TTC after a miscarriage - Ready to try again, we can do it this time!!!

[Diddle]

Well I think after all our chatting its about time we had a new thread, as the previous one was very lucky for us, lets hope this one remains just as lucky.

Remember ladies - Our time will come, but our bodies have to be ready, and we are all here to support each other.

For those new people please feel free to check out our Stats thread, to see some info about us and leave you details if you want to.

GOOD LUCK!!!!

Just the sound of "that" word makes me cringe now Errrgghhhhh!

Will be going to into town at about 9 ish. Will be home about 10 am I imgine. Will probably do test in cafe toilets coz DH knows nothing about this and he is at home today. Will come on here as soon as I know!

Would be great if I am, although DH will probably think i'm having an affair!!

Lol!! Good luck hun!!

Well, I'm off now to but a test. As soon as I know the outcome I will let you know. Although I'm sure I'm not PG could I ask you all to keep something crossed for me? Miracles do happen!

CH!! I haven't read all the messages over weekend but just noticed you may be pg? Everything crossed for you and best of luck....let us know asap please.

I am looking for advice re: spotting just after ov, is it the implanting of egg? If this happens what is it like, and what do you feel like? After mc I would be surprised if af went back to regular 28 days but we did try around the 14 day time and
I am now about 16/17 so what do you think? I don't think this happened with either last 2 pg's.

Thanks for any advice you have girls....

Maddyd

Hope all goes well todayx

Hey Maddyd, sorry I didn't see your posts either and want to send lots of best wishes to you too, we will be thinking of you and here if you need anyone to talk to. Keeping fingers and toes crossed 4 u.

Morning ladies

maddyd-(((((((XXXXXXXX)))))))

peepee-really hope you are PG (((xxx)))

Coathanger me old mucker, if it is +ive are you sure you are not having some extra marital nudge, nudge, GOOD LUCK!! ((xx))

HellKat-I have shares in panty liners-never had discharge until I had my MC-it's yuk yuk isn't it? ((xx))

I bath or shower every morning and if I'm going out at night I will have another. DH is lucky to bath once a week-it is the only thing that I hate about him. I blame his mother as she has an aversion to getting wet so won't shower or swim but manages a weekly bath-GRRRRRRRRRHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!

Dropped DD at nursery this morning and she clung to me for dear life crying her eyes out. I have had to leave her though as she needs to get used to it especially when I'm at work on a Monday.

Hope everyone else is OK and good luck to all you testers. Must go as the ironing calls!

Back later to check up on maddyd and Coathanger.

xxx

Hc- yep it is. I used to get it years ago when endo first kicked in. So glad poor dp does'nt do the washing!

oh humphreys - i'm sure your dd will be fine, they always are ater you leave them. Our playgroup has a coffee shop right next door and a lot of the parents wait in there and get an update ten minutes later. very good idea.

coathanger - lots of luck for you today, hope your DH doesn't read mumsnet too. we don't want to spoil the surprise for him

hi everyone
good luck coathanger i have my fingers crossed for you
maddy thinking of you today i really hope things are alright.

Goodmorning everybody,

PeePee - I'm sure you r pg and fingers crossed I'm right?

CH - Good luck with your testing I hope you get what you want.

Maydd - I hope its not a mc, good luck and docs I'll b thinking of you.

I think I'm on CD 2 today although not convinced as my body is being very strange. Wanted to tell you all and see what you think but it is very TMI! so will have to wait it out and see I think.

Hope you're all having a brill day.

Thank you for all your messages Its nice to know you all care so much.

Well, I've done it...

BFN

Actually I'm not too sad. Whilst waiting for result to show, I had flash backs to when I had to tell DH last time. I think I'd rather be PG with his say so (not that I'm under the thumb, well, you know what I mean!).

Never mind, next month perhaps

oh CH - don't forget there is still hope, you still haven't come on. stay positive.

mumswish - feel free to stay anything strange to us, we don't mind, we're just nosy really

aw sorry coathanger that its not +
maybe you should chat with dh and let hime know how important this is to you- maybe he will reconsider.

CH - Sorry to hear that. Its always better when you've BOTH planned tho. I'm sure he will come around. Just remind him of the times when the other kids were little. I hope you acn sort things out. Hugs***

Thanks Diddle.

BEWARE VERY TMI!!

I had really bad cramps yesterday and had very brown clotty discharge but no bleeding. Its been like that since... Very very Light tho, No point in even wearing towel kinda thing (although I am cos yuk!) I'm so confused. I've Always had VERY heavy bleeding for days at a time. I just dont know what this is as I've NEVER had it before.

Mumswish do you think you should do a test to make sure all is well? You stopped talking the pill 2 days ago is that right? So, you should be having a bleed now, as you normally would when you finish a pack of pills. Maybe you have fallen PG and your bady wants to have a bleed but can't.

Awww Ch {{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}x
Mumswish- Join the club! We've got the brown icky stuff too. Mines just now started clotting. Lovely!

But there is no hope of me being pg. For starters we've only had sex twice and 1 of which didnt end with anything. Plus I'm on the pill (not been ill, not missed one which is what caught me last time) I just dont know what it is. I have a test in car from last scare but I dont want to use it as we havent been ttc yet as such and I dont want bp to think I have without him knowing. ARGH! Plus it wouldnt be clotty if I was would it?

Sorry guys, I'm always freaked out when that part of me does something different. Am prob just panicking over nothing.

HK, do you think its endo thats causing your "yuck"?

how come everyone is having spotting!! bit weird huh.

Mumswish - I know its highly unlikely but it only takes once . Just wondering why you haven't had a proper "end of pack normal bleed" if you get me!

STUPID QUESTION ALERT

Whats the difference between spotting and bleeding?