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Pulled over by the police with blue lights flashing because I BEEPED at them!

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BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 22:26

Long but I've tried to make it easy to read!

Tonight, I dropped DS at work and on the way back had just started moving off from a large roundabout to go straight across it. It was 7pm and the road is an A road, not a residential area.

I had noticed a police car coming down from the opposite side of the roundabout (no lights flashing) and assumed it was going straight across as it had no indicators but it turned right towards me so I had to stop.

As I moved onto the roundabout after it passed me. I beeped. A short tap to say where the hell are you going. I had also had to stop. I was moving when I beeped. This is important.

I assumed it was going to take the same exit as me but it It then continued round the roundabout again. Still no indication. So I did another short beep. The direction he was going in was to our local police station about 2 minutes down the road.

Yes it was in frustration as there are many idiots who don't indicate in my area and I've had many near misses. It's pretty shit the police are driving like that as well and it was also a hazard to other road users.

Maybe the driver wasn't aware his indicators weren't working?

Anyway I drive on but see in the my rear mirror a police car speeding up the road behind me, lights flashing, in the bus lane. The speed limit is 40 and I was doing that so he must have been doing 60 at least as he caught up with me in seconds.

I immediately knew he was coming after me.

The car came alongside me and the driver wound his window down, as did I, and shouted at me to pull over now, pull over now. He looked apoplectic with rage!

I pulled over in front of him in the bus lane and he drove behind me, bumper to bumper. I have never been stopped by the police before and got out of my car to go to speak to him (oops lucky it wasn't in the US!).

He's screaming get back in your car now, get back in your car now!

So I get back in and luckily had the presence of mind to start videoing on my phone as he came over. I asked for him name and badge number which he fired off so fast I couldn't catch it. He refused to repeat it. Refused to tell me which police station he was stationed at. He said I had contravened the highway code for beeping inappropriately and would be getting a penalty ticket.

I admit I was a bit argumentative (not rude) and said he only stopped me because he was pissed off I beeped at him and the police should know better.

He then said they were looking for a 'criminal' and were on police business so didn't have to indicate (no lights except when they came for me!) and they also didn't know where they were going. He also said he didn't need to indicate unless he was exiting the roundabout.

I asked him why if he was looking for a criminal, he decided to go after someone who beeped at him for not indicating.

He said I was stationery when I beeped so that is a road traffic contravention. I was moving so I asked him why he was lying. He then stated he'd need to do drug and alcohol tests.

I asked if he was joking and what basis did he have to suspect I was driving under the influence. He said because my behaviour - beeping at him - was 'bizarre' and I was driving dangerously, then asked if I was refusing? So I had to do them. They were clear obviously.

I said I would be making a complaint as I believed he was abusing his power because he was pissed off I beeped at him and 'how dare he bully members of the public'.

He then said MOVE NOW because I was in an active lane (bus lane where he forced me to stop) and if I didn't move now I'd get another ticket for failing to comply with an instruction from a police officer. I said 'who do you think you're talking to'.

I was very WTF and asked him to repeat the law I had broken and told him to give me the ticket so I could challenge it in court, so he said he did and I would get it in the post.

Two tickets - £130 and 3 points.

I then drove off. He didn't come behind me so I can only assume he went back round the next roundabout in the direction of the police station and the looking for a criminal was rubbish. In fact he said it so sarcastically, I think he meant looking for someone to book!

I have video of most of the interaction and he comes across very bullish and rude, especially when he was shouting at me to 'move now'. Literally no more than a minute until I did but he still said he had given me a ticket.

I did tell him I was putting the video on TikTok and would be making a complaint.
Quite shocked about this, and on reading about challenging the tickets in court, it seems that you can end up with a criminal conviction if you lose!

The lie about me being stationery when I beeped (which I have on video) should be easily disproven by their dashcam. Would they have to give me this if I challenge it?

Sadly I don't have my own. I ordered one ages ago, kept forgetting to set it up and it was on top of the bookcase at home!

WIBU?

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BeOchreDog · 30/08/2026 22:29

What on earth would possess you to beep at a police car once, let alone twice!

ThatCyanCat · 30/08/2026 22:30

Well that was silly of you. Perhaps the complaint will come to something.

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 30/08/2026 22:32

My dad got pulled over on the 90s because my brother 'oinked' out the window at a police car. Grin

Chamomileteaplease · 30/08/2026 22:33

Only someone unhinged would beep at a police car! They no doubt wanted to stop you to check your sanity.

ThatCyanCat · 30/08/2026 22:33

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 30/08/2026 22:32

My dad got pulled over on the 90s because my brother 'oinked' out the window at a police car. Grin

That took me a moment!

