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Feminine Sounding Boys Names

91 replies

nameobsessed · 23/07/2025 16:24

I am a ‘frilly’ name person, I mostly like three syllable names and two middle names to match mine and DH’s. I have such an easier time with girls names, my girls list is close to a hundred names I would use but it’s so hard to find boys names I even like.

Lots of people on here seem to hate the boys names I like, calling them ‘wet’ or ‘feminine’ (as an insult?!) and assuming they’re going to get bullied- in my experience that isn’t true but is besides the point. If anyone has any names they like (or hate!) for boys that fit that criteria I would really appreciate hearing them.

Some examples of boys names I like:

Constantine
Gabriel
Augustine
Christian
Leander
Alistair
Ambrose
Dorian
Isidore

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Cinaferna · 26/07/2025 11:50

user1492757084 · 25/07/2025 07:43

Roland
Lindsay
Marmaduke
Larkspur
Lancelot
Asher
Ross

Marmaduke is great. You don't get many Marmadukes these days. Bring it back!

smooshraspberry · 26/07/2025 11:54

Florian was our choice if we were to have a boy!

Op1n1onsPlease · 26/07/2025 12:40

ANagsHead · 26/07/2025 11:43

Oh - how d’you pronounce Ferdia, @Op1n1onsPlease?

Looks glorious written down.

Just how it looks - fer-dee-a or fer-dya- with emphasis on first syllable. I love it too.

EvelynBeatrice · 26/07/2025 12:55

Some of the Greek/ /Roman/ other male deity names are both masculine and attractive. Eg Odin, Aquilo , Ares, Dion. Have a google.

Some of the male Scottish names have a softer sound - Glen, Murray, Sandy etc.

nameobsessed · 26/07/2025 12:56

FoxtrotOscarFoxtrotOscar · 26/07/2025 11:48

Montgomery (Monty)
Digby
Sebastian

I’m going to need to have a lot of babies to use up all these names! Absolutely adore Montgomery, it is taken in our family but it’s one of my absolute favourites.

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elQuintoConyo · 26/07/2025 14:55

Quincy
Allardyce
Crispin
Matteo

mummysmagicmedicine · 26/07/2025 15:31

Artemis
Artie
Bellamy
Casper
Blake
Austin
Oakley
Clement
Fergus
Noah
Rue
Frankie
Pip
Eden

ANagsHead · 26/07/2025 15:37

Don’t think I’ve seen

Lorne

on the thread yet?

It’s apparently unisex. Scottish. Was introduced to a male bearer of the name sometime in the mid-1980s on a street in Cambridge, well after midnight, outside a kebab shop. He was utterly charming and I’ve loved the name ever since, but have never met another.

JazbayGrapes · 29/07/2025 18:23

Kelly, Kerry, Kim

Apollonia1 · 29/07/2025 19:30

Adonis
Alexander
Alistair
Anton
Apollo
Atticus
Aurelian/us
Balthazar
Bastien
Benjamin
Bartholomew
Caspian
Darius
Dashiell
Emerson
Emilian
Ezekiel
Fabian
Florien
Fraser
Gabriel
Idris
Inigo
Isaac
Jonathan
Julius
Levi
Lucien
Miles
Nathanial
Nicholas/Nico
Orlando
Ossian
Orion
Otis
Rafael
Reuben
Sebastian
Solomon
StJohn
Theodore
Tobias
Tristan
Valentino
Xavier
Zachary

Teaandchocolate2222 · 29/07/2025 19:38

Clarence

101Alsatians · 29/07/2025 19:46

I LOVE Lysander!

DB and SIL let me choose my nephew's middle name and I suggested that...babies being the last thing on my mind at the time. Could have kicked myself when I went on to have two boys later 🤣

Have probably been mentioned up thread but:

Valentino
Theodore
Laurent
Roderigo
Hilary (US only I think)
Maximillian
Maximus
Vassili
Sebastian
Jasper
Etienne
Bartholomew
Cecil
Beaufort (but please don't 🤣)

stample · 29/07/2025 19:54

Julian
Caspian
lucien
tristan
swbastian

Gillyyy · 31/07/2025 20:32

Wesley
Aubrey
Percy
Barnaby
Julian
Rafferty

Also someone above mentioned about being a target for bullying. I think bullying for names will be a thing of the past soon - all the babies and toddlers I know have different names, It will just become normal. One of my relatives who’s a teacher said when they were at school children wearing glasses were bullied, but now that never happens.

MostlyGhostly · 31/07/2025 22:11

Julian

Thistooshallpass. · 31/07/2025 23:39

Etienne is the French version of Stephen .. which is abit disappointing.

when you said feminine names I think of more weaker sounding things like Timothy , Tristan .

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