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SIL gift. Which would you prefer?

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Elf36 · 29/11/2024 14:28

Looking for some advice for buying my SIL a gift. She is very nice but also quite difficult to get really close to so I'm afraid all gift ideas I have for her are quite generic. She goes to the gym a lot, she loves her cat, she likes plants I believe and has a sweet tooth. Bought her a jumper for the gym last year.

As generic gifts go, this is what I have so far in terms of ideas:

  1. A rituals gift set (posh shower gel, candle and body cream etc)
  2. A kittens/cat wall calendar and some posh chocolates
  3. Nice pyjamas

Are these all just a bit crap?
Which would you prefer? Any other ideas? Budget up to about £40

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murasaki · 29/11/2024 16:29

One year I threatened to knit my sister a pair of socks from my cat's hair as he is a fluffy boy who sheds a lot. Luckily she declined with a look of horror as I can't knit.

sunshineandshowers40 · 29/11/2024 16:32

The rituals gift set if I was your SIL.

Letmegohome · 29/11/2024 16:32

murasaki · 29/11/2024 16:29

One year I threatened to knit my sister a pair of socks from my cat's hair as he is a fluffy boy who sheds a lot. Luckily she declined with a look of horror as I can't knit.

😮😂 so funny and awful in equal measure !
I do know someone who needle felted a cat brooch for another friend using her own cats fur , the receiver was genuinely distraught about it!

Gardendiary · 29/11/2024 16:34

Get her some pjs from M&S online and you can email the gift receipt to her so she can swap if she doesn’t like them.

murasaki · 29/11/2024 16:36

Letmegohome · 29/11/2024 16:32

😮😂 so funny and awful in equal measure !
I do know someone who needle felted a cat brooch for another friend using her own cats fur , the receiver was genuinely distraught about it!

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Omg, that is a really bad present. What was she thinking???

GettingStuffed · 29/11/2024 16:46

I'd love the rituals set.

Letmegohome · 29/11/2024 16:47

@murasaki I've no idea I watched it happen in slow motion, the absolute delight on the givers face the utter WTF on the receivers face followed by dry heaving

RollingInTheAisles · 29/11/2024 16:53

A Hotel Chocolat three month subscription?

CandyCane457 · 29/11/2024 17:07

1 or 3!

I love my cat and am obsessed with her, but not really interested in other random cats so the calendar wouldn’t do it for me!

ThatIsNotMyNameSoWhyAreYouCallingMeThat · 29/11/2024 17:18

RollingInTheAisles · 29/11/2024 16:53

A Hotel Chocolat three month subscription?

Depends what sort of chocolate she likes. Would be a waste for me as I only like really dark stuff.

ThatIsNotMyNameSoWhyAreYouCallingMeThat · 29/11/2024 17:19

Gardendiary · 29/11/2024 16:34

Get her some pjs from M&S online and you can email the gift receipt to her so she can swap if she doesn’t like them.

Assuming she isn’t a M+S boycotter……

Letmegohome · 29/11/2024 17:41

So far it's seems to be between the rituals set and my cat socks 😂 these seem to have caused the least offence! Good luck @Elf36

Birdscratch · 29/11/2024 17:50

Chocolates, gym leggings or the toiletries (but only if she likes that brand.) I’d add a grow your own catnip or cat grass kit as a little bit of silliness.

Elf36 · 29/11/2024 17:52

Letmegohome · 29/11/2024 17:41

So far it's seems to be between the rituals set and my cat socks 😂 these seem to have caused the least offence! Good luck @Elf36

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murasaki · 29/11/2024 21:19

If I got gym leggings I'd see it as a pass agg dig that I needed to go the the gym.

Elf36 · 29/11/2024 21:23

So would I! but she definitely goes to the gym most days so she wouldn't see it as a dig fairly sure.

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Elf36 · 29/11/2024 21:23

I take the point though

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GargoylesofBeelzebub · 29/11/2024 21:24

I would get her something from sweaty Betty or lululemon if she likes going to the gym.

I'd hate pjs or rituals.

Mill3nnial · 29/11/2024 21:27

I love a diary and pyjamas but I'm fussy and like to choose my own.

I think a calendar or nice gift set like rituals or loccitane or molton brown is lovely

my other go to idea this year is benefit mascara gift sets - lots of women wear mascara

ObieJoyful · 29/11/2024 21:28

Out of your suggestions, I’d go for a really nice plant, or a candle.