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AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results

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Sidedoors · 23/08/2026 16:09

Private school GCSE decline.

What happened? Is this an example of what’s to come?

Fees are rising well beyond inflation annually yet, results are in decline.

State schools prioritising, ‘reserving seats’ in house for 6th Form. Risky investment?

https://schoolsweek.co.uk/gcse-results-day-2026-6-key-trends-from-this-years-data/

AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
AIBU to question rising private school fees amid declining GCSE results
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bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:00

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 08:48

As explained many times, the existence of bursaries and discounts has nothing to do with financial health of the school - if anything it is the opposite for the most competitive schools who use it to secure top talent. I know one family heading to boarding school this year on a significant reduction in fees because child is ranked top 10 nationally for their sport. Family had fully funded private education since reception for multiple children (and continue to do so) so definitely not a hardship situation- school just have a reputation for this sport and are using fee reduction as a mechanism to secure top talent.

The technology question is more interesting. If anything I see it increasing the premium placed on private education and a more personal and sometimes more traditional approach to learning. In terms of tech adoption, private schools are well ahead of state :https://www.suttontrust.com/news-opinion/all-news-opinion/state-schools-falling-behind-in-new-ai-digital-divide/

This is just another way independent schools are becoming irrelevant.

https://news.sky.com/story/uks-first-teacherless-ai-classroom-set-to-open-in-london-13200637

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:01

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:59

Why would I give personal information on MN!

Families do you resonate with uniform and expensive items sports kit and gear, constantly “going missing” from within private schools. It’s a running commentary with our mums.

Ah ok, so you’re a private school parent and at your school the children are dressed in rags?

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:01

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 08:49

Many children of the struggling middle classes at private schools. The kids pointing out “he’s worn that same top for two years” many families constantly raiding the lost property bins. Items never seeming to make their way back to rightful owners.

If you are in the circle you will see the struggle of the squeezed middle. This squeezed middle are the bread and butter of regional independents.

Do not minimise the dire financial situation at independent schools. It’s that fraud that I absolutely do not agree with! They must gain hold of their runaway fee assistance before next year, if it increases those figures will speak for themselves.

had a chuckle about that first paragraph - that is definitely me raiding the lost property, and my kids wear their kit until they outgrow it or it falls from their bodies (if they don’t lose it first). We definitely arent a hardship case, not do we get any discounts

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:07

Other families may have different experiences.

As for technology and AI this can be accessed at home so why pay the expensive school running costs?

If we’re moving to elite education = technology surely wealthy children will access in their homes then meet up at global enrichment opportunities for co curricular? Bypassing need to pay staff, operating costs which take up the entire revenue budget at current independent schools. Efficiency in education and global enrichment (for those who can afford without any subsidy) surely, if anything, that is the future educational divide.

Wealthy families seeking efficiency and opportunity on a global platform with other wealthy international families.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:12

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:01

had a chuckle about that first paragraph - that is definitely me raiding the lost property, and my kids wear their kit until they outgrow it or it falls from their bodies (if they don’t lose it first). We definitely arent a hardship case, not do we get any discounts

I’m talking about the attire of many children outside of the school gates. The wealth divide is becoming obvious WITHIN independent schools. Many things are “going missing” as children going-without are forced to sit in environments where many others have abundance. Things are going “missing” on a daily basis. Parents are talking and complaining!

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:15

Sidedoors · 23/08/2026 17:13

All exams have become easier.

Its the comparison overall between state/independent where the gap continues to narrow.

No, they haven't. But private schools DO