Exclusive TTCers Club - if yer names not down, you ain't comin' in!

[Coathanger]

MORNING!

Thought this would be a nice spot to chat with the TTCers that have been trying for some time. A bit of support for each other and all that!

So, grab a drink, and a barstool, and get chatting.

There's bouncers on the door, so no riff-raff, and the licence is LATE,LATE,LATE!!

Oh and loads of baby dust on tap!!
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Enjoy, Ladies!

Morning all........
HellKat,
I sometimes feel like you. I was feeling the same yesterday. DH and I had a long chat and eventually we decided to keep going. We have no kids together and he already has two. So it was really quite an issue at first. He is happy to go along with our decision but is just not as excited and dedicated as me.
You know what as soon as you stop it'll happen
Good luck and hopefully you will be back soon to say Hi!

I have loads of sweeties left over. The trick or treaters stopped coming round after 7.30 as it started to rain here.
I am going to lie in bed feeling sorry for myself and eat the sweeties.

CH, I read your post TTC thread, does this mean you are not going to be lurking on this thread either?
I will miss 'my care in the community' freind

Don't gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo.
BOO HOO, BOO HOO...........

Don't cry Peepee hehe! I'm going to stay on here for a while....

....but watch this space coz there will be something new this afternoon!!

Oo-er, what could it be??!!

Got you all a-thinkin' now!....

Going to a birthday party this afternoon so got to go and get sorted for that. But will be back later on so will chat then....

Lotsa luv everyone! XX

Only just worked out what TTC means so yes I am a TTC er!!! Have another thread Can't get pregnant....... finding it SO frustrating seeing as it took no effort on our part to conceive ds who is now 3 and a half.

Doesn't help that we both work full-time and husband also works 4 nights out of 7, drink too much (me) and stress too much (him)!!!!

Oh and ds doesn't sleep through the night, wets the bed and has violent tantrums. But I love my life!!!!!

CH, What's new????????????????
You said you would be back this afternoon!

HEY!! Peepee!!! Good to see ya, matey!!

Got a new thread to chat on! Now I am not TTCing at all I have decided I want no more talk of all things relating to bonking for babies!! Just bonking for fun!! hehe!! Hope to see you there!! The first post says it all.....

Evening ladies

HellKat-so, so sad that you are leaving us. Crikes, it's like the scene from Grease at the end when they wonder if they'll ever see the gang again! Well, at least you can speak to us occasionally on Coathanger's new thread and I will search your name for messages in the future to keep my eye on you. Lots and lots of love and hugs to you and your family hun and thank you for all your support over the past few months. (((xxx)))

Hi to Baba! ((xx))

Hello to everyone else. Are we still posting on both threads or are we to use just the one?

Off for an early night as have had 2 crazy, busy days at work and have not been used to hard work

Night night

xxx

Anyone know anything about ovarian cancer? Someone just put the fear of god into me after telling me their ex-wife died of it after having symptoms which felt like cystitis and I have had this for a few weeks.... its not as bad as cystitis but still feels like you need to wee a lot.

Coupled that with the fact that we are TTC, am I just being a drama queen?

no reason why you shouldn't be a drama queen, although i would imagine its very unlikely for it be cancer. have you been to get it checked out baba?

Nooooooo, but I know I should - I will make an appointment, especially after hearing that particular horror story. I am just concentrating so much on TTC but its getting me down that its not happening. I was adopted as a baby and it was so important to me to have my own child and now that its happened and its the most wonderful thing, I want to have that feeling all over again.

I will be devastated if we can't conceive but then I keep thinking, well at least I am lucky enough to have one....

Does anyone else have the pregnancy symptoms every month and find that they are just period symptoms.

I can't remember how I felt when I was pregnant the first time?

baba i had that for lots of months, i think it is all psychological, about 4 motnhs ago i was sure i was pregnant and really got myself convinced, and i ddin't believe any tests, then af arrived and i was so upset.
I am now 8 wks pregnant, so you will get there eventually, it has taken 6 months to get this far, previously we managed to conceive but suffered 2 miscariages in the last 11 months, i'm so worried this will go wrong too.

oops sorry got carried away.

you must get checked out baba, it coudl be something simple that they can treat easily.

Diddle, that's really sad news and I can totally understand how you must be really stressed with everything that has happened before. Congratulations on your pregnancy though, I don't know how far gone you were with your other pregnancies and don't want to pry but hopefully 8 weeks is longer than before? I know its such early days but the only thing I can say is just to take it easy and make sure they are monitoring you at the hospital - will you have an early scan?

Diddle, that's really sad news and I can totally understand how you must be really stressed with everything that has happened before. Congratulations on your pregnancy though, I don't know how far gone you were with your other pregnancies and don't want to pry but hopefully 8 weeks is longer than before? I know its such early days but the only thing I can say is just to take it easy and make sure they are monitoring you at the hospital - will you have an early scan?

thanks baba - i got to just under 9 wks last time, and 7 wks the time before so by friday i will have gone further than before. although i know its early days anything can happen. The midwife isn't monitoring me any closer and I have had an early scan privately because the midwife wouldn't get me one. stupid woman.

Fingers crossed for both of us.