About Spacecadet

[feastofsteven]

I have spoken to Spacecadet. Spacecadet went into premature labour several weeks ago due to a kidney infection. The baby only surived for a short time after birth . She is bearing up OK given the circumstances, but can't face up to posting on MN at the moment.

Best wishes to her and her family.

we've been wondering where she was. What sad, sad news. Thinking of you sc and your family.

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I am so sorry spacecadet ...
I am thinking of you ... {}

Thinking of you Spacecadet.

So sorry !

If you ever read this Spacecadet - I'm so so so sorry and wish you well.....

so very sorry SC....

Oh spacecadet. I am so sorry about your loss. Thinking of you.

So sorry to see this SC. My thoughts will be with you over Christmas

How terrible, and after everything you have already been through.

I'm so sorry Spacecadet.
xx

oh my god, I've only just seen this, how awful. I remember her well from TTC threads. God, I don't know what to say

so sorry to hear this sad news

Feastofsteven - please tell SC that I will talk to her ANYTIME if that would be of any help at all (I went through v. similar thing 2 and a half weeks ago).

Spacecadet - I am so so sorry for what you must be going through now. It's deeply unfair and terribly sad.
Thinking of you and your family and sending you lots and lots of love.
DHWx

sure she'll have this information, but just incase she hasn't:

www.uk-sands.org

Run by women who have all been through the same trauma. The national helpline is run by lovely lovely understanding women who can listen/advise and talk.
They have local branches too which may be of use to SC.

They are definately worth a call to when she feels ready.

Thank you for your posts, everyone. I will let SC know that you are all thinking of her, and will of course pass on your message Desperate Housewife. So sorry that you have gone through a similar awful experience.

Hello Everyone.
Its been some weeks now since my baby daughter was born and i have spent that time desperately trying to come to terms with it. I cant beleive that life could be so cruel after losing our baby in march.
I wont deny that it hasnt put my marriage under dreadful strain and dh and i have discussed splitting up, we feel like we are all cried out and dont have anything left to give anymore.
I have been seeing a counseller and that has helped.
We wont be trying for any more children and dh has takenthe decission to have a vasectomy, we both agreed that we cant go through anymore.
In the last week or so I tried to pluck up the courage to come on here and say what had happened but couldnt bring myself to. Im grateful to mummytosteven for doing it for me.
Thank you for all your kind messages, it means a lot.
Desperate housewife, I was shocked to see what had happened to you, Im so, so sorry, feel free to CAT me anytime.
On a nice note, dh has just been ofered a new job in hawarden , north wales, it means a fresh start, and i get to move back to wales and be near my family, I think it was heaven sent.
Space

Don't know what to say - just didn't want to read your post and not respond. I hope you and dh can make it through this - I guess that deep down you really need eachother at the moment.

spacecadet, you have been through so much this year, I hope you and your family can find peace and support in each other. Good luck with the move. xxx

OMG Spacecadet - so sorry, how awful.
Life is so unfair sometimes, am really sorry you had to go through this. Lots of love to you and your DH xx

OMG Spacecadet - so sorry, how awful.
Life is so unfair sometimes, am really sorry you had to go through this. Lots of love to you and your DH xx

SC...I don't really know what to say, but just wanted to say how sorry i am, and i am thinking of you. xxxxx

I have already said how sorry I am SC, but feel compelled to say it again. Hang on in there (and hang on to dh). The move sounds like a good idea as I can remember you saying once you missed Wales. Hope to see you around again later, when you feel up to it.

SpaceCadet, I hope your move goes smoothly for you both and I wish you all the best. Every decision you are making at the moment must be very difficult for you, keep strong and take care xxx

Spacecadet - you are missed on the Feb thread! I feel terrible for your loss. I hope you and DH can find the strength somewhere to pull yourselves through this awful time. I wish you all the very best of luck for the future. A huge hug to you and your family.

Love

TicTac
xx