TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Morning all.
Cp- So sorry af showed. Wonder where the little madam had been hiding?
Ch- You cow lol. I'd forgotton about that then then what do I see? Cheers me dear!

Well had an email from Maddy. Bless her, strong as ever. She's doing ok, had a good cry, especially when she read the messages here. She's so grateful for the support here as we're the only one's who know what it's like.
She's taking time out for a few days to recharge her batteries and get her head together but she'll be back soon. She also says a big thankyou and good luck to any testers!

{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}} Stay strong hun we're here. x

Maddy I'm so sorry, thinking of youxxxx

thanks for the update hellkat - Hope you're not in too much paint today, did you get a good nigths sleep?

morning to everyone else.

bless maddyd- she's always thinking of us, even in her time of crisis. This thread has just proved how many friends she has behind her. i hope she has a good break.

Morning Diddle!
Thanks hun. pain's alot better. Just mainly in my back now. Looks like I'll have to get that lovely smear done in the morning .
Yep, this thread is a godsend. We've all become so close, when one hurts, we all do.

Hellkat - thats just how i feel too, you're so good with words. Its so sad that we are watching our friends go through this, its heartbreaking

Why thankyou hun!
Lol comes from taking Politics at uni .

even my dp was so gutted for her. That can so easily be us again.

Awwww. Little ds2 is running around, dragging a length of string and the cats chasing him lol. he's cracking up. Guess he found a great new toy!

P.s Ch- Wahooooooooooo no ring of fire!

Hello thought I would say a quick hi before I dash off again.
I had my second scan yesterday to check that nothing was left after the m/c. THankfully it wasn't and all looks ok.

Can I ask how long people waited before trying again. We were told just to wait one cycle but I thought I read somewhere that if you try too soon it can increase the risk of another m/c?

Any ideas???

My dd and I are off to see Granny this morn, she is 2 today and very excited. Had a fabulous party on Sunday for her and she has even more toys to play with now. But also got one of those baby drivers with parent hadnle so we can go for walks in the park:-)

Morning ladies

HellKat-I really do hope you are not in too much paint-lol at Diddle's message. My smear was 2 years ago so hopefully not due one yet. Lie back and think of England. At my old Drs they had posters of hunky men on the ceiling to look at. ((xx))

CHOCOLATEPEANUT-hell, 40 days is a long cycle-bit like being on Noah's Ark! Sorry about AF but you are probably relieved as I was when mine arrived 9 days late last month. Have a lovely holiday. ((xx))

You lot and your "ring of fire" PMSL-even a korma is too hot for me so I just don't go there.

Maddyd-thinking of you. ((xx))

Hello to everyone else, gotta go as I can hear DD crying again, she is still poorly. Think I'm getting it as I have to keep running to the loo.

Back later
xx

Good news Carmeli-when I first read you message I couldn't work out how Granny was only 2 but then realised so Happy Birthday to DD.

After we got the all clear we just got on with it but 3 AF's later I still haven't fell so just do what you feel is right. I do think you should wait for at least 1 or 2 AF's but if you felt like I did there was no way I was going to wait. Depends where you read about conceiving straight after a MC-some do MC again but some go on to have a perfectly healthy pregnancy. ((xx))

carameli - I read that somewhere too, about there being an increased chance of it happening again. The first time we didn't wait at all, and got pregnant before my next period, we lost that pregnancy too. so we decided to wait this time, and it has been 6 months, i guess my body isn't ready yet to carry a baby and i'm very glad we waited. The first time we thought it was a risk trying so soon, but knew if it was meant to be ok it would be. We had to try for our own piece of mind.
Very glad the scan was clear for you, start trying when ever you feel ready.

HC - he he did not notice my awful spelling, too much typing has fuddled my brain

Maddyd - I'm so sorry to hear whats happened. Take all the time you need and always know we're hear to listen if you need us.

HK - Hows the ring of fire today? LOL

Hope everyone if feeling ok. Sorry to hear about the AF's showing up. She's a right bitch!

I still not got no AF and she should officially be here today going on my normal routine. I'm really annoyed I cant start TTC until she's been and gone!! ARGH!! O well!

mumswish it will be worth the wait, she might turn up later

Hc- Lucky you having pretty piccys to look at! All I'll have is a big ol' industrial light (you know the one's they have in hospitals)
Mums- No burn this morning! I;m getting tough in me old age

HK - Glad to hear you were fine this morning then. I think you've passed it to me tho, If you know what I mean LOL

Diddle - Thanks. It may be worth the wait means I'll get a proper clear out. Just wish it would HURRY UP!

diddle you course sounds great, i was just about to finish my 2nd year at uni when my baby was born too early to make it. i managed to scrape to pass that year and was going to take a year out but changed my mind yesterday so i enrolled for 3rd year. i am doing multimedia computing. i always do things at last minute too i am gonna try and change that this year as i have 9 assignments in the next 14 weeks so i must get organised.

wow slink - i thought i had a lot with one assignment, i couldn't cope with 9

my course is pretty hectic this year - i am dreading the work load but have told dp to help more with kids and house. i thought i'd do 1 big effort this year and get it over and done with. although if i am pg then i might have to consider part time.

i keep waking up in the morning and feeling my boobs hoping they are hurting, as thats usually the first sign i am pg, usualy well before missed AF but nothing as yet.
i think if i am not pg this month i will give it some time before ttc again as i am too scared of going into early labour again. i'd rather not be at uni when im 20 weeks. i think i will rather be in bed relaxing, well doing anything possible to keep my next baby inside.

when do other people start feeling pg symptoms?

when do other people start feeling pg symptoms?

oops sorry for repeated entry computer is crazy