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To cringe when people call their husband/partner ‘my king’?

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LateSeptembersunshine · 29/08/2026 10:43

There seems to have been a trend going for quite a while now where people post on social media calling their husband/partner ‘my king’ likewise men calling their partners ‘my queen’.

I think it’s so cringe. Especially when it’s someone they’ve only been with 5 minutes.

Edited to add it’s usually done as a performative caption under a photo or video.

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Myblueclematis · 31/08/2026 17:45

HexInductionHour · 29/08/2026 12:31

I thought that Queen is a Liverpool expression. I’ve not heard of King though, it’s silly.

I'm pretty sure that Ricky Tomlinson in Brookside used to call Sheila his wife, Queen.

I'm going back quite a lot of years to remember Brookside.

Alittlefrustrated · 31/08/2026 17:47

I've heard "alright queen?" on tv dramas. Never heard "my queen" or "my king" ever thankfully. DP would ring for the men in white coats if I tried.

MojoMoon · 31/08/2026 17:49

I tell you, it's really useful when you've forgotten their actual name though.

He's never noticed that I often forget his name is Dave. Or is it Daniel?

GustyGertie · 31/08/2026 17:50

Never heard of it. Must be your algorithms

TeenLifeMum · 31/08/2026 19:04

That’s hilarious. I might try it tonight but have a feeling dh will assume I’m being passive aggressive and spend the evening trying to decode what he did wrong 🤣

MabelAnderson · 31/08/2026 19:11

maudelovesharold · 29/08/2026 10:48

Members of the Royal Family?

Hahahaha 😁

Gribouille · 31/08/2026 19:19

BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows · 31/08/2026 17:41

Isn't that just from Cockney rhyming slang: 'Duchess of Fife' = wife?

I did not know that, @BrezhnevsLuxuriantEyebrows ! Today I learned. Thanks, Comrade! 😉

jellyfish798 · 31/08/2026 19:21

WhereTheSpiritMeetsTheBones · 31/08/2026 17:40

I call my dog my king. And I also sing "your love is king" to him, which may be slightly weird.

I have found my people 😆 I remember singing a version of Mandy to my dog 🤪

HalzTangz · 31/08/2026 19:33

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 29/08/2026 11:05

The dh of a close friend of my DM called his wife ‘my queen’.
All long gone now (DM born 1918) so hardly a new thing.

My younger sister called her dh ‘Warthog’. 😂

Edited

Is your sister called Tina and is she prone to throwing chips at people 😭

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 31/08/2026 19:35

HalzTangz · 31/08/2026 19:33

Is your sister called Tina and is she prone to throwing chips at people 😭

No, so evidently there’s another Mr Warthog.

likelysuspect · 31/08/2026 19:36

LauritaEvita · 29/08/2026 11:16

I’ve only ever seen this from black American ‘influencers’. Surely no one does this in real life?

Yes I was going to say, King, Prince, Queen, its more prevalent in black culture from my own experience. Im talking about the UK anyway as I dont know any 'influencers'!

Ive always found it cringy though.

Dillydollydingdong · 31/08/2026 19:37

Never heard anyone say that!

mondaytosunday · 31/08/2026 19:39

I’ve heard if men calling women their queen but not the other way around. Not on SM much though and neither are my friends. And anyway they’ve all been with their partners for so long it’s more likely rather less enthusiastic titles…

Foolish1984 · 01/09/2026 09:34

I think it’s a cultural thing tbf

Iceplater · 01/09/2026 09:36

It’s awful. In fact “my man” is irritating too. There’s just something a bit smug about it, and the implication of ownership that grates on me.

thebabessavedme · 01/09/2026 09:48

Where I grew up the rhyming slang for wife was 'trouble and strife'

The family matriarch would commonly be known as 'The Duchess' as a more respectful term than 'The Old Woman' We just called her Nana😂

Lulu1919 · 01/09/2026 09:54

Never heard this !

SecretsAndLies77 · 01/09/2026 10:02

Yes - my ex husband’s new partner calls him My King when she posts about their spa weekends and it genuinely makes me laugh. I’m like, just you wait 😉

Whosthetabbynow · 01/09/2026 10:12

Londonnight · 29/08/2026 11:14

I have never ever heard of anyone saying this.

Camilla?

DaisyChain505 · 01/09/2026 10:15

Hubs or Hubby also makes me want to vomit in my mouth.

PensionPTake · 01/09/2026 10:17

I thought of this thread last night when the Gillette advert came on (for the women's bikini line razors) and she uses the term queen...

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