mmm can't answer that,being a novice is fun and frustrating, putting the tent up usually is a laugh, as long as it isn't raining
I have camped all my life, family holidays were usually in a tent, i don't think people check out what you have brought, they might check out your tent, but I don't think it is in a negative way, i would like open doors day at campsites, so I can check out what others do, out of nosiness but for ideas too...
I always forget how thin the tent is once inside, you can hear every convo