TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

slinkstah - i think everyone is different, some people don't have many symptoms at all, i guess you just have to wait and see.

with my mc, I never had no symptoms really. Ooh I had sore boobs for a day on the day I was due AF. and I couldnt lie on my tummy once I got the +ive but I think that was all in my head.

i had sore boobs with my 2nd pregnancy, very sore, didn't want to lie on my front but thats the only way i can sleep. Wish i had sore boobs now

cd 34

ok seeing as no bleeding yet I've worked out where I am in this cycle.

I'm CD 22 So maybe I should stop worrying!

how can you know where you are in your cycle? if you've been on the pill? Is it 22 days since your last bleed, sorry totally confusing myself now. So it is 22 days since you're last period started, so surely your body might think that it should still be on the pill and won't bleed until cd 28, is that possible

I'm thinking thats what it is. Which is why I'm confused. Its 22 days since I last bled. so I'm sooo confused now. some where along the line I'm must have forgotten to take a pill or something cos I always put a red mark on the calendar when I'm bleeding and when I put this info in ferility it told me I was on CD22. [confused face]

I think i'll just wait until I bleed next time and go from there. Never mind this fertility friend stuff. If I can get pg on the pill last time then I'm sure I can get pg off the pill this time!! just a matter of when

the pill sounds very confusing i have never understood it so have you completely come off it now?

yeh. As of last Friday. Not going back on for ages!! I hated it!

You're meant to have 3 wks on and 1 wks off. (28 days)

I had 3 wks on and 1 wk off. I started bleeding (since mc op) about 2 days before meant to start pill again. So it was always very confusing. I think my cycle is meant to be more than 28 days. Thats the only thing that will explain it.

i went on the pill once for only about a week or two because i did not want af on holiday but i had so many side effects like depression and well just general crazyness lol i decided that it doesn't agree with me and have never used it as contraception. i had the coil for contraception, that worked really well.
my cycle is never 28 days either i am averaging a 26 day. depending on how youcount it it could well be classed as 25 days.

if i count from first day of af being day 1 and i have af again on day 26 is that cycle 26 days or 25 days?

slink 25 days, cd 26 becomes cd 1 if af comes that day

does anyone need e new thread yet? is it taking ages to load?

I mentioned about a new thread last night. It is starting to get really slow. I just thought it was the comps at work.

sorry mumswish must have missed that message, right if we can all hold out 2 more days, i'd like to test on this thread and start a new one on saturday if thats ok with you lot. Hopefully this thread will bring me some luck. and lottie and slinstah.

I'm sure we can wait a little longer. Can we get someone who got a BFP to start the new thread (preferably with baby dust) and then maybe we can get their luck.

Good luck on Saturday didnt realise you were testing soon Diddle. In fact good luck to everyone testing saturday! [good luck emotion]

see what we can do mumswish

Was just thinking maybe we shouldnt talk so much but then "bugger it" I'm bored!

Thanks for everyones lovely messages.

Just to let you know im fine. No bleeding at all. Its vey strange and different to the last one but i guess this time it was very early.

Anyway i wont hang about and i wont let my body beat me. Im not waiting for af to arrive ill just get straight on the job and try not to think about it till we get back from the wedding. At least i can focus on that.

hi everyone, very excited about the next testing and i think you are all right to wait to start new thread with a bfp i am going to use an early test on monday and hope for the best, what a nightmare reading all the stuff about the tests being a bad idea, i just need something to hold on to and can't wait for 17th!! Good luck everyone.....much babydust all round the country.....

hey maddyd, glad to hear you and sending you big hugs....

Hiya Maddyd,

Glad to hear your ok. Remember we're here if you need us. Keep smiling and big hugs

Hi Maddyd! You sound very strong and thats good. But you know where to come if you need to shout/scream/sob/wail/explode/any of the above! Lots of love to you Maddyd xxx

maddyd - good to hear from you, hope you're really as strong as you sound. PLease give yourself chance to grieve, don't bottle it up. we're here if you want to rant and rave. I hope all the wedding plans go well, keep us informed, i love weddings x x x

Epu have just phoned and explained it takes a few weeks for levels to get to zero so not to test anymore as causes unecessary upset. After the last one i kew it was def over as had a d&c this time its just like i was never pg at all and in someways more difficult.

Anyway i wont dwell.

Really looking forward to seeing some posotives results on saturday from you lot

thanks maddyd

• fingers crossed, although i'm beginning to wodner why were bothering, it just brings on more stress and possible heartache, someone tell me its worth it in the end. I want to be a mommy