Exclusive TTCers Club - if yer names not down, you ain't comin' in!

[Coathanger]

MORNING!

Thought this would be a nice spot to chat with the TTCers that have been trying for some time. A bit of support for each other and all that!

So, grab a drink, and a barstool, and get chatting.

There's bouncers on the door, so no riff-raff, and the licence is LATE,LATE,LATE!!

Oh and loads of baby dust on tap!!
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Enjoy, Ladies!

Heres hoping Coathanger

I pushed dd off a swing. She wanted to go on a big swing but she didnt hold on tight enough and went flying. Literally.

Hows you?

Awww, bless her (your DD) It could n't be helped, just one of those childhood accidents.

I'm well. Doing okay. The spa day helped a lot hehe! Not sure if the anti-depressants are working or if I would have felt better anyway without them. But I'm not complaining, life seems a litle less of a worry for me right now.

Just want to give you this, Maddy, coz I think you deserve it

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Ch- So true! if I am obviously I'd be over the moon. Still feel really periody iykwim.
Maddy- Awwwwww. These things happen hun! Hope she feels better soon and hope they gave her a really funky cast!
Terrified about testing. Excited but terrified

We go back next fri for another x ray and a re cast so will get her a pink one then. (she needs to match the wedding colour scheme)

Hellkat im nervous for you too.

Ch which spa did you got to as i work for one of the major ones???? Just being nosey

Lol but of course Mad! She needs to be in with the wedding scheme . How long until the big day now?

4 weeks tomorrow we fly off. Cant wait.

When did you last test Hellkat?

Im going to test the day before my hen night so i know ether i can drink or not. That will be 28 days since the early mc so dont think ill be testing to early.

I tested Friday morning and bfn. That was the day i was due to start. I'm never late either so definitely wondering what's up.
Great idea about your testing!

I tested Friday morning and bfn. That was the day i was due to start. I'm never late either so definitely wondering what's up.
Great idea about your testing!

Poxy computer lol

Morning ladies

Maddyd-how distressing for you all. These things do happen and you just can't do anything about it. Hope she is OK and soon mended. Ooh, just 4 weeks to go. Brings back such memories. ((xx))

HellKat-what do they think the lump is? lol at you bedding and bringing AF on-I swear by that theory as it always works. Tried my hardest to keep DH out last night and it worked thank goodness-just need to be prepared for later as DD going to watch SIL horse jumping and I suspect DH has plans for later. Methinks I will have to confess about testing. My boobs are killing and the squeeze test produces milk really easily. I will be soooooooooo disappointed if I'm not PG this month. Really hope you are though and that the lump disappears. I will be testing at 6-30am as it is up early to get DD to nursery for 8am-can't wait to log on and see how you got on. GOOD LUCK ! ((xx))

Coathanger-early night for you then hun . ((xx))

Right veg to prepare. My diet has been working and my trousers are loads slacker so v.pleased.

Love to everyone and have a good day and I'll catch you all later.

xx

Yep Hc definitely works, guarenteed lol. I have'nt even bought the test lol so will do later all prepared for the morning. My boobies are still dripping when squeezed. Weird is'nt it?

The nurse is'nt sure. It's been there since before I got pg earlier this year and gone from the size of a pin head to the size of a 20p. Causing loads of pain up inside etc. After smear results come through, I've got to make an appt with the gp then get a referral to the hosp.

Oh, Maddy forgot to say, I went to Walletts Court Hotel and Spa in St margarets near Dover. It is small bu tit done the trick! I went to Brandshatch last year. Can't remember the name of the place but it backed onto the race track! That was a lovely one.

How lovely working for a spa! What do you do?

Ch i work for Nirvana Spa. Look it up on the internet. www.nirvanaspa.co.uk. Its lovely.

Ive been there 7 tears ansd was in Management but since the kids i just do the data inputting as it means i can work from home. Flexiable hours, as long as i do the work i can do it when i want which is fab. My other half is senior mamger there and my oldest dd is a flotation therapist there too/

Sounds fab, Maddy!! Does it mean you get free membership ??

I love visiting spas. Made a vow last year to make sure I do it once a year. Love it! All the pampering and relaxation - Ahhhhhhh! hehe

Will look yours up on internet.....

OMG!! Maddy, it gorgeous!!! If I CAT you my address, is it possible to get a brouchure sent to me??? I would love to go there next year! Do you have to be a member to have a Spa Day? Oh, I hope not, I WANT TO GO!!!!

Yep do that and ill send you all the details. You an treat yourself for the day or evening and you get a flotation included on most packages. Its all on the website actually, but if you book through me i will get discount.

Yes i can use whenever i like but i just dont get or make the time.

Fab! I have CATted you my details. Ooo, I can't wait! Will get saving now. I think spa days are an essential part of life and are a must! hehe!!

Thank you Maddyd XX

Do you know, there has been something playing on my mind today.

I dreamt I was 18 weeks PG last night. Didn't think much of it when I woke up but it has really got to me as the day has progressed. I can remember this dream really vividly. I had to go to hospital for a routine check and I remember having a bump, a noticable bump but not huge, and the midwife telling me i was 18 weeks.

God, its really got to me. Why 18 weeks - whats the significance of that? Arrgghh! I was feeling quite a bit better, but this playing on my mind has pulled me right down again.

Am I the only one here today?

Apart from Maddy earlier....

Ahh Ch i often dream i am pregnant and then feel like s*e the next day. Look it up on the web under dreams or something and maybe they have a reason.

Its just prob cos its on our minds 24/7

I know you are right Maddy. I also have a feeling its coz, regardless of the fact DH seems against the idea of having another baby, we had, um, norty nookie yesterday on CD12 with EWCM. Probably playing on my mind that I might, but a big might, be PG this month. Its not obviously on my mind, i mean I'm not thinking about it all the time, but I am aware that it could happen. Just like all of us on here, I really want another, and knowing Dh is agianst it adds further pressure.

I want to scream! I really want to be happy that we BDed without being careful and it didn't seem to bother DH, but I'm also scared that if I do go on to conceive that Dh will be cross (even though he should have known better) and worse still, scared of MCing again.

I know this is a fear you all have, but I have such mixed emotions over this....

Sorry this was a bit long, just really need to get stuff off my chest

Ch-{{{{{{{{{{{[hugs}}}}}}}}}} awww hunny!
I keep dreaming of being pg too, think we all do. Weird how before having kids and before ttc you never do.
I just tested again and bfn. Still no af. So bizarre. Only thing i can think of is maybe my cycle's decided to switch to a 28 day one instead of 20/21 days? In that case I'll be due next Friday. Odd because I've always had a short one. Confusion!!!!!
Have a spare test though to do in the morning first thing. Not holding out hope. At this rate I don't care which comes first just something

Hell! I'm bored! DH working today, DSs playing, and nobody to talk to....

I'm lonely....

All by myself....

Should be doing house work, but i've already done the usual day to day stuff but its my weekend too, so why do extra work????

Anybody there for a chat.....?