I had a sad case where this poor first year had so so many problems, university was just the wrong place for them. This student hoovered up a huge amount of my time and my colleague's too. When we eventually had to have a family crisis meeting with the parents and the student, the parent had the lightbulb moment that it was not just a matter of them being scared to come in and they were ok when they were in class.
I had to absolutely spell it out that they were not ok. They cried in every single class. They were not in any state to learn. It was heartbreaking seeing the state of that poor young person and the parents who of course wanted the best for them but were probably putting all their hopes on their child becoming independent through university.
This is one of the many many cases which take huge amounts of time and I get no recognition or workload allocation for.
Wages wise ....I'm a senior lecturer... We don't get up to £60k at the top of the band.
Our uni also put loads of us on teaching contracts so we don't get to do research (although loads do in their own time which puts more pressure on those of us who cannot work all evening and weekend).
So yeah, I think getting a bunch of us together and there will be whinging. Some of it, a lot of it, is justified. It is a highly stressful job that takes and takes and expects an awful lot from your own time.
But yes, there are entitled colleagues not doing extra roles and dialling it in with huge egos and no care for students.
ETA... It's a workplace and a mixed bag of course.
And it's often a pretty toxic environment to work in.