Congratulations BrownOwl, and good vibes for Rumpel, Purplejennyrose and Disney (though Rumpel, you were due after me - queuejumping is not polite you know).
Had the final scan for LO today, so everything still looks fine, her doppler blood flow is in normal range and all measurements either average or above average. However, due to the anti-Es, they do not want me to go much overdue, so have to go to hosp next Tues so they can assess need for induction. On the positive side, I can labour in the birthpool on the consultant-led unit! They don't want me to give birth there as I had a PPH after dd2, and they also want me to have a managed third stage for the same reason.But hey, they listened to me, they went and got the consultant mw (who specialises in VBACs) and we got to an agreed compromise. Now, there better be no-one in that pool or using the telemetric unit when I go in.
Libra1975, I never resented my baby when I had my first one, but I did resent my dh sometimes, especially when he started resuming a bit of a social life and I should say, that only meant an occasional drink out with his workmates after work. It didn't help that he worked with a very beautiful vibrant woman at the time, and I wasn't surprised that he would want to spend time with her rather than me. There was nothing going on, I hasten to add (I'd been at her wedding when pg with dd1), I was just feeling all fat and frumpy and insecure. It might be worth warning him, and suggesting that pampering of you would not go amiss, even when the baby's a few months old, rather than a few days.