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To cringe when people call their husband/partner ‘my king’?

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LateSeptembersunshine · 29/08/2026 10:43

There seems to have been a trend going for quite a while now where people post on social media calling their husband/partner ‘my king’ likewise men calling their partners ‘my queen’.

I think it’s so cringe. Especially when it’s someone they’ve only been with 5 minutes.

Edited to add it’s usually done as a performative caption under a photo or video.

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Vallies · 29/08/2026 11:53

I've only ever seen this in one ethnic group, that isn't mine. It's not something I'd do but if it's usual in their circles it probably doesn't seem as odd to them.

Deadringer · 29/08/2026 11:55

I thought it waa just my dd that did this, but she is in her teens! Can't imagine adults being so silly.

TomatoGlut · 29/08/2026 11:57

I used to love Instagram but it seems to be getting flooded by absolute shite nonsense these days.

Totally agree. The AI makes it almost unbearable.

Nightnova · 29/08/2026 11:59

I hate all the 'my queen' stuff. People say it on here about certain women they admire.

It's makes me cringe. Can't say I've ever seen 'my king' though.

Princessdebthe1st · 29/08/2026 12:00

Only two reasons this would be reasonable:

  1. You are actually addressing your cat. In which case My King, My Queen, My Most Supreme and Most Excellent Majesty are all acceptable forms of address.
  2. You are taking the piss.
Comeonbabylightmyaga · 29/08/2026 12:01

A woman at work used to call her husband ‘my king’ I can’t remember his name but it was something like Steve, he wasn’t what I imagined before meeting him.

If I see anyone online say ‘my king’ I think of them!

UserName001002 · 29/08/2026 12:20

I'm Irish and we don't have royals so I'm going to have to refer to my husband as my President or maybe my Taoiseach.

WarmthAndDepth · 29/08/2026 12:23

A sort of lame flex.

dustabsorber · 29/08/2026 12:25

Unless your Charles/Camilla it's a no from me.

Gall10 · 29/08/2026 12:26

I’ve never heard this… thank god!
I hate to see signs anywhere saying ‘daddy’s little princess’ especially accompanied with stars & unicorns!

Palomiino · 29/08/2026 12:26

UserName001002 · 29/08/2026 12:20

I'm Irish and we don't have royals so I'm going to have to refer to my husband as my President or maybe my Taoiseach.

🤣🤣

RobinStrike · 29/08/2026 12:28

I’ve never heard it but in the 60s in Liverpool I often heard men address any woman as Queen. A bit like saying love or duck or hen or any other affectionate name. But it was never My Queen

HexInductionHour · 29/08/2026 12:31

I thought that Queen is a Liverpool expression. I’ve not heard of King though, it’s silly.

ToadRage · 29/08/2026 12:32

I have never referred to my husband as my king. I think that is cringey. I have once in a while addressed him as My Lord but that's just a nod to my love of history.

Messedupmyusernameagain · 29/08/2026 12:33

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 29/08/2026 11:29

I say it sometimes to my DH as a joke but he calls me Chairman Meow (my name is cat so it makes sense) when I’m being bossy. If he’s being a bit of a dick I’ll say something like “yes my liege of course” and tbh I think it’s a good way to indicate he’s pissing me off without saying “oi wind your fucking neck in bruv” in front of the kids.

Chairman Meow! I'd never stop laughing at that one ( genuinely- not sarcastically!)

Messedupmyusernameagain · 29/08/2026 12:36

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 29/08/2026 11:29

I say it sometimes to my DH as a joke but he calls me Chairman Meow (my name is cat so it makes sense) when I’m being bossy. If he’s being a bit of a dick I’ll say something like “yes my liege of course” and tbh I think it’s a good way to indicate he’s pissing me off without saying “oi wind your fucking neck in bruv” in front of the kids.

double posted!

LeapyearLoser · 29/08/2026 12:36

Referred to him as my Prince, my love, babe, lardass, rarely by his name!!

PrettyLittleRose · 29/08/2026 14:22

LateSeptembersunshine · 29/08/2026 10:43

There seems to have been a trend going for quite a while now where people post on social media calling their husband/partner ‘my king’ likewise men calling their partners ‘my queen’.

I think it’s so cringe. Especially when it’s someone they’ve only been with 5 minutes.

Edited to add it’s usually done as a performative caption under a photo or video.

Never heard anyone say this in my life. If I did, I'd probably laugh to be honest.

PrettyLittleRose · 29/08/2026 14:23

Princessdebthe1st · 29/08/2026 12:00

Only two reasons this would be reasonable:

  1. You are actually addressing your cat. In which case My King, My Queen, My Most Supreme and Most Excellent Majesty are all acceptable forms of address.
  2. You are taking the piss.

This. ^ Ironic username though. 😆

Francestein · 29/08/2026 14:23

I just asked my H if he had heard of this. He said he’d be sleeping with one eye open if I tried this. He’d be wondering if his food was poisoned or if he was going to lose his head.

GreenCaterpillarOnALeaf · 29/08/2026 14:32

Messedupmyusernameagain · 29/08/2026 12:33

Chairman Meow! I'd never stop laughing at that one ( genuinely- not sarcastically!)

It’s funny after the fact but when I’m in the middle of being bossy I think I’m being totally reasonable and then later I’ll just realise I was being a total dictator - normally over something genuinely inconsequential as well

Bleachedjeans · 30/08/2026 09:46

New one on me. Never heard anyone referring to their partner as ‘ My King’. Sounds soppy as hell though 🤣

OnlyHasEyesForLoki · 31/08/2026 15:12

It’s absolute bollocks. Never have I been more ready for the MySpace relaunch 🤣

Marellain · 31/08/2026 15:14

Are they talking about their pets? King is a German shepherd type name, I think.

x2boys · 31/08/2026 15:16

I have never seen this
Bobby Grant used to call Sheila Grant Queen on Brookside .

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