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Pulled over by the police with blue lights flashing because I BEEPED at them!

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BeepedAtPoliceCar · 30/08/2026 22:26

Long but I've tried to make it easy to read!

Tonight, I dropped DS at work and on the way back had just started moving off from a large roundabout to go straight across it. It was 7pm and the road is an A road, not a residential area.

I had noticed a police car coming down from the opposite side of the roundabout (no lights flashing) and assumed it was going straight across as it had no indicators but it turned right towards me so I had to stop.

As I moved onto the roundabout after it passed me. I beeped. A short tap to say where the hell are you going. I had also had to stop. I was moving when I beeped. This is important.

I assumed it was going to take the same exit as me but it It then continued round the roundabout again. Still no indication. So I did another short beep. The direction he was going in was to our local police station about 2 minutes down the road.

Yes it was in frustration as there are many idiots who don't indicate in my area and I've had many near misses. It's pretty shit the police are driving like that as well and it was also a hazard to other road users.

Maybe the driver wasn't aware his indicators weren't working?

Anyway I drive on but see in the my rear mirror a police car speeding up the road behind me, lights flashing, in the bus lane. The speed limit is 40 and I was doing that so he must have been doing 60 at least as he caught up with me in seconds.

I immediately knew he was coming after me.

The car came alongside me and the driver wound his window down, as did I, and shouted at me to pull over now, pull over now. He looked apoplectic with rage!

I pulled over in front of him in the bus lane and he drove behind me, bumper to bumper. I have never been stopped by the police before and got out of my car to go to speak to him (oops lucky it wasn't in the US!).

He's screaming get back in your car now, get back in your car now!

So I get back in and luckily had the presence of mind to start videoing on my phone as he came over. I asked for him name and badge number which he fired off so fast I couldn't catch it. He refused to repeat it. Refused to tell me which police station he was stationed at. He said I had contravened the highway code for beeping inappropriately and would be getting a penalty ticket.

I admit I was a bit argumentative (not rude) and said he only stopped me because he was pissed off I beeped at him and the police should know better.

He then said they were looking for a 'criminal' and were on police business so didn't have to indicate (no lights except when they came for me!) and they also didn't know where they were going. He also said he didn't need to indicate unless he was exiting the roundabout.

I asked him why if he was looking for a criminal, he decided to go after someone who beeped at him for not indicating.

He said I was stationery when I beeped so that is a road traffic contravention. I was moving so I asked him why he was lying. He then stated he'd need to do drug and alcohol tests.

I asked if he was joking and what basis did he have to suspect I was driving under the influence. He said because my behaviour - beeping at him - was 'bizarre' and I was driving dangerously, then asked if I was refusing? So I had to do them. They were clear obviously.

I said I would be making a complaint as I believed he was abusing his power because he was pissed off I beeped at him and 'how dare he bully members of the public'.

He then said MOVE NOW because I was in an active lane (bus lane where he forced me to stop) and if I didn't move now I'd get another ticket for failing to comply with an instruction from a police officer. I said 'who do you think you're talking to'.

I was very WTF and asked him to repeat the law I had broken and told him to give me the ticket so I could challenge it in court, so he said he did and I would get it in the post.

Two tickets - £130 and 3 points.

I then drove off. He didn't come behind me so I can only assume he went back round the next roundabout in the direction of the police station and the looking for a criminal was rubbish. In fact he said it so sarcastically, I think he meant looking for someone to book!

I have video of most of the interaction and he comes across very bullish and rude, especially when he was shouting at me to 'move now'. Literally no more than a minute until I did but he still said he had given me a ticket.

I did tell him I was putting the video on TikTok and would be making a complaint.
Quite shocked about this, and on reading about challenging the tickets in court, it seems that you can end up with a criminal conviction if you lose!

The lie about me being stationery when I beeped (which I have on video) should be easily disproven by their dashcam. Would they have to give me this if I challenge it?

Sadly I don't have my own. I ordered one ages ago, kept forgetting to set it up and it was on top of the bookcase at home!

WIBU?

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TubeScreamer · 30/08/2026 23:01

Not buying this at all

LuckyHazelFox · 30/08/2026 23:01

Sarah did nothing to draw attention to herself. It's nothing like that awful situation. Smartarse OP has been ripped a new one.

Premierinnsleep · 30/08/2026 23:02

I bet the OP is so lairy in real life!

Good on the copper!

PrizedPickledPopcorn · 30/08/2026 23:02

Two things can be true at the same time. He was indeed a twat. You however were behaving in an erratic and unusual manner and definitely earned the intoxication tests!

Beeping the cop car.
Beeping the cop car again.
Getting out of your car and moving towards the cop car…

I’d have been a bit trigger happy if I’d been him.

Justbrieme · 30/08/2026 23:02

Sorry I only skimmed and saw the two beeps of a police car. So funny, are you having a laugh??

NotAnotherScarf · 30/08/2026 23:02

thetinsoldier · 30/08/2026 22:59

You should be able to beep at a police car if it breaks the Highway Code… Sounds like he was a real twat.

