About Spacecadet

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I have spoken to Spacecadet. Spacecadet went into premature labour several weeks ago due to a kidney infection. The baby only surived for a short time after birth . She is bearing up OK given the circumstances, but can't face up to posting on MN at the moment.

Best wishes to her and her family.

Oh you poor Love AND desperatehousewife
My heart goes out to you both at this horrid horrid time xxxx

Oh Space - what a lot of big decisions to have had to reach at such a difficult time. Really hope that the move goes well, and that you and DH can find the strength to continue to support each other.

Huge hugs. xx

Words cant explain the pain you must be feeling,my thoughts are with you xxxx

Spacey, I have missed you on MN - I hope you feel able to come on here still once you have moved to find support should you need it. Again I am so so sorry for your terrible loss, life is so unfair. I'm glad you are getting some counselling - is dh able to talk to anyone too?

How are the kids taking it? You know I am sorry never to have met them (except your dd2 of course!) when we met in the summer. I hope one day we will all be able to meet up.

Good luck with the move, I hope you find peace sweetheart.

QE

SC and DHW. My thoughts are with you both. So so sorry. xx

spacecadet - my thoughts are with you what a cruel, cruel year

sending you some positive thoughts and strength to get through christmas x

Im so so sorry Spacecadet. Really sad for you.

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thankyou for all your kind thoughts.

Glad you feel you can start to talk about things SC. A certain Shropshire lass told me today she is looking forward very much to you moving closer to her. You have a lot of people who care about you very much.

SC you are obviously going through a huge amount of stress, don't make any decisions about your partnership at the moment.

Try and be kind to each other - you are both grieving deeply.

i can guess who that is myturn! yes im looking forward to moving up there, new start etc.

ive got to be honest and say i have really vented at dh, ive been horrible to him, he doesnt show his feelings much so i sometimes feel that he doesnt care as much, yet i know he must do, he is very frightened about the move as he will have to go in january and leave me behind, he thinks i will fall apart as i have to stay behind and sell the house, but its given me something really positive to focus on, it will be hard grieving and looking after 4 children without dh but it will only be for a few months.

I don't know what to say Spacecadet, I can't imagine your loss, yours too DesperateHousewife. My heart goes out to you both. Monkeytrousers xx.

spacecadet... i am so sorry to hear about this
hopefully your move will be a fresh start for you and things will look a bit better.
not really an online hug kinda gal, but am thinking of you xxx

I don't know what to say, other than how sorry I am for your loss.

So Sorry to hear your sad news SC my thoughts are with you and your family at yet another difficult time

Spacey. You were so kind to me after Bo died. I've never forgotten that. You're also a nurse (once a nurse, always a nurse!) and I've really enjoyed talking to you. I know that you know that there's nothing any of us can say......but we'll say it anyway and I hope we can give you some strength, in some way.

Bubble XXXX

Spacecadet- I don't have the words. I am so sorry for this. My heart hurts for you and DH.

No words of comfort, just another mumsnetter thinking of you. So terribly sorry to hear of your loss xxxxx

SC, really sorry for your loss, I can't believe it.

I am glad to see you posting again Spacecadet. Am already envisageing 3 way Chester meet-ups .

spacecadet - tried to cat you but it won't go through for some reason...?

Thinking of you

Cx