RM OCTOBER 2014 thread - Today we are pregnant

[TinyTear]

Hi
This is a thread for people due in October with past miscarriage issues, so we don't scare the 'regular' October people and we don't annoy the RM thread with our pregnancy talk...

TinyTear MC May 2010, MC June 2010, MC November 2010, DD Jan 2012, MC October 2013 ADD 6th October

According to dates from my first scan I will be 7 + 6 tomorrow. Mine is at 2.30 and also expecting delays!

Good luck for yours tiny

Tomorrow my DH decided to take the morning off and will come with me...

We have already decided to go to a new fish & chips place that opened nearby to either comiserate or celebrate for lunch...

at least we have a plan!

Thought of fish makes me feel very sick... Good preggo sign for me though!!!

DH is coming with me too. We are both bunking off work... Bad timing really as have Board mtg first thing Wednesday but i can always wing it / not got if bad news. Bean is my priority...

I am working from home and told my boss i have a 10h30 appointment.

He knows my history so proably suspects it... if this scan goes well I might tell him on wednesday...

Good luck tiny and fed up

That is great to get Counselling.

I had 5 sessions after my last miscarriage and when we parted she did say they do offer also in-pregnancy counselling so if I ever needed any more help to contact them.

This was the women's health services at my hospital. i got given a leaflet at the EPU and contacted them to organise the sessions.

In my case it was only 5 sessions but over 2 months as first i had a business trip so couldn't attend a wednesday, then she couldn't then it was Christmas break so we had 3 weeks between the first two sessions and only after session 3 we had every week and on week 5 I felt there was nothing more that she could do for me... all the tear had been cried (nearly) and I was ready to move on

Id recommend counseling bugs. I felt i needed to go after my second mc, and found it very useful. I went about 6-8 times in all.

When i recently got pregnant again i decided to go back. So i have already had one good appointment. I'm keeping it to every 2-3 weeks depending on availability. Its a good space to express and think though concerns. Never thought i'd go to counseling for anything before now (maybe i've just been lucky), but i think its good to use all the resources/support you can!

Good luck tomorrow fedup.

Good luck for your scans tiny and fed up

I've just found out that my booking app is a week on Thursday am officially pooing myself. Just want to hide under the duvet I think iwill just dissolve into a puddle of tears as soon as I see a midwife. What is it about medical uniforms that reduces my to a sobbing wreck?!

Good luck tiny and fedup let us know how you get on.

Yipeee tumtimes and great news about the extra 3 days! It is the year we finally become mummies!

I have found counselling useful. I have my last session tomorrow and I am going to take my scan picture with me. When we booked the date for the last session we knew it would either be the last session or the start of another lot of 6. So pleased to be going with good news.

A couple of hours to go. Can't focus too much on work!

Good luck tiny!

I'm trying to muster up the courage to book the Harmony test... Don't know why I'm procrastinating

When are you doing it?
I think I will only go for it if I have a bad NT + bloods

Latest Stats (the others were getting lost)

nearlyreadytopop Ds born 2011, mc at 7 weeks, mmc at 17 weeks, mc at 7 weeks ADD 2nd September
millysdream mc feb 2013, mc April 2013, mc august 2013- all around 6-7 weeks. EDD 6th sept
Squizita 3 losses: 2 natural losses at about 7 weeks. 1 MMC which turned out to be T69 and monitored for partial molar. ADD 12th Sep.
taytocrisp DD 2010, mc 23 wks 2012,mc 14 wks 2013. EDD 1st October
JBrd, DS May 2011, MC Jan 2013, MC April 2013, MC August 2013. ADD 3rd October
TinyTear MC May 2010, MC June 2010, MC November 2010, DD Jan 2012, MC October 2013 ADD 12th October
Sweetpeapods mmc sept 11, mc jan 12, mmc June 12, ds born June 13. Dc2 edd 13 oct. high folic acid & scan every wk.
ldt87 I have 2 dc aged 8 and 9, 1 miscarriage, 1 termination for medical reasons, edd 13th October
Fedupofrainydays, 1DS oct 2011, 1 mmc at 12 weeks feb 2013, 1 mc at 5.5 wks dec 2013. EDD 14 Oct
Tumtimes No DC (yet), 3 losses in total, 1 natural MC, 1 MMC (ERPC) and 1 very early MC. EDD - 16th September diagnosed with High Natural Killer cell and on Clexane, Prednisolone, progesterone, high folic acid and aspirin (plus supplements).

If anyone else wants adding, just let me know, or copy and add yourself...

I am procrastinating, and hopefully I won't come back to remove myself from the list...

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh scared

I feel sick. Can't tell if MS or nerves. How did it go tiny?

Not good. Leaving the thread now. Can someone ask to be removed from the main October one as well?

Had reduced in seize from 6.2mm to 4.7mm
This time I might go for tablets to try naturally.

Good luck to you all.

X

Oh tiny hun, I am so so sorry There are no words that will make this any easier right now. Thinking of you and sending lots of hugs xxx

Oh tiny. I'm so sorry. I know there is nothing I can say that will help either. I just hate how cruel and unfair this all is. Xxxxx

so sorry tiny

So sad tiny.
I'm so sorry you're going though this
Gentle hugs x

:( So sorry Tiny :(

So so sorry tiny xx