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To cringe when people call their husband/partner ‘my king’?

96 replies

LateSeptembersunshine · 29/08/2026 10:43

There seems to have been a trend going for quite a while now where people post on social media calling their husband/partner ‘my king’ likewise men calling their partners ‘my queen’.

I think it’s so cringe. Especially when it’s someone they’ve only been with 5 minutes.

Edited to add it’s usually done as a performative caption under a photo or video.

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PermanentTemporary · 29/08/2026 10:44

Am definitely going to do this to dp
right now.

DeedlessIndeed · 29/08/2026 10:45

TBF, a lot of social media is cringy.

And I doubt it'd become much of a trend if it was "My Rat-Bag 😍"

Brendayouknowthatyouremuchtoolazy · 29/08/2026 10:46

What weird sad sacks do you follow on social media?

maudelovesharold · 29/08/2026 10:48

Brendayouknowthatyouremuchtoolazy · 29/08/2026 10:46

What weird sad sacks do you follow on social media?

Members of the Royal Family?

LittleBearPad · 29/08/2026 10:50

PermanentTemporary · 29/08/2026 10:44

Am definitely going to do this to dp
right now.

Similar.

He looked sceptical. I don’t think I’ll do it again

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 29/08/2026 11:05

The dh of a close friend of my DM called his wife ‘my queen’.
All long gone now (DM born 1918) so hardly a new thing.

My younger sister called her dh ‘Warthog’. 😂

PerdreLeBleu · 29/08/2026 11:09

Never heard or seen a woman call her husband/partner ‘my king’ but have seen and heard the ‘my Queen’ thing usually by men who are philandering bastards!

BCBird · 29/08/2026 11:10

My initial thought on reading this is why would someone's name for their partner bother you. After voting, it seems i am in the minority!

sanityisamyth · 29/08/2026 11:11

Never come across it but yes, it’s cringeworthy.

Palomiino · 29/08/2026 11:13

It’s so embarrassing - YANBU!

forceofhabitandnotneed · 29/08/2026 11:13

I've seen this online a bit. For some reason seems to be prevalent amongst couples who subscribe to quite traditional views of gender roles and "keeping your man/woman happy".

Londonnight · 29/08/2026 11:14

I have never ever heard of anyone saying this.

LauritaEvita · 29/08/2026 11:16

I’ve only ever seen this from black American ‘influencers’. Surely no one does this in real life?

Bluenotgreen · 29/08/2026 11:16

Never seen this. But yes it’s cringe

TomatoGlut · 29/08/2026 11:18

Brendayouknowthatyouremuchtoolazy · 29/08/2026 10:46

What weird sad sacks do you follow on social media?

It's hard to think of a better response that this. Spot on.

Palomiino · 29/08/2026 11:18

There are loads of social media buzzwords / phrases that make my teeth itch, actually.

‘And just like that….<insert thing that happened>’
’I did a thing’
’Great day out with ‘this one’

years ago mothers calling themselves Mommabear used to really drive me up the wall.

Palomiino · 29/08/2026 11:20

LauritaEvita · 29/08/2026 11:16

I’ve only ever seen this from black American ‘influencers’. Surely no one does this in real life?

Sadly, they do.

LateSeptembersunshine · 29/08/2026 11:26

It’s not people I follow but when I’m scrolling I tend to get loads of things pop up and this seems to be one of them atm.

I think I just need to stop scrolling because there are so many trends that are getting on my nerves at the minute.

The one where people keep saying ‘kinda chic’, followed by some boring mundane thing.

I used to love Instagram but it seems to be getting flooded by absolute shite nonsense these days.

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littlepotpads · 29/08/2026 11:27

I privately call DH my queen cause I’m the god damn king.

Imaginingdragonsagain · 29/08/2026 11:29

I’ve only seen it when they’ve talked about a short king!

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 29/08/2026 11:29

I say it sometimes to my DH as a joke but he calls me Chairman Meow (my name is cat so it makes sense) when I’m being bossy. If he’s being a bit of a dick I’ll say something like “yes my liege of course” and tbh I think it’s a good way to indicate he’s pissing me off without saying “oi wind your fucking neck in bruv” in front of the kids.

Stompythedinosaur · 29/08/2026 11:29

I have never seen this in real life. I thought this was just a thing incel Tate-fan creeps suggested women should call their partners?

But, yanbu, it's beyond weird and creepy! Not remotely a normal way for equal partners to speak.

Additup · 29/08/2026 11:51

maudelovesharold · 29/08/2026 10:48

Members of the Royal Family?

😂😂😂

PollyBell · 29/08/2026 11:51

Never heard it said

bababamama · 29/08/2026 11:53

Yep, see also Prince/ princess.