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JBADGIRL (from Postnatal oct 04 thread) son had died xxxxx

156 replies

Biglips · 02/08/2007 09:08

he had a long illness from birth but sadly yesterday her son died yesterday as his heart had stopped

R.I.P. Toby xxx

OP posts:
KitsAndBits · 02/08/2007 11:41

How very, very sad.

I am thinking of you and your family,

hazygirl · 02/08/2007 16:54

so sorry for the loss of your little boy ,big hug and thinking of you

FioFio · 02/08/2007 17:29

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CountessDracula · 02/08/2007 17:33

Oh no how terribly sad

Thinking of you x

me23 · 02/08/2007 17:34

I'm so sorry

ShakeysGirl · 02/08/2007 17:36

So very sorry to hear this.I dont 'know' you but my thoughts are with you and your family.

Lizzylou · 02/08/2007 17:37

So sorry to hear about the loss of Toby, thinking of you xxx

motherinferior · 02/08/2007 17:37

I am so very sorry.

Pennies · 02/08/2007 17:39

This is very sad news. My thoughts are with you and your family.

DANCESwithDumbledore · 02/08/2007 17:42

So sorry to hear this Take care of yourself.

2shoes · 02/08/2007 18:14

so sorry to hear this.
you are all in our thoughtsxxx

jbadgirl · 02/08/2007 21:12

Thankyou to everyone sending their thoughts our way.
We went to see him earlier and he looked so peaceful as he lay sleeping he even had a smile on his face little pickle as always!
We do feel so very proud to have been his mummy and daddy and to have had him in our lives. He touched so many people on his journey of life and tolerated everything along the way. He will be missed by so many people and they all feel very special to have had the opportunity to be a part of his life. I know that this was his time, and this is how and when he chose to go. He had to have things his way and I know that my mum will take good care of him up there. She finally gets to meet him.
He has gone to Great Ormond street for PM as they do not know cause. We hope to get him back soon and start arranging a special day where all can celebrate his life and say a final goodbye. We have so many lovely happy memories. What a happy little boy and he can rest peacefully at last. x

Pinkchampagne · 02/08/2007 21:15

Thinking of you.x

ricepuddingpaddington · 02/08/2007 21:15

Bless you jbadgirl, and your family.
Your post about Toby is beautiful and really reflects your pride and love for him.
Wishing your family love and strength.
Sassy x

tortoise · 02/08/2007 21:18

so sorry for you loss.

ZZMum · 02/08/2007 21:20

You are an amazing Mum.

Your post with its strength and love was an inspiration and the absolute truth of the love of a Mum, celebrating the joy of your son,with no mention of what must be your heartbreaking pain.. I wish you much streght to continue your journey as such an amazing Mum to Toby..

snowbird · 02/08/2007 21:20

Thinking of you and your family. x

cerys · 02/08/2007 21:30

I am so sad to hear this - I was also on the October 04 antenatal thread. Love to you and your family.

tribpot · 02/08/2007 21:33

From the mum of one Toby to another - I'm so very, very sorry to hear of your loss.

orangehead · 02/08/2007 21:50

Im so sorry, you are all in our thoughts and prayers. Sending you big hug

lissie · 02/08/2007 21:54

im so so sorry x

ChorusLine · 02/08/2007 21:55

so very sorry xxxx

pooka · 02/08/2007 21:55

I'm so sorry.

chacha3 · 02/08/2007 21:58

I am so sorry to hear about your little boy please accept my deepest sympathy. Be thinking of you at this sad time.x

munchkinmum · 02/08/2007 22:01

Can't find the words....

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