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Non medical but worrying day off that I can't cover wwyd ?

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AngelaChill · 02/09/2006 22:33

My CM has found a lump in her breast which obviously she's worried sick about and has booked herself an appointment at a private hospital for Tuesday, she's told me this, not asked if it's ok iyswim. Now I know i'd be worried to death about finding a lump but I really cannot take this time off and DH would be unpaid which we can't afford. I don't want to sound like a heartless cow but she had Friday off at short notice for an uncles funeral and now this, would it be completely awful to ask her to rebook for Wednesday ?

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Piffle · 06/09/2006 18:16

snap WB

AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:16

Sorry to hear that Jessica but money worries aren't exclusve to those on income support or low incomes the higher you climb the more balls you have to keep in the air and the further you fall if it all goes wrong.

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HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:16

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bundle · 06/09/2006 18:19

batters is an expert troll spotter - in fact not just troll spotting but identifying the b*ers

AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:19

I'm not a troll at all and yes my ex decided if i wouldn't abort my DD then our marriage was over and as a result i had to leave my friends, job and home in Australia and come home and start again (hence I get maintane in $$$).
Luckily when DD1 was 3 months old I met DH and on September 2001 we decided to make DD2 as we were so upset and hit the jackpot first time hence the 22 month gap.

There life story.

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Piffle · 06/09/2006 18:19

Broke at a higher level AC
Totally understand
Why oh why the troll hunt.
If you do not think she is being truthful, then walk away. Cannot believe the nastiness on this thread. Really uncalled for

bundle · 06/09/2006 18:19

la la la la la la la la la

AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:20

Keep trying happy - if it makes you happy

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HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:21

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WelshBoris · 06/09/2006 18:24

HappyMum you're OBSESSED

STEP AWAY FROM THE THREAD

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:25

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:35

Happy - As it is a Wednesday she hasn't been in today, it is her day off. Btw I am waiting for an apology

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HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:39

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Greensleeves · 06/09/2006 18:41

HMo2, don't drag this nonsense out any longer...surely it would be better to just let it fizzle out?

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:42

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AngelaChill · 06/09/2006 18:49

In your quest for the truth you basically called me a slag - you don't have to apologise but that's a reflection of you and you were very out of order.

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ggglimpopo · 06/09/2006 18:56

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looneytune · 06/09/2006 18:57

Well if you're attitude towards people who have suffered is a reflection on you then I think you are an awfully cold person!! I've only picked a couple of bits out from earlier in the thread but I think how you responded was HORRIBLE!!! First one was just after someone mentioned having just lost her mum to Breast Cancer

AngelaChill on Sunday, 3 September, 2006 4:07:53 PM
My final word and you can all carry on without me with tears in your eyes if you must, is that I will have to resign, end of.

By AngelaChill on Sunday, 3 September, 2006 4:28:51 PM
Flossam - nobody is being heartless - your mum is a very different kettle of fish, for a start she is the right age to be at risk of Breast Cancer, my CM isn't, it will be extremely unlucky if that is what she has. I'm afraid on planet real world, people cannot drop everything and that would include me if I had the lump.

HappyMumof2 · 06/09/2006 18:57

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