And if was shadowing the man who's just mugged your mum? Is he a twat then...get a fucking grip

Fluffyholeysocks · 30/08/2026 23:02

So you 'beeped' at the officer twice, filmed him, got argumentative, asked for his badge number, queried why he stopped you if he was looking for a criminal, needed to know what station he was based at.... what an absolute waste of his time! I'd love to hear his side of the story!

AGlessandahalf · 30/08/2026 23:02

the police can breathalyse you if you are committing a moving traffic offence - which you did by sounding your horn.

the circs as you have described sound far fetched tbh.

Plra · 30/08/2026 23:03

Crazy to hoot at a police car. Absolutely crazy.

That said, he does sound like someone who likes to abuse his power.

It's not even really a question of right and wrong. It's a question of being sensible - why did you think hooting at a police car would turn out well?

trueredstart · 30/08/2026 23:03

Was he driving a BMW?

AssassinsEyebrow · 30/08/2026 23:04

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You hope she gets life?
Don't be so ridiculous 🙄

@BeepedAtPoliceCar you were both idiots - his reaction was wildly disproportionate and you did use your horn inappropriately

HexInductionHour · 30/08/2026 23:04

TubeScreamer · 30/08/2026 23:01

Not buying this at all

we need to see the Tik Tok ASAFP 🤣

JoWilkinsonsno1fan · 30/08/2026 23:04

FFS you beeped a police car twice, and then got arsey I am not sure what you expected really- then to top it off you are posting on social media!!

The highway code states: Under The Highway Code Rule 112, you may only use your car horn while your vehicle is moving and you need to warn other road users of your presence or danger. You clearly say you beeped in frustration - so the fine is warranted.

The Highway Code - General rules, techniques and advice for all drivers and riders (103 to 158) - Guidance - GOV.UK

Signals, stopping procedures, lighting, control of the vehicle, speed limits, stopping distances, lines and lane markings and multi-lane carriageways, smoking, mobile phones and sat nav.

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/the-highway-code/general-rules-techniques-and-advice-for-all-drivers-and-riders-103-to-158

Ved · 30/08/2026 23:05

What on earth have I just read? Who beeps at the police? And more than once?! YABVU @BeepedAtPoliceCar

pinkstripeycat · 30/08/2026 23:05

Hyperbolically · 30/08/2026 22:43

Complain about him, complete prick. Some of the women saying you are silly may have forgotten about Sarah Everard. I haven’t.

Ffs that was one man compared to 1000s of police officers including women!

beigepaints · 30/08/2026 23:05

NotAnotherScarf · 30/08/2026 22:55

As I said what if was the only car in the area. Edit to say yes it was. As they were looking for a criminal..fuck brain decided to draw everyone's attention to it, so blowing the chance of catching there terrorists/rapists/murders/delete as applicable

But hay she's done nothing wrong

Edited

You think one police car was en route to catch a terrorist or murderer? And said terrorist was watching tv, heard a beep and then looked & saw a police car and then fled?

What a reach 😆😆

ToKittyornottoKitty · 30/08/2026 23:05

This sounds very dramatised. And you must have been feeling quite irate to beep twice at a police car, I’m not surprised he said your behaviour was bizarre. And why post it on tik tok? Do you think it will look cool to post a video of you arguing with a police officer? Complain if you feel it’s valid of course but ‘wahhhh I’m putting it on tik tok’ makes you sound like a drama llama

Sundaynightterrors · 30/08/2026 23:05

Are you mad? How was this ever going to end well?

can’t wait to hear what happens in Court!

Ved · 30/08/2026 23:06

TubeScreamer · 30/08/2026 23:01

Not buying this at all

beigepaints · 30/08/2026 23:06

Fluffyholeysocks · 30/08/2026 23:02

So you 'beeped' at the officer twice, filmed him, got argumentative, asked for his badge number, queried why he stopped you if he was looking for a criminal, needed to know what station he was based at.... what an absolute waste of his time! I'd love to hear his side of the story!

Edited

The beeping etc was wrong but asking for badge number etc isn’t

PollyBell · 30/08/2026 23:07

Hyperbolically · 30/08/2026 22:43

Complain about him, complete prick. Some of the women saying you are silly may have forgotten about Sarah Everard. I haven’t.

So this gives people free reign to keep at police cars? I dont see the connection

There is lots of people who harm women from lots of different professions can we all just now do what we like

OhBotherSaidPoo · 30/08/2026 23:07

You can beep to warn other road users of a danger. I would argue that the Police Officers driving was a danger and you were informing them of this, especially with the roundabout and no indicators.
I would wait for the fines to come if they do, appeal and see what happens.

MyArtfulGreySloth · 30/08/2026 23:08

He sounds a bit over the top but honestly op, you are coming across as rather bat shit 😳

randomchap · 30/08/2026 23:08

I said 'who do you think you're talking to'.

You actually said this? Brave

SulkingInTheCatio · 30/08/2026 23:09

AGlessandahalf · 30/08/2026 23:02

the police can breathalyse you if you are committing a moving traffic offence - which you did by sounding your horn.

the circs as you have described sound far fetched tbh.

But the police officer said she wasn’t moving? So surely not a moving traffic offence? 🤷‍♀️

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