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In memory of our lovely Aillidh

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expatinscotland · 08/07/2012 11:56

At 11.25 last night, our beautiful, 9-year-old daughter died of complications from treatment for acute myeloid leukaemia, she went into respiratory failure after contracting human metapneumo virus following conditioning chemotherapy for stem cell transplant.

For many days, she lingered on a ventilator. But last night, she developed a pneumothorax and rapidly deteriorated.

She died within seconds of the ventilator being taken off.

I can't believe she's gone, or how broken her long body looked.

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MamaMaiasaura · 14/07/2012 10:27

Thinking of you all today xxx

TheFabulousDancingPilchard · 14/07/2012 10:43

sending you our love today and always. sleep tight beautiful, brave lass xxx

tomatoface · 14/07/2012 10:53

thinking of you today x

BCBG · 14/07/2012 10:54

Thinking of you all today. May the Lord grant Aillidh eternal rest. x

ChaosTrulyReigns · 14/07/2012 11:01

Words are inadequate here, but I'm thinking of you Leigh and wish you strength for today. X

Pinot · 14/07/2012 11:04

There are no words, just pain. And pride. And lasting love.

IwishIwasmoreorganised · 14/07/2012 11:05

Lots of love and thoughts today.

Nothing can express how very sorry I am.

xx

buzzgirly · 14/07/2012 11:10

Thinking of you all today xx

crazynanna · 14/07/2012 11:12

Sending you love...and strength,expat xxxxx

MistyRocks · 14/07/2012 11:15

(((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))

there are no words

god bless you all xxx

Babieseverywhere · 14/07/2012 11:26

Sending prayers and good wishes to you and your family. I hope today brings some comfort and smiles sharing memories of your beautiful Aillidh.

Frakiosaurus · 14/07/2012 11:28

Expat I am so, so sorry. I haven't been on MN for nearly 2 weeks but I have been thinking of you all and to come back to this - there are no words :(

Ailidh will live forever in your heart and in the hearts of many others all round the world. May God bless her and may you feel His Grace with you, today and every day.

PavlovtheCat · 14/07/2012 11:41

Thinking of you and your family expat x

TigerFeet · 14/07/2012 11:57

I'm not religious but I was raised as a Catholic and I think that this prayer for the dead sums things up:

Eternal rest, grant unto Aillidh, may perpetual light shine upon her, may she rest in peace.

Lots of love x

CiderwithBuda · 14/07/2012 12:25

I am thinking of you today Expat. A day no parent should ever have to bear.

X

EightiesChick · 14/07/2012 13:00

Thoughts and prayers are with you all. You will see Aillidh again. 'The Lord watch between me and thee while we are absent one from another.'

Oneandnomore · 14/07/2012 13:01

Thinking of you all today expat. Love and strength xx

TodaysAGoodDay · 14/07/2012 13:03

My thoughts are with you and your family today Expat. God bless little Aillidh x

happybirthdayHiggs · 14/07/2012 13:19

Hoping this mornings services went as well as they could. I've been thinking of you all morning and hoping you can gain some comfort from honouring your beautiful girl and her beautiful life.

boomdecker · 14/07/2012 13:30

expat I hope you are finding the company of friends and family a deep comfort today. You're in my thoughts and prayers.

DarrowbyEightFive · 14/07/2012 14:31

The world has been a better place for your beautiful daughter having been part of it. And she'll be in your hearts forever. Wishing you strength and comfort.

AuldAlliance · 14/07/2012 15:04

I have been thinking of you and of Aillidh all day, of her smile and the courage and grace you both showed.

cheesesarnie · 14/07/2012 15:07

thinking of you all today expat.

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