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OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters

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Temptree · 03/09/2026 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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likelysuspect · 06/09/2026 12:37

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:29

? I know her father was a GP I was the one who made that point, but she born in 1941. She’s not in her 90s.

The point is she just an ordinary middle class doctor’s daughter from Glasgow and her grandparents were themselves immigrants. So the Lady Muck I’ve never met a black person schtick is really odd.

I think you're missing the point, a GP now is very middle class, in the 30s and 40s when he was practising (and when she was born - 40s), it would have been a very middle class, upper middle class family

She certainly is posh as far as Im concerned, not upper class, not aristocracy, but she isnt 'bog standard'.

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 12:45

Aluna · 06/09/2026 11:37

Yeah you can really hide skin colour.

No you cant, so why not, in certain conversations talk about it?
It's not the bloody elephant in the room, it's a part of who a person is, and if their hair colour, skin colour, heritage comes into it...why shy away from it.

You do understand the phrase 'CONTEXT IS ALL...' don't you?

Aluna · 06/09/2026 12:52

likelysuspect · 06/09/2026 12:37

I think you're missing the point, a GP now is very middle class, in the 30s and 40s when he was practising (and when she was born - 40s), it would have been a very middle class, upper middle class family

She certainly is posh as far as Im concerned, not upper class, not aristocracy, but she isnt 'bog standard'.

No it would have been middle class then as it is now. In the 30s & 40s far more people in the upper and upper middle classes didn’t work.

In any case her grandparents were Jewish immigrants and Jewish people were still othered prior to WWII so it’s arguable that to some people they may not have been fully accepted as middle class.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 12:52

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 12:45

No you cant, so why not, in certain conversations talk about it?
It's not the bloody elephant in the room, it's a part of who a person is, and if their hair colour, skin colour, heritage comes into it...why shy away from it.

You do understand the phrase 'CONTEXT IS ALL...' don't you?

Why indeed, why not go round asking people: “What are you?”

EasternStandard · 06/09/2026 13:11

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 11:32

Alexander Armstrong is the son of a GP and he’s as posh as anything. As is Hugh Laurie. Being the child of a GP doesn’t automatically make you not posh.

True

WinterGold · 06/09/2026 13:24

I think the word is pretentious or having an air of affectation rather than posh, but I know exactly what you mean. Probably cultivated at Cambridge to fit in, so she now believes she is part of an exclusive club which gives her the right to select the membership of others, consequently she frequently delivers sharp, unfiltered judgments on other public figures, culture, and etiquette.

This rather feels like someone acting as an arbiter of who "belongs" or who meets her standards of intellect and conduct.

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 13:39

Aluna · 06/09/2026 10:45

Maureen speaks with a northern accent.

I know but mixed with a posh stage voice twist

She has a whole lovey darling theatre thing going on

My father's second cousin so I know how she speaks

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 13:54

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 10:40

That is just how actors of a certain time were expected to speak Maureen Lipman and my grandmother were both of the time and also put on the posh voices. Maureen is from Hull and my grandmother was from East London. It is the old fashioned bbc or theatre voice.

Indeed. Sir Patrick Stewart was born in Mirfield, Yorkshire, the son of a weaver and an army sergeant, and had a broad Yorkshire accent when he went to stage school. It was trained out of him.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 13:58

MrsShawnHatosy · 06/09/2026 11:32

Alexander Armstrong is the son of a GP and he’s as posh as anything. As is Hugh Laurie. Being the child of a GP doesn’t automatically make you not posh.

They both went to public school, Hugh Laurie to Eton. But Laurie’s grandfather was originally a tenant farmer.

Being child of a GP doesn’t automatically make you ‘posh’ either.

Aluna · 06/09/2026 14:01

WinterGold · 06/09/2026 13:24

I think the word is pretentious or having an air of affectation rather than posh, but I know exactly what you mean. Probably cultivated at Cambridge to fit in, so she now believes she is part of an exclusive club which gives her the right to select the membership of others, consequently she frequently delivers sharp, unfiltered judgments on other public figures, culture, and etiquette.

This rather feels like someone acting as an arbiter of who "belongs" or who meets her standards of intellect and conduct.

Exactly.

RunningJo · 06/09/2026 14:11

Tbh I don’t care how good of an actor she is, when she was born or what her parents did, I just think she’s a rather unpleasant person, who seems to think being foul mouthed and rude makes her funny.
Her comment to AP was utterly bizarre, made worse by her wittering on then about ‘we’re inclusive’. I mean wtf?!

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 14:18

Just seen a MM quote from somewhere else

"The Queen told me to 'be quiet'. It shocked me"

No idea of the context to that quote but doesn't it make you miss the late Queen. Even if you don't like the royals you got to admit she was a smart and wise woman. Took no fools lightly (Is that the expression?).

LuckyHazelFox · 06/09/2026 14:19

Neverstopwondering · 06/09/2026 14:18

Just seen a MM quote from somewhere else

"The Queen told me to 'be quiet'. It shocked me"

No idea of the context to that quote but doesn't it make you miss the late Queen. Even if you don't like the royals you got to admit she was a smart and wise woman. Took no fools lightly (Is that the expression?).

Absolutely, her late Majesty was something else. Don't suffer fools gladly is the expression.

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 18:18

HolidayHideaway · 06/09/2026 11:20

MM is v well read, she’ll have known this.

100% agree

MoonDancer1 · 06/09/2026 18:20

LuckyHazelFox · 06/09/2026 14:19

Absolutely, her late Majesty was something else. Don't suffer fools gladly is the expression.

Unless she gave birth to the ' fool'. Then all bets were off as to how far she would enable them.

Holidaymodeon · 06/09/2026 18:20

RunningJo · 06/09/2026 14:11

Tbh I don’t care how good of an actor she is, when she was born or what her parents did, I just think she’s a rather unpleasant person, who seems to think being foul mouthed and rude makes her funny.
Her comment to AP was utterly bizarre, made worse by her wittering on then about ‘we’re inclusive’. I mean wtf?!

‘We welcome everyone’ 🤯🙈😳🤦🏽‍♀️

NovemberMorn · 06/09/2026 18:23

Aluna · 06/09/2026 12:52

Why indeed, why not go round asking people: “What are you?”

Reading some of your remarks throughout this thread, I am beginning to wonder what you are tbh.

LuckyHazelFox · 06/09/2026 18:32

MoonDancer1 · 06/09/2026 18:20

Unless she gave birth to the ' fool'. Then all bets were off as to how far she would enable them.

Low blow but there you go.

Triskellion75 · 06/09/2026 18:42

Aluna · 06/09/2026 09:45

Margolyes is simply a GP‘s daughter from Glasgow. I don’t know where this posh act comes from.

We have posh people in Glasgow!

Temptree · 06/09/2026 20:14

Still don't think there's been enough media attention about this since Thursday.
It's very disappointing.

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wheresthesnowgone · 06/09/2026 20:23

Triskellion75 · 06/09/2026 18:42

We have posh people in Glasgow!

Listened to a recent interview. She's from Oxford, not Glasgow, and her parents sent her to elocution.

She doesn't have a posh accent, that's quite different and often sounds slurred, she has slightly exaggerated but clear annunciation.

She does a good impression of posh amongst her wide repertoire of accents.

thefourthbeatle · 06/09/2026 20:24

Margolyes is awful - of course - but Andrew Peters didn't seem offended or annoyed in the slightest (more slightly baffled).

likelysuspect · 06/09/2026 20:35

thefourthbeatle · 06/09/2026 20:24

Margolyes is awful - of course - but Andrew Peters didn't seem offended or annoyed in the slightest (more slightly baffled).

He's a complete professional, he's not going to get angry or upset on live telly.

Lmnop22 · 06/09/2026 20:48

thefourthbeatle · 06/09/2026 20:24

Margolyes is awful - of course - but Andrew Peters didn't seem offended or annoyed in the slightest (more slightly baffled).

Likely unfortunately because he will have encountered so much racism and prejudice that he’s immune to the offensiveness of it. It’s horrible to watch!

LuckyHazelFox · 06/09/2026 20:52

Lmnop22 · 06/09/2026 20:48

Likely unfortunately because he will have encountered so much racism and prejudice that he’s immune to the offensiveness of it. It’s horrible to watch!

She got away with it quite simply because of which side of the fence she sits. How can she possibly be a racist when she's left wing? Narrow minds flock together in support.

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