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I KNEW I SHOULDN'T HAVE SAID ANYTHING........ ITS HAPPENING AGAIN!

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OracleInaCoracle · 17/11/2007 07:38

woke up this morning with pain, just been to the loo and the spotting has turned into blood...

thank you all for your well wishes, seems my useless body couldn't hold on.

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Bellie · 17/11/2007 16:52

Oh lissie thinking of you xx

NorthernLurker · 17/11/2007 16:57

Take care Lissie - thinking of you and dh

CaptainDippy · 18/11/2007 12:43

So sorry. Thoughts & Prayers. xxxx

Slubberdegullion · 18/11/2007 12:49

lissie . So sorry to hear this.

whoops · 18/11/2007 12:53

So sorry Lissie
Thinking of you xxxx

XAliceInWonderlandX · 18/11/2007 12:53

x

Gumbo · 18/11/2007 13:13

Lissielou, I'm so very very sorry to hear what you're going through.

I've just had my 2nd MC in 3 months a couple of days ago (finished it off with a D&C on Friday) and I'm devastated so I can relate to some of what you must be feeling.

I don't know how many times you've been through this but I'm thinking of you.

MarsLady · 18/11/2007 16:12

Praying for you lissie.

beansprout · 18/11/2007 21:38

Lissie, I'm so, so sorry, this is so shite. Please take care of yourself. Huge hug to you xxx

Bouncingturtle · 18/11/2007 21:53

Bollocks
So sorry Lissie, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

OracleInaCoracle · 19/11/2007 09:51

fuck it! appointment this morning was for phlebotomy so have to go back at 10.50 to see doc.but bleeding heavily again (had slowed down) so epu seems inevitable now

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MissLapinToYou · 19/11/2007 09:53

Still sending positive thoughts lissie x

MerlinsBeard · 19/11/2007 09:56

((((lissie))))

Am so sorry

MissLapinToYou · 19/11/2007 10:01

Oh lissie just read your posts on the other thread sending you strength and love x

Wotz · 19/11/2007 10:15

so sorry lissie

OracleInaCoracle · 19/11/2007 12:03

im so angry! scan on weds at 9am. doctor was shite!
i asked to be referred toadifferent specialist, he wouldnt.
i asked about antibiotics for GBS, gave me some shit about VAGINAL GBS being a risk for newborns (pneumonia) i reminded him that i had UTERINE GBS, which is a risk for developing babies. he said there was no evidence (see here) i emntioned progesterone treatment. he said there was no evidence to support it ) and i mentioned my erratic cycles and suggested that progesterone treatment might help and he tried to tell me that your leutal phase had no impact on your fertility. he must think im stupid. im so so cross.

how fucking DARE he dismiss me like this? i dont care if treatment is experimental or not. at this stage i would dance naked over a frogs corpse at midnight if it meant one of my babies would make it

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Wotz · 19/11/2007 12:09

how crap, you have a right to be angry and upset
{{{{{hugs}}}}

orangehead · 19/11/2007 12:12

No wonder your ignored, some docs dont give a crap. I hope you all ok, sending you hugs and strengh. What hospital are you under? If you dont want to answer that, I understand

orangehead · 19/11/2007 12:13

sorry should of been annoyed not ignored

OracleInaCoracle · 19/11/2007 12:14

royal shrewsbury hospital in shropshire

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VeniVidiVickiQV · 19/11/2007 12:16

No chance of seeing a private Obs/gynae?

Peachy · 19/11/2007 12:17

Contact their switchboard aand ask to speak to \ quality manager- and when you do, DEMAND that they oversee your immediate transfer of specialist.

OracleInaCoracle · 19/11/2007 12:20

i will. sorry, ive calmed down now...

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slim22 · 19/11/2007 12:22

Lissie so sorry to hear this. If you can afford a private consultation, go now.
Progesterone is not an experimental treatment, it's commonly used in continental europe.
GBS matter should not be dismissed like that!!!
keeping everything crossed for you.

FioFio · 19/11/2007 12:23

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