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Christmas stars for lost love ones

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KimiTheChristmasCracker · 01/12/2006 13:31

Every Christmas my church has a big christmas tree and a box of stars, that you wright the name of a missing loved one on and hang on the tree to be remembered in the christmas prayers.
I was wondering if we could have a mums net thread the same?
I know we miss our loved ones and friends all the time but at special times of the year the pain and memoreys are in out thoughts more.
Epecially for those lost over the reacent year.
So here goes. I will be remembering

Richard howard (died this year)
Jakie (died this year)
Roger Price (died this year)

My nan,(1994) My dad,(1984) My father in law (2001) and My best friend (1989)

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wangle99 · 17/12/2006 18:50

I will be remembering;

my stepdad Rob 9.11.02

Never forgotten.

misspopov · 18/12/2006 23:11

For the two little stars that I miscarried this year one in July and one in October, much loved, wanted and never forgotten.

Jossiejump · 18/12/2006 23:14

My two little ones, miscarried in April and August this year

pootletheinvisibleflump · 18/12/2006 23:34

My beautiful little boy,

Scott - born and died 19 Sep 06

Always thinking of you, mummy, daddy and big sister xxx

KimiTheChristmasCracker · 19/12/2006 17:16

All added today, anyone else?
Will be able to add right up to christmas eve.

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scotslass · 19/12/2006 20:33

My darling twins.

Grace and Issac - born and died 17/02/01

If love was enough my beautiful babies you would be here in my arms now xx

onzephyrstdayofchristmas · 19/12/2006 20:38

I will be thinking of my Nan 19/05/06 who has gone to be with her beloved husband, Alex 05/09/97.

My best friend, Kelly, who took her life in August 2002 leaving behind her beautiful children who were only 3 and 1 at the time.

DP's Dad 21/09/2003

ipanemagirl · 20/12/2006 00:12

my much hoped for one who I miscarried at 10 weeks two years ago. Thanks Kimi.

AtterySquash · 20/12/2006 00:24

My son James 22-25/05/01.

My cousin Aaron, who died aged 26 in August 2001.

My beloved dad, who died in 1997.

My dearest Auntie Janet, 1995, and her son Simon, who died aged 4 in 1974.

My Uncle Ted and my grandparents.

petunia · 20/12/2006 07:45

The little one I miscarried in June 2005- think of you lots.

My dear Aunt, died June 2006- no more pain.

My Grandad (1995) and Nan (2000)- miss you both.

SchneeBallFight · 20/12/2006 07:52

My tiny baby who I miscarried in August - so sad about what might have been.

My beautiful mum who died in April 2002 - miss you every day and wish you were here to meet your grandsons.

Thanks for this Kimi.

ChristmasMadwithBump · 20/12/2006 20:08

For My beloved Dad who was told he had cancer on 23th dec 2004 and died 6 months later on 12/06/05, I cant cry as I feel your still here, miss you every singel day, you leave behide 10 children who miss you more and more each day!

My Dad Gary 12/06/05, miss you love you!
Elishea xxx

queenrollo · 22/12/2006 10:49

for my Grandma 20/9/2005, i miss her so much
and for my friend Phil who took himself away from us, i miss his smile so much.

this is a beautiful idea.

puccaupunderthemistletoe · 22/12/2006 10:56

So at how many LO's are on here.

I would like to add...

My uncle 22/10/05 on his son's 18 th birthday after falling down some stairs in a freakish accident, missed by everyone.

irishmum · 22/12/2006 11:18

My Granda Bob 9thJan06
Friends dad Pat 5th March06
My Granny Hanna 15thAugust06
Bf cousin who took his own life 2ndJune06

such a year
thinking of you all

angmarie · 22/12/2006 12:39

my daughters friends dad died last week in a freak accident so a special star for him

MariNativityPlay · 22/12/2006 13:05

What a lovely idea Kimi.
Please could you add our ds2 Thomas, prematurely stillborn at 21 weeks in 2002. He should have been our Christmas baby. We all miss him still, even though he has a lovely little sister he will never know in this life. His crabapple tree in the garden is thick with glowing little red apples today.
Thinking of everyone on this thread, and everyone else living with the death of someone they love XXX

OonaghBhuna · 22/12/2006 23:14

My little angel who I miscarried in March 04. My dearest friends Emma who died on the 30th August 1997 and Sigrid who died in December 1995.My DH mother who died in March 1997.
Lovely idea for a thread.

KimiTheChristmasCracker · 23/12/2006 19:49

Will add everyone tomorrow, anyone else?

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KimiTheChristmasCracker · 24/12/2006 17:18

small bump

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KimiTheChristmasCracker · 25/12/2006 01:36

Everyone added,
I hope you all have a wonderful christmas and find peace in the day
Kimi xxxx

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SparklyXmasKat · 25/12/2006 02:02

For my baby angel who I miscarried on the 28th Feb 1999, I still think of you....xxxxx
My friend Lynn who died 4.12.2006, you are sadly missed....xxxxx

kimi · 30/12/2006 23:16

SXK i added this for you.

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