I have been seeing someone for three months. I have known him for quite a few years though.
He is lovely and generous and thoughtful but I get a feeling that he is "acting" this way if you know what I mean?
I can't quite put my finger on it. I have fun with him and we get on quite well when together.
However he can be quite scathing of people he perceives to be lower than him, taxi drivers etc.
Also when I am telling him serious stuff or we are having some kind of discussion he will always make silly jokes or comments and it really pisses me off.
Also seems quite moody, am I right in thinking that moodiness should't really figure this early on in a relationship.
He was really full on right from the beginning and already talks about a future together and the expensive things he will buy me in the future. I am a single Mum and clearly don't have much cash. He has not met dc and I have no plans to introduce them.
I have been out of the game for so long and was in an abusive relationship before that I worry I am seeing things that aren't there and being too picky.
It just doesn't feel quite right but there is nothing concrete. I need MN judgement here in AIBU as I know I will have honesty here.