He should have waved a fuzzy jumper, maybe.

MyManinCaracas · 30/08/2026 22:33

Who beeps at the police? Surely they know what they’re doing?

HexInductionHour · 30/08/2026 22:34

’apoplectic with rage’ 🤣 👮

Gengha · 30/08/2026 22:34

I agree you shouldn’t have beeped but the police officer sounds like a total prick as well.

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 22:35

Sorry forgot to add, he kept saying he was he was giving me these tickets, then saying he wouldn't, then when I asked why had he changed his mind, he said he was giving me them!

That was both tickets.

Seems clear he was only giving them because I wasn't meekly accepting him telling me off.

That is NOT the way the police are supposed to work is it?

He has absolutely no basis to drug and alcohol test me other than I beeped at his bad driving and challenged him when he pulled me over for it.

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TheFairyCaravan · 30/08/2026 22:36

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 30/08/2026 22:32

My dad got pulled over on the 90s because my brother 'oinked' out the window at a police car. Grin

My dad got pulled over, on the slip road to the M5, many moons ago because apparently my mum looked at one of the police officers in a funny way!

He does sound very arsey, @BeepedAtPoliceCar but why the fuck you thought it was a good idea to beep at a police car is beyond me.

Redrosesposies · 30/08/2026 22:36

I fairly sure the highway code says that the car horn is only to be used to indicate to other road users "I am here" (or some such) not, as many believe "you are driving like a wanker".
While most of us understand your frustration, you were being unreasonable to get yourself in that situation in the first place.

Hotdoughnut · 30/08/2026 22:36

It's not recommended to beep at police and then argue with them... what were you thinking? Horns are for letting another driver know you're there, not to tell someone off. I'm afraid you deserved what you got.

itwasyourshowallalong · 30/08/2026 22:36

I’m sorry, but the standard of police driving is absolutely shocking

I’ve got a lot of time for the police, they do very difficult and dangerous jobs. But they need to ensure that they adhere to standards - it doesn’t do their reputations any good when some of them drive like twats

outerspacepotato · 30/08/2026 22:36

That's just dumbassery honking at cops.

maddiemookins16mum · 30/08/2026 22:37

You’re putting it on Tik Tok? That’ll learn them. How ridiculous.

HexInductionHour · 30/08/2026 22:37

Can’t wait for the Tik Tok, hope OP posts a link

Namechangewegovyjune26 · 30/08/2026 22:37

I would pay the fine just to clear it and show willing as you shouldn’t really have beeped, but then also put a complaint in about how he treated you. He was trying to intimidate you and acted very inappropriately https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk/contact-us

Contact us | Independent Office for Police Conduct (IOPC)

https://www.policeconduct.gov.uk/contact-us

itwasyourshowallalong · 30/08/2026 22:38

(Not convinced you did the right thing beeping them btw - it doesn’t seem like the most sensible option)

Gealach · 30/08/2026 22:38

I think this is hilarious. I can’t believe you beeped at a police car! Twice!!

i would imagine he shouted at you getting out of the car because he didn’t ask you to get out of the car, and he doesn’t know if you are dangerous ect…

He was abusing his power though. Have no idea a complaint would go.

imnotwhoyouthinkiam · 30/08/2026 22:38

My dad got pulled over, on the slip road to the M5, many moons ago because apparently my mum looked at one of the police officers in a funny way!

Grin did she look at him funny though?

BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 22:38

BeOchreDog · 30/08/2026 22:29

What on earth would possess you to beep at a police car once, let alone twice!

Why though?

They're supposed to uphold the law not target people for pulling them up on bad driving, which could have caused an accident if I had sped off without looking properly as many of my fellow road users seem to do.

Who's fault would it have been if there was an accident.

He also stated on video, you only need to indicate on a roundabout if you're exiting.

Not what the Highway Code says.

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EmailsaysOOO · 30/08/2026 22:38

You sound like a nightmare.

ExOptimist · 30/08/2026 22:39

You sound like an idiot.

The highway code specifically says you are not permitted to beep at another driver simply because you are annoyed with them.

Yet you did it twice to a police car!!!

All drivers should also know that you do not get out of your car when stopped by the police. I've never been stopped but know that.

It sounds like you'd benefit from reading the highway code and learning to control your aggressive attitude, especially towards police officers.

You are extremely unreasonable.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 30/08/2026 22:39

Well the police are well known to be institutionally sexist (and racist and homophobic) so sadly this comes as no surprise.
The job attracts power mad bullies.

Brackenandbrave · 30/08/2026 22:39

It sounds like their behaviour was bullish. However I agree that you shouldn’t have beeped at them in the first place.
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