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JBADGIRL (from Postnatal oct 04 thread) son had died xxxxx

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Biglips · 02/08/2007 09:08

he had a long illness from birth but sadly yesterday her son died yesterday as his heart had stopped

R.I.P. Toby xxx

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NAB3 · 03/08/2007 18:57

JBADGIRL
You are amazing. Your post made me cry. What a gracious lady to accept your huge loss in such a way. How lovely that your Mum and son can be together. So very sorry for your loss.

funnypeevesculiar · 03/08/2007 19:10

What a wonderful post, JBADGIRL - hope you have a wonderful memorial day for Toby - our throughts are with you
x

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Biglips · 03/08/2007 21:43
Sad
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Biglips · 04/08/2007 11:44

xxx

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Nbg · 04/08/2007 11:47

How very sad

xxx

Charlie999 · 04/08/2007 11:55

Just looked at your pictures of your gorgeous son.....hope your memories in time will be happy ones....what a gorgeous little boy

thinking of you x

zeebee · 05/08/2007 08:54

I am so very sorry. I hope you are able to organise a very special day for him, it's a very hard and very surreal thing to do I know. From your wonderful post it sounds like he had lots of friends and I hope that knowing that such huge numbers of people are thinking of him and you provide some crumb of comfort.

ScoobyDooooo · 05/08/2007 09:03

I am so sorry for your loss, he looks like a very happy little man, you sound like an amazing mum, your strenght & love for Toby really shines through in your post

Budababe · 05/08/2007 09:06

Am so so sad for you. He sounds wonderful.

orangehead · 05/08/2007 21:27

yr sons pics are gorgeous. Hope you all ok

Aimsmum · 05/08/2007 21:37

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cazzybabs · 05/08/2007 21:38

OMG - I am so sorry. There is nothing to say. Toby was so lucky to have you and your dh and you where lucky to have him. Although I never met him I will always remember him.

SpawnHorcrux · 05/08/2007 21:40

Oh my goodness. I've just seen this. I am so very sorry that you've lost Toby. Wishing you lots of strength.

Peachy · 05/08/2007 21:42

Oh I am so sorry to read this

Your message was beautiful and made me cry but mre imoprtantly realise what a chappy time you have had together- I am sure your Mum is caring for him now.

His photographs are beautiful.

God bless x

lillypie · 05/08/2007 21:42

I am so sorry for your loss

moljam · 05/08/2007 21:45

im so sorry to hear your sad news.ive never chatted to you before but reading your post it sounds like toby was a very lucky little boy to have a lovely mummy!

Marina · 05/08/2007 21:49

I'm so sorry Toby died jbadgirl
Thinking of you all, the death of a child is the hardest thing for parents to endure XXX

nomdeplume · 05/08/2007 21:50

jbadgirl, I don't think we have ever really spoken to each other on here. This is the first I have seen of your family's story, Toby is clearly a very loved little boy who will be remembered with nothing but love and joy by all who knew him.

I wish you all peace and trength in the coming weeks and months.

nomdeplume · 05/08/2007 21:51

Of course I meant strength.

The photo's you have on your profile shine with the love the 3 of you have for each other.

suwoo · 05/08/2007 22:15

Gorgeous pictures on your profile. So sorry xx

edam · 05/08/2007 22:19

Your message was very moving. I am so sorry.

macmama73 · 05/08/2007 23:23

I am so sorry. A wonderful post, he was lucky to have such a caring and loving mummy and daddy.

Ceolas · 05/08/2007 23:27

So sorry for your loss, jbadgirl.

Wishing you strength xxx

MarsLady · 06/08/2007 00:15

I'm sorry to hear your news.

snowleopard · 06/08/2007 00:25

Jbadgirl, what a lovely boy in the pictures, and I'm so sorry.
Wishing you all the love and strength in the world.