RM OCTOBER 2014 thread - Today we are pregnant

[TinyTear]

Hi
This is a thread for people due in October with past miscarriage issues, so we don't scare the 'regular' October people and we don't annoy the RM thread with our pregnancy talk...

TinyTear MC May 2010, MC June 2010, MC November 2010, DD Jan 2012, MC October 2013 ADD 6th October

Ugh. Told my boss today. Didn't intend to but he asked me why I needed to go early on Tuesday (for scan) so told him. Now oddly scared this will bring me doom. No reason it should but doesn't stop my brain thinking that way.

Naughty bugs - fish slaps for you! But good it have you the reassurance you were looking for til scan tomorrow. Will be thinking of you. Can I ask where you did you ivf? Got friends at argc at mo.

Snap on the eating - I are a whole garlic bread to myself
Last night. And today all about the cheese again. Fish makes me want to vom but any pasta is good with me!

Hold on to that tit bugs you will need it for feeding your baby!
I know - I've sworn him to secrecy as don't want rest of company to know - more because if I mc again then everyone will know and might be awkward round me. Him and HR know about my miscarriages so hopefully understand why so petrified. I think in his head he starts stressing about maternity leave and not having me around rather than I hope this one works out for her...

I'm not at all... As don't tell him but I was planning on leaving anyway with or without mat leave!! I'm just saying he doesn't necc care about me and whether it works out..

Whether I mc or not I'm leaving by sept whatever...

Please add me tinytear
Good luck for your scan bugs. Least you can just get up, get to the hospital and get it done. My symptoms came and went and have been gone for over 3 weeks now except being sick last night after I had the scan!!!!!!! It was a bit late for baby to reassure me then :)

Just got a bfp, three mmc and a did. Scared, can I hop on for a little while... (Hopefully a long time).

A dd even, silly auto correct.

Fedup that's my kind of logic too - 'jinxing' things. My HR PA hugged me when she heard my 10 week went well. Not subtle, but nice to know they care.

Bugs Good luck tomorrow!

Pickle Hi! :)

I have been sick three times today. THREE TIMES. My own fault: trying to eat to schedule/eating things that weren't bland or green veg. But c'mon, I'd had a good day yesterday and thought it was easing off. Secretly find it very reassuring after stupid pad looked too pink until I scrutinised it under the light in the disabled loo, was cream/yellow phew

one day at a time definitely. We saw a specialist who supported us in not booking in with midwife. Going to try and not do anything till beg of April, gulp. wishing everyone long and boring boring boring pregnancies.

The whole work thing is a worry for me too. I am currently signed off Owing to multiple migraines with aura and with my RM history the docs think its best to rest. I am due back at work next Wednesday, but today I went to back to the doctor to be assessed. And because my migraines haven't hugely improved she feels strongly that I should be off till I reach 14 weeks as that is when I am under NHS rm consultant till. I now have to break this news to my boss tomorrow. Not looking forward to it but of course believe that the doctor is right here. My role is very stressful and a long commute so would love to get to 14 weeks in a stress free environment. Anyone else been in this sign off situation?

bugs best of luck tomorrow I will be thinking of you!

tum Glad the docs are advising rest. I feel like death, unfortunately St Mary's aren't into bed rest except for cervical problems. :( Off to work!

Good luck with your scan bugs.

Welcome pickle. Congrats and fingers crossed now.

Tum sounds like you are still having a dreadful time with migraines. I expect that your boss should really understand, even if he/she finds it inconvenient - but it their job to work around things like this.

Squiz your heparin/clexane tips are very good! I find it ok mostly, but incredibly painful sometimes. Prodding gently with a needle first to check sensitivity as you suggest has improved things a lot for me recently, and i haven't been really sore since trying that. Strangely i only have a few small bruises, maybe because i have quiet a tyre in the abdominal area - though am pretty normal size 12 otherwise.

New Stats

nearlyreadytopop Ds born 2011, mc at 7 weeks, mmc at 17 weeks, mc at 7 weeks ADD 2nd September
millysdream mc feb 2013, mc April 2013, mc august 2013- all around 6-7 weeks. EDD 6th sept
Squizita 3 losses: 2 natural losses at about 7 weeks. 1 MMC which turned out to be T69 and monitored for partial molar. ADD 12th Sep.
taytocrisp DD 2010, mc 23 wks 2012,mc 14 wks 2013. EDD 1st October
JBrd, DS May 2011, MC Jan 2013, MC April 2013, MC August 2013. ADD 3rd October
TinyTearMC May 2010, MC June 2010, MC November 2010, DD Jan 2012, MC October 2013 ADD 12th October
Sweetpeapods DS2 edd 13 Oct
ldt87 I have 2 dc aged 8 and 9, 1 miscarriage, 1 termination for medical reasons, edd 13th October
Fedupofrainydays, 1DS oct 2011, 1 mmc at 12 weeks feb 2013, 1 mc at 5.5 wks dec 2013. EDD 14 Oct
Tumtimes No DC (yet), 3 losses in total, 1 natural MC, 1 MMC (ERPC) and 1 very early MC. EDD - 16th September diagnosed with High Natural Killer cell and on Clexane, Prednisolone, progesterone, high folic acid and aspirin (plus supplements).

Welcome pickle let me know if you want adding to the stats...

Fedup we have the same scan date. Tuesday can't come too soon!

Hooray Bugger

Yay, bugs excellent news! One milestone to be ticked off, hope you'll be able to relax (even if only for a little while...).

I'm still trying to decide if I should get the Harmony test done... DH is back tomorrow, and I have send him the link to the website, so that he can do some reading to get up to speed

Yay bugs that's fab news!!! Whoop!!!

Hopefully Will help you relax just that little bit.

Feeling really sick today and the only thing that seems to help is eating. Half way through a loaf of soft white farmhouse loaf and worried I'm going to polish of the lot. Got my doctor appointment in 30 mins to finally register this preg. Feel nervous for some reason.

Great news bugs.
Would someone mind updating my stats for me?
Sweetpeapods mmc sept 11, mc jan 12, mmc June 12, ds born June 13. Dc2 edd 13 oct. high folic acid & scan every wk.

full of cold here still, ds full of cold too so I'm not sure who's more grumpy!

Great news bugs, today I feel pregnant as i just want to cry all the time, overwhelmed at the simplest thing.

Great news bugs, today I feel pregnant as i just want to cry all the time, overwhelmed at the simplest thing.