it every day since A/F ended. I have no idea when I will be ovulating and get confused with the tests so we will have a dance every day and see what happens. .·´ ¸.·´¨)
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It's a cruel world.

I agree with you totally.

Hiya Wb and Peepee. This will be the luckiest thread for us all im sure. Gotta stay posotive havnt we or we'd fall apart

Does anyone find them constantly moody, its this ttcing lark im sure as i was never so tectchy before. Dp may beg to differ on that but its always on my mind. dates, temps, bding, cm, am or arnt i. I never thought ttcing would get so stressfull. Im even at the point now that im scared to bd after ov incase it should do any harm to a possible embryo. Im loosing the plot im sure

Shelly have you been trying since the mc or are you waiiting for an af first. If not the spotting could have been implantation, have you had that before. I personally have never experienced it. Hope you are well and stayng brave xxxxxxx

Good night ladies and sweet dreams.

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mygirllolipop-heavens, you are going to be busy next week-hope you have something relaxing planned at the end of it. ((xx))

When I got my BFP last Wednesday the first thing I did was switch the computer on to tell you all and DH just rolled his eyes and said "you're going on mumsnet" and tutted. I told him that the mumsnet ladies have supported me all the way so I am going to share every up and down in my life, so there!

Hope everyone else is having a relaxing weekend. I have just prepared the veg for tea and am now off to do the ironing.

Take care

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Wow! I go away for a day and come bak to find a shiney new thread!!

Have only got a minute so just to let you know I have read all your posts and am sending you all GREAT BIG {{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Will catch up with you all when I have a bit more time to spare.

XXXX to you all

Hiya Coathanger, hope you dont mind a new thread

Does anyone suffer here from pr af cramps. if so how soon before af do you get them?

I never know af is coming but ive been getting theese wierd pains that i only get when pg, i def had them with the last pg, im trying not to analiyise (sp)it too much but its just so similar.

Maddy, I LUURRRRVE the new thread! And what a great title!! I hope this one brings us all lots and lots of luck and babydust! Here's my contribution

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Where is everyone today. My dp is working and im bored out of my skull. Ive finished work, done some housework and entertained children and its only just gone two. Bored

I'm here mads,how are you hunny?.x
AF started in full flow yesterday so am pleased!.x
Means i can keep an eye on things from now on,am going to have another af before we start ttc,just to make sure my body is back in order,i'm so relieved af arrived,mad isn't it!!.x

ok,will be back later.x

Ahh Shelly, how are you. Thats fab about af. How long did it take from the mc?

maddyd-I always get AF cramps at least a week before AF so never know if it is AF arriving or PG symptons but this time these pains started 2 weeks before AF was due but also had lower backache which of course led to a BFP. Fingers crossed hun.

DH calling so better go, he wants me to lift some things into the loft-hope they are not too heavy!

Byee

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Hiya Hc, ive had theese since a couple days past ov. Time will tell i supose, and its just like last time as i was worried about them. Justified for me of course, but ive heard lower ab pain in early pregnancy is a good sign as its the embryo getting embedded. Hope you are looking after your self?????

I'm good mads thanx,its been roughly 5 weeks since miscarriage,so not too bad i guess!?Was wondering when it would show because heard so many different stories about some people having to wait months for their bodies to return to normal,so atleast thats something good in my case.x
Have you been trying again since your m/c?Your braver than me if you have.xI'm so scared of things going wrong again...its kinda put me off abit,but not that i'm gonna leave it for ages,just 2 cycles and then we'll try...fortunatly i've fell preg quite quickly both times previously(touch wood!)so hoping thats the case next time too!
how longs it been for you mads since your m/c?and hows the weding plans going?.x

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Hiya Shells and Mygirl. My last mc was oly 2nd of October so very early yet, i dont think an af would be due till next Fri. I wanted to try starting straight away as i dint find it as traumatic this time round as was so early. o fcourse its very sad but moping wont get me pg will it I wont trust another pg defiantley but i still want to try again.

Wedding plans are going great thanks, am very excited. xxxx

I'm excited for you!!.xIt sounds fantastic,a whole new chapter in your life,as mr and mrs.x.x
Lets hope it brings you lots of happiness and the baby you deserve(i've got a feeling your come back preggers you know!.x.x

Shelly lets hope we both get pg soon so we can get each other through it.
Are you back at work now?