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Pregnant after MC due December 14

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Penguin13 · 03/04/2014 09:07

If you're pregnant after a previous MC and due in December 14 this is the thread for you.

If you're an obsessive knicker-checker or just want someone to chat to who knows where you're coming from you'll fit right in.

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MrsFtn · 06/05/2014 09:41

Sorry to hear of all the sad news on here recently.
Very best of luck to those having scans today.
I'm just waiting for my mw appt but to be honest I feel like it's a waste of time as all my symptoms have gone and I just don't feel pregnant anymore. Roll on 12 weeks to know one way or the other!

Sollers · 06/05/2014 12:05

Bad news from me i'm afriad. No heartbeat and measuring far too small for 8 weeks. So i think i'm out.

Best of luck to you all. xx

PresidentSpreadable · 06/05/2014 12:10

I'm so, so sorry Sollers, take care of yourself. x

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Penguin13 · 06/05/2014 13:21

Sollers I'm so sorry. I hope you and yout partner are able to take some time today to process the news and comfort each other. Just so sorry you are going through this again Sad

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DrFunkesFamilyBandSolution · 06/05/2014 13:26

Sollers, so sorry for your loss. X

Nothing much to report here

Popcorn1979 · 06/05/2014 13:54

Not posted in ages but have been following and I wanted to say I am so so sorry to hear all the sad news recently, absolutely devastating. I really hope you all have some positive news soon and are looking after yourselves x

basgetti · 06/05/2014 14:13

Sorry for your loss Sollers, take care Thanks

Cuppachaplz · 06/05/2014 19:00

Sorry to hear your sad news, sollers
Take care of yourself x

MrsFtn · 06/05/2014 19:37

Really sorry sollers. I hope you have lots of RL support. Look after yourself x

melody1979 · 07/05/2014 09:54

So sorry for your loss Sollers. Take good care of yourself.

Just to update you on my scan yesterday: they just confirmed me what I already knew: I am in the process of miscarrying. No embryo left, only disorganised tissue.
Very sad, especially because just around now was the EDD for my previous pregnancy which ended in MMC. I have the feeling I am loosing two babies at the same time.

I wish you good luck to all of you, and hope there won't be any more bad news posted here.
You've been a great support, you've made my wait more bearable. Thanks to all of you.

MrsFtn · 07/05/2014 13:29

Oh melody I'm so sorry. My last mc would have been due about now too. Take care and good luck for the future.

We seem to be dropping like flies at the moment but we must remember that people DO have successful pregnancies after mc and after recurrent mc and it CAN happen for all of us.

I'm seriously considering a private scan now as my 12 week one is not until 5th June and I don't think I can wait that long.

FranksBobot · 07/05/2014 13:36

I'm so so sorry Melody and Sollers

I can't quite believe i am writing this but I had a scan this morning following my bleed on saturday and lots and lots of pains and my little beany has stayed put and we saw the heartbeat! The sonographer was lovely, and told me as soon as she saw it that it was good news.
I still wont be 100% happy until I reach at least 12 weeks but the relief is amazing, I honestly thought I had no chance. Dating around 6weeks 1 day so EDD 30th December!!

DrFunkesFamilyBandSolution · 07/05/2014 14:28

So sorry for your loss Melody x

Congrats on the good scan Franks!

PresidentSpreadable · 07/05/2014 14:44

I still haven't heard back from the midwives at the hospital with a booking in and scan date, driving me mad!

9+2 today, absolutely shattered every day by 8pm, peeing at least 4 or 5 times a night, still got sore boobs. Hoping that all means that it's progressing ok. Totally over work at the moment, almost told my manager yesterday, she said I'd been very quiet lately, but resisted. Roll on 12 weeks.

basgetti · 07/05/2014 14:54

So sorry for your loss melody Thanks

That's lovely news Franks.

Well I had to throw up repeatedly in a bush this morning, pretty undignified and luckily there was no one else around! I'm hoping this is a good sign as been no real symptoms up til now, and I had no symptoms prior to my MMC either. I never thought I'd feel grateful to be sick! Glad to be getting another scan on friday.

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Penguin13 · 07/05/2014 18:06

Oh my gosh Franks what wonderful news. So so pleased for you. I'm sorry you've had such a roller coaster of emotions though.

Oh Basgetti poor you. I feel for you and everyone experiencing ms. I know I have been incredibly lucky on that front and I am SO grateful. Not long to wait now till your next scan.

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CallingAllEngels · 07/05/2014 18:18

melody and sollers I'm so sorry to hear your news. Look after yourselves. x

Lovely news Frank.

I am shattered after 2 days back at work. One of my Year 8s asked me if I was okay and if I was in a bad mood this morning! Luckily I can blame my knackeredness on my toddler who everyone knows is giving me broken nights. I don't even feel guilty about blaming him since it's partially true

I only have mild nausea, not enough to put me off my food but despite being starving hungry, I'm not really enjoying eating iykwim.

Bedsheets4knickers · 07/05/2014 18:18

Ooohhh that's my bday x

Cuppachaplz · 07/05/2014 18:30

Fantastic news frank

Sorry to hear that melody, how awful. My 2nd to last mc would be due about now too, huge hugs.

I am off to EPU for a scan following a day and night of cramps after a bad fall. Trying to stay positive here...

Hoping everyone pregnancies continue well x

regularbutpanickingabit · 07/05/2014 21:10

I am so sorry to hear all the sad news today and yesterday.

I went to the consultant yesterday and she did a quick scan. Supposed to be 8+1 but was measuring 8 days behind last time. This time she found a baby with a heartbeat (huge shock!) and it is measuring 7+3/4 so only 4 or 5 days behind now. She seems happy and we are just in happy shock!

She also said there is what looks like a 2nd embryo but only measuring 6 weeks or so and without a heartbeat. So it looks like this was a twin pregnancy with one embryo currently progressing.

So slightly mixed news but really pleased one is developing ok so far. We are still being very cautious because I have lost at this point before but so far so good.

I have been put on an insane amount of drugs for various issues and the blood thinning injections started last night.

So that's my news!

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Penguin13 · 08/05/2014 09:51

Regular I am so happy for your wonderful news that you have a healthy embryo with a heartbeat but I'm so sorry to hear you lost your other embryo. I can only imagine all your emotions taking all that in yesterday. Today you are very definitely pregnant Smile.

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ParanoidCoventGarden75 · 08/05/2014 17:08

So sorry to read all the bad news.

I didn't have internet for a few days, but now back in uk and at work, that was a busy day.

Just had some brown spotting, I ignore it last week, it's a bit harder this time.

9+0

Dottydadoo · 09/05/2014 07:33

I haven't posted for a while, really sorry to hear the sad news and fingers crossed for everyone with more positive news.

I have a scan this morning. At my scan last week they said it was hoped we'd be seeing a heartbeat at 7-8 weeks this week but I've been bleeding all week and it's getting worse so unless there is some miracle, I'm afraid Ill be back with bad news Hmm

DrFunkesFamilyBandSolution · 09/05/2014 07:44

Best of luck Dotty. X

ParanoidCoventGarden75 · 09/05/2014 08:14

Good luck dotty, thinking of you