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Favourite soft boi names

135 replies

HolyMusicalBman · 08/02/2021 12:16

Love names like Theo, Leo, Tristan, Dylan, Valentine and Ewan. The proper soft sounding masc names. What are your favourite soft masc names.

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Sausagedog1 · 08/02/2021 16:20

Names that I think are soft sounding
Jesse
Rory
Rowan
Beau
Cillian
Aaron
Finn
Arlo
Milo
Marley
Senan
Emlyn
Corin

4amWitchingHour · 08/02/2021 16:22

@TheYearOfSmallThings

This is like the time I accidentally brought DS to the LGBT baby group at the toy library. It took me a while to work out what was going on.
🤣
Playdoughcaterpillar · 08/02/2021 16:24

Jude
Joshua
Rowan
George

BeautifulStar · 08/02/2021 16:27

Evan
Ashley
Francis
Pascal
Robin

Are these for you OP? Are you doing an Elliot Page?

squashyhat · 08/02/2021 16:41

Nigel. No?

MichelleScarn · 08/02/2021 16:48

@Gobbeldegook a whole 19 years old is our Avril's song this year...Confused

Gobbeldegook · 08/02/2021 17:01

@MichelleScarn I'm so old 🤦😂

finallychangedmyusername · 08/02/2021 17:28

Boy names with softer sounds (to my ear, anyway) - agree these are mostly names without hard consonents:

Asher
James
Owen
Louis
Caspar
Aidan
Elias
Dylan
Jonah
Joshua
Seth
Joel
Rupert
Gavin
Ellis
Barnaby
Arthur
Cassius
Lucian
Rudolph

VenusClapTrap · 08/02/2021 18:27

Why would you deliberately set out to give your son a girlie name?

Yeah, because all things feminine are inferior to all things male. It would be awful for a boy to be associated with anything feminine, wouldn’t it? Hmm

Kaia20 · 08/02/2021 18:31

Tyson

Kaia20 · 08/02/2021 18:32

@VenusClapTrap

Why would you deliberately set out to give your son a girlie name?

Yeah, because all things feminine are inferior to all things male. It would be awful for a boy to be associated with anything feminine, wouldn’t it? Hmm

Nope, but it would be awful when he got bullied at school because of it.
Karmagoat · 08/02/2021 18:33

What a load of bollocks

Plutostar269 · 08/02/2021 18:46

What you think someone will be bullied at school for being called Noah, Leo or Theo? Names which are in the top 10/20?? I think not. Softer doesn’t mean ‘girlie’. Not that there is anything wrong with being feminine, which luckily most people living in 2021 now realize.

Plutostar269 · 08/02/2021 18:47

I forgot to tag, that was in response to @Kaia20

Kaia20 · 08/02/2021 19:00

@Plutostar269

What you think someone will be bullied at school for being called Noah, Leo or Theo? Names which are in the top 10/20?? I think not. Softer doesn’t mean ‘girlie’. Not that there is anything wrong with being feminine, which luckily most people living in 2021 now realize.
@VenusFlapTrap questioned giving a boy a ‘girlie’ name. You responded to that. I responded to your response to that. Noah, Leo, or Theo weren’t mentioned. And yes, they would be bullied for having a ‘Girlie’ name and no, most people living in 2020 don’t
VenusClapTrap · 08/02/2021 19:01

Quite.

JackieWeaver4PM · 08/02/2021 19:03

This is obviously a wind up thread but kids don't get bullied because of their names anyway.

Bubblebu · 08/02/2021 19:03

can't believe a PP has said that the girls name "Heather" is butch.....
(PS I am not called Heather and I dont know anyone called Heather and I do think being butch is fine).....

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 08/02/2021 19:07

Ben. I haven't encountered a little Ben for years...

Fembot123 · 08/02/2021 19:10

I like Seth, not sure about the soft thing but it’s not a harsh sounding name.

VenusClapTrap · 08/02/2021 19:11

My “Quite” was in response to Pluto, obviously.

Children bullying boys because their names are ‘girlie’ have learnt this behaviour from adults pedalling dinosaur attitudes that female things are inferior to male things, which your attitude shows you are perpetuating, Kaia.

Not that bullying happens about the sort of names on this thread anyway.

LookToTreblesGoingTreblesGone · 08/02/2021 19:19

@CorianderBee

Soft boi means a feminine man name. Ffs it's not hard to figure out.
Ffs apparently it is. There seem to be plenty of us who have no idea what the hell is going on Hmm

no need at all for the Ffs

Mangofandangoo · 08/02/2021 19:29

@TheQueef

Maude.
This made me squeal 😆
frumpety · 08/02/2021 19:38

I have to admit when I saw the thread title , I thought it would be other names for testicles and scrotum, as in what do you call your DH's soft boi's ?

How about Evelyn, as in Waugh ?

MRSO5 · 08/02/2021 19:48

Soft to my ear at least

Noah
Dara
Arlo
Aaron
Josh
Sean
Seth
Owen
Louis