As a side note, how are you feeling as a new mum? Have you been checked for post partum anxiety? Lots of people can be indecisive about names, but the extent you're worried about it this time (which is a lot) could be linked. Make sure you're looking after yourself.
Roman is a nice name, you're never going to get approval from everyone on one name. Classic names to some are boring, inventive names to some are too weird. That's the great thing about life, variety and different views. And lots of people settle on a name they only like rather than love, due to things like your partner having a completely different style. But you grow to love the because it's your child's name. I hope you manage to settle on something.