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I just used the word 'hence' in an email

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GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:21

AIBU to want to punch the air?

Pray tell me your favourite olden day words.

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CaptainMyCaptain · 11/09/2026 08:37

Gonksmum · 10/09/2026 22:13

We sometimes get invoices in work with the wording "X begs to intimate" what you owe us etc. Very odd phrasing!

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intimate
/ˈɪntɪmət/
As a verb, intimate means to make something known indirectly, or to hint, suggest, or imply. 1, 2]

Key Details and Usage

  • Pronunciation: Unlike the adjective/noun (IN-ti-mut), the verb is pronounced IN-ti-mayt.
  • Meaning: It describes communicating an idea, thought, or intention without stating it plainly or directly.
  • Example: "He has already intimated to us his intention to retire."
  • Synonyms: Hint, suggest, imply, insinuate, or signal. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
Its a verb and pronounced differently.

INTIMATE Synonyms & Antonyms - 202 words | Thesaurus.com

Find 202 different ways to say INTIMATE, along with antonyms, related words, and example sentences at Thesaurus.com.

https://www.thesaurus.com/browse/intimate

MrsShawnHatosy · 11/09/2026 08:39

Impasse. Also I love the word furtive, though it’s not one I’ve ever got to use in official communications.

eggandonion · 11/09/2026 09:00

I used to be asked by store detectives to witness someone's behaviour before they nicked things. Then I would give a statement to the police saying I had observed the person acting i a furtive manner.

SunshineOnARainyLeith · 11/09/2026 09:03

😂

AnOldCynic · 11/09/2026 09:05

@DearlyDiego oh I’ve used outwith twice in the last year! First time it just sprang into my head and I had to check its meaning and that was using it right (I was!). I’m not Scottish so no idea what part of my brain I dragged it out from.

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/09/2026 09:06

Gonksmum · 10/09/2026 22:13

We sometimes get invoices in work with the wording "X begs to intimate" what you owe us etc. Very odd phrasing!

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I'm sure i posted a reply to this but can't find it. Here goes again:
intimate
/ˈɪntɪmət/
As a verb, intimate means to make something known indirectly, or to hint, suggest, or imply. 1, 2]

Key Details and Usage

  • Pronunciation: Unlike the adjective/noun (IN-ti-mut), the verb is pronounced IN-ti-mayt.
  • Meaning: It describes communicating an idea, thought, or intention without stating it plainly or directly.
  • Example: "He has already intimated to us his intention to retire."
  • Synonyms: Hint, suggest, imply, insinuate, or signal. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
It is a verb pronounced differently.

intimate verb - Definition, pictures, pronunciation and usage notes | Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary at OxfordLearnersDictionaries.com

Definition of intimate verb in Oxford Advanced Learner's Dictionary. Meaning, pronunciation, picture, example sentences, grammar, usage notes, synonyms and more.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/english/intimate_2

noworklifebalance · 11/09/2026 09:10

I use hence reasonably frequently.
Impasse is another and I think a pp has mentioned.

I use fortnight, the usage of which is becoming less common due to not being used in American English (maybe wrong on that).

LobeliaCider · 11/09/2026 09:20

McT123 · 10/09/2026 15:29

Pedants' Corner.

Some of my favourites:

Albeit
Notwithstanding
Furthermore

MyThreeWords · 11/09/2026 09:27

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/09/2026 09:06

I'm sure i posted a reply to this but can't find it. Here goes again:
intimate
/ˈɪntɪmət/
As a verb, intimate means to make something known indirectly, or to hint, suggest, or imply. 1, 2]

Key Details and Usage

  • Pronunciation: Unlike the adjective/noun (IN-ti-mut), the verb is pronounced IN-ti-mayt.
  • Meaning: It describes communicating an idea, thought, or intention without stating it plainly or directly.
  • Example: "He has already intimated to us his intention to retire."
  • Synonyms: Hint, suggest, imply, insinuate, or signal. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
It is a verb pronounced differently.

It's not wrong, sure, but it's still mighty weird, especially the begging. Difficult to picture it being written by anyone other than an ingratiating Dickensian clerk. Uriah Heep, perhaps, or Bob Cratchet.

GoodGirlFaith · 11/09/2026 09:53

eggandonion · 11/09/2026 09:00

I used to be asked by store detectives to witness someone's behaviour before they nicked things. Then I would give a statement to the police saying I had observed the person acting i a furtive manner.

😂Such a sneaky, feral little word!

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GoodGirlFaith · 11/09/2026 09:56

CaptainMyCaptain · 10/09/2026 19:31

I love an ironmongers shop. One in my town closed a few years ago when the owners retired.

I hadn't used that word in years until yesterday, funnily enough, when a colleague asked me where I had bought an item. 'At the ironmongers' was my reply. She is much younger than me and looked confused and sort of, moved away from me.

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GoodGirlFaith · 11/09/2026 09:58

Goatsarebest · 10/09/2026 22:14

I got 'I append for your perusal' the other day.
How should I have responded?
Not sure 'I've perused you appendage' would mean what I wanted it to mean.

😂Laughing a lot here!

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Littledidsheknow · 11/09/2026 10:23

Ah, glad to see “whence” getting some love!

And despite lots of mentions of “hither” and “hitherto”, nothing for their partners “thither” and “thitherto”!
Hither and thither.
See also “theretofore”

I was recently impressed when, after missing her bus, my 16YO DD described herself as a “nincompoop”. Gentle insults have become far coarser and less gentle in recent years.
Its been a while since I encountered a “silly billy”

MyThreeWords · 11/09/2026 10:37

I've just been playing around with "forthwith", saying it over and over again for its joyful mouthfeel. It's a switchback ride for your lips and tongue.

Also, is there a kind of synaesthesia in which you get a kind of tactile pleasure from certain words? If so, I have it.

When I was small, someone gave me a little dark brown wooden cube with softened edges and corners. I called it my Ongar Road (after a local street), because it felt in my hands the same way that 'Ongar' feels in my mouth.

leavesinthebreeze · 11/09/2026 10:49

What a fabulous language we have! Love this thread 😀

Dancingonlies · 11/09/2026 10:50

I’m imagining the context, I bet they deserved it 😂

TorroFerney · 11/09/2026 10:58

GoodGirlFaith · 10/09/2026 15:52

I used to use the word 'perused' a lot but colleagues told me they didn't know what it meant and that is sounded old fashioned.

I think I'll start using it again now that I have changed jobs.

I’d have said how exciting a chance for you to learn a new word. Whilst thinking ffs look it up.

I like moot and egregious - disingenuous is getting a lot of use at work at the moment sadly.

moderate · 11/09/2026 11:15

SlightlyTerrifiedButPolite · 11/09/2026 08:28

Erstwhile (kidding)

I use that word often, without irony. That and "hitherto".

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/09/2026 11:23

MyThreeWords · 11/09/2026 10:37

I've just been playing around with "forthwith", saying it over and over again for its joyful mouthfeel. It's a switchback ride for your lips and tongue.

Also, is there a kind of synaesthesia in which you get a kind of tactile pleasure from certain words? If so, I have it.

When I was small, someone gave me a little dark brown wooden cube with softened edges and corners. I called it my Ongar Road (after a local street), because it felt in my hands the same way that 'Ongar' feels in my mouth.

I completely understand that. Ongar does have a lovely feel.

WingnutSOS · 11/09/2026 12:09

Once had the absolute pleasure of telling a customer her (totally unjustified) complaint was vexatious - job satisfaction right there.

Astrabees · 11/09/2026 12:16

Bespeak - I just love that word. Much loved by old school lawyers who were fond of bespeaking documents and then perusing them. I have preserved it in my retirement and save it for special things that I get.

ForeverDelayedEpiphany · 11/09/2026 12:22

TorroFerney · 11/09/2026 10:58

I’d have said how exciting a chance for you to learn a new word. Whilst thinking ffs look it up.

I like moot and egregious - disingenuous is getting a lot of use at work at the moment sadly.

Perusal is a fabulous word, but it is definitely underused and needs more people to peruse its meaning and context, rather than shy away from it. (But maybe this is also a moot point, as most won't want to peruse a word meaning that they never use!😆😳)

eggandonion · 11/09/2026 13:25

It is brilliant when you come up with exactly the right word without having to think. Writing gives you breathing space.
I have a lovely Indian friend who uses words like codswallop and parlour. My great aunts had a parlour.

CaptainMyCaptain · 11/09/2026 13:51

Interesting that we still have Beer Parlours. Do we still have Beauty Parlours?

MissFancyDay · 11/09/2026 14:05

noworklifebalance · 11/09/2026 09:10

I use hence reasonably frequently.
Impasse is another and I think a pp has mentioned.

I use fortnight, the usage of which is becoming less common due to not being used in American English (maybe wrong on that).

I didn't know fortnight was becoming outdated. I've always wanted to use sennight (seven nights) for a week but I've always been too embarrassed.

My favorite old time thing to say is to declare myself " knocked up" when I'm tired while out walking, as used in Jane Austen.

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