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Tabitha or Paloma?

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Bairns · 15/10/2025 20:49

Evening!

I have two daughters: Matilda & Jemima.

Which of these names would you name their baby sister who is due later this year? Both names go well with our surname.

Matilda, Jemima & Tabitha

or

Matilda, Jemima & Paloma

Struggling for nicknames for Paloma, but have lots for Tabitha. Our daughters are called by their full names by our/ their friends. Although Matilda does get Tilda/Tildy at home and Jemima gets Jemi/Jem.

Any other suggestions? We would like another 3 syllable name that ends in ‘a’.

TIA xx

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Petal7 · 20/10/2025 21:02

Tabitha Florence
Tabitha Camille
Tabitha Charlotte
Tabitha Josephine
Tabitha Beatrice
Tabitha Sophie
Tabitha Lily
Tabitha Grace

YourWinter · 20/10/2025 21:06

Emanwenym · 20/10/2025 20:44

Hazel?

TabitHA HAzel…

Emanwenym · 21/10/2025 11:21

@YourWinter , Not so obvious when you say it, but you have a point.
Kitty? Catherine?

Bairns · 21/10/2025 12:57

Thanks all your great suggestions! I’m 99.9% sure we’ve settled on Tabitha now.

So far I’ve got down:

Tabitha Marigold - eldest daughter’s favourite
Tabitha Florence - Husband’s favourite.
Tabitha Honey

Tabitha Melody
Tabitha Posy
Tabitha Nancy
Tabitha Sylvie - My favourite (I think)

I really love our daughter’s name combinations (Matilda Clementine and Jemima Primrose) and I'm finding it really tricky to find the perfect combination this time.

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 21/10/2025 12:58

Tabitha Florence 100%

HighburyHope · 21/10/2025 13:01

I’m Team DH. Tabitha Florence is perfect.

ninjahamster · 21/10/2025 13:20

Tabitha Sylvie or Tabitha Posy x

Ooogle · 21/10/2025 13:25

Tabitha Florence is perfect I think

user2848502016 · 21/10/2025 14:22

I’d go Tabitha Florence
Also like Tabitha Posy

Calliopespa · 21/10/2025 17:14

user2848502016 · 21/10/2025 14:22

I’d go Tabitha Florence
Also like Tabitha Posy

I liked Tabitha Posy.

It also loosely fits the fruit and flower theme without being too heavily so, like Marigold.

I think Tabitha Florence sounds a bit heavy - two big, consonant-heavy, substantial names. Posy balances it better.

Gillyyy · 21/10/2025 20:09

Love Tabitha Marigold! And Tabitha Juliet and Tabitha Frances. Also this is maybe too out there but I love the idea of Tabitha Lettice! With the Victorian girls name spelling not Lettuce. I’m sure everyone on Mumsnet hates Lettice though!

TrentCrimmsflowinglocks · 21/10/2025 20:35

Tabitha

Calliopespa · 21/10/2025 21:35

Gillyyy · 21/10/2025 20:09

Love Tabitha Marigold! And Tabitha Juliet and Tabitha Frances. Also this is maybe too out there but I love the idea of Tabitha Lettice! With the Victorian girls name spelling not Lettuce. I’m sure everyone on Mumsnet hates Lettice though!

Well I definitely don't like Lettice with sibling middle name Clementine. Its sounding like a fruit and veg shop.

Nest someone will suggest Watermelon or Carrot.

Gillyyy · 21/10/2025 21:52

Calliopespa · 21/10/2025 21:35

Well I definitely don't like Lettice with sibling middle name Clementine. Its sounding like a fruit and veg shop.

Nest someone will suggest Watermelon or Carrot.

My name is a fruit name so I might be biased! I suggested some others if Lettice is too much!

Calliopespa · 21/10/2025 21:54

Gillyyy · 21/10/2025 21:52

My name is a fruit name so I might be biased! I suggested some others if Lettice is too much!

I think its fine on its own, it's just that with a sibling Clementine and another Primrose it is sounding a bit "farm shop" to add a third flower, fruit or veg!

pambeesleyhalpert · 21/10/2025 21:57

Gosh all your girls names are just beautiful. I’ve got a soft spot for the name Peach. Tabitha Peach

Madeamistake21 · 21/10/2025 22:00

Tabitha

I have an 11yr old Delilah and Jemima, Tabitha, Tallulah and Dororthy were on my list. Lovely names but dont think Paloma fits x

DiscoBeat · 21/10/2025 22:09

I love Tabitha!

fairycupcakes · 22/10/2025 21:00

Bairns · 21/10/2025 12:57

Thanks all your great suggestions! I’m 99.9% sure we’ve settled on Tabitha now.

So far I’ve got down:

Tabitha Marigold - eldest daughter’s favourite
Tabitha Florence - Husband’s favourite.
Tabitha Honey

Tabitha Melody
Tabitha Posy
Tabitha Nancy
Tabitha Sylvie - My favourite (I think)

I really love our daughter’s name combinations (Matilda Clementine and Jemima Primrose) and I'm finding it really tricky to find the perfect combination this time.

Such gorgeous gorgeous names ❤️

Tricky to pick just one as they are beautiful combinations - Tabitha Marigold was my initial thought when you originally posted but I think Tabitha Honey is delightful!

mathanxiety · 25/10/2025 04:46

Tabitha Posy and Tabitha Sylvie are fab.
I think I prefer Posy.

dontletmedownbruce · 11/11/2025 17:19

Tabitha any day over Paloma

Mumofgirls2017 · 11/11/2025 22:31

Sorry late to the party but love both, probably Paloma has edge for me.

Matilda, Jemima and

sophia
tallulah
delilah
aurora
luella
helena
louisa
eliza
francesca
ramona
callista
aurelia
ophelia
philippa
iona

Mumofgirls2017 · 11/11/2025 22:31

Sorry seen your latest post. Tabitha is lovely. Go for marigold 😊

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