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My son aged 19 died in a stupid accident

269 replies

eldycha3 · 24/01/2022 07:58

My heart is just breaking...

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resipsa · 21/02/2022 20:30

Utterly devastating for your family. I am so sorry.

Libertybear80 · 21/02/2022 20:41

So young. I'm sorry op. No mother should have to experience this. 💐

eldycha3 · 22/02/2022 18:45

I just need to believe he's still here in spirit that he lives on or I can't go on Sad

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tsmainsqueeze · 22/02/2022 21:00

I am so very sorry for your heartbreaking loss , my heart truly goes out to you.

winterchills · 22/02/2022 21:01

I'm so so sorry 🥺absolutely awful

SparklingLime · 22/02/2022 21:04

@eldycha3

I just need to believe he's still here in spirit that he lives on or I can't go on Sad
I feel sure that he is (I’m not even religious.) He will be accompanying you in some meaningful way. Flowers
Shainago · 22/02/2022 21:09

My condolences, OP Flowers

Shufflebumnessie · 22/02/2022 21:11

I am so sorry to read about your son. Absolutely heartbreaking Flowers

savvy7 · 22/02/2022 21:14

So sorry to hear of your loss. I'm sure he's still with you, every step of the way

CloudPop · 22/02/2022 21:19

I just saw this and thought of you. I don't know if this will work ....

My son aged 19 died in a stupid accident
SprayedWithDettol · 22/02/2022 21:22

I’m so sorry for your horrific loss. 💐

Wishihadanalgorithm · 22/02/2022 21:22

OP, there is nothing I can say to make this bearable for you. Just know that there are many people here thinking of you and your beloved boy.

Strictly1 · 22/02/2022 21:25

I am so sorry for your loss ❤️

Fashionesta · 22/02/2022 21:59

Thinking of you OP. A close friend of mine lost her son in a similar way at a similar age a few years ago. I know nothing will ever be the same for her again but what helped her was medication, counseling and taking extended time off work. Also having friends she could talk to about her son and his passing over and over which helped her process things. Do what you need to look after yourself now. Nothing can make things right again but you will get through this. Sending love.

PeakyBlender · 22/02/2022 22:22

Those flowers are beautiful OP.

eldycha3 · 24/02/2022 21:06

Thank you all so very much...so nice to read your words of comfort in these dark days ...he's constantly in my thoughts and don't want this to change ...well not right now anyway Sad

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SparklingLime · 25/02/2022 10:40

Thinking of you, eldycha3 Flowers

eldycha3 · 26/02/2022 18:39

@CloudPop

I just saw this and thought of you. I don't know if this will work ....
Thank you 😊 I used it on my Facebook it's lovely words xx
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slapmyarseandcallmemary · 26/02/2022 18:52

So sorry for your loss. Flowers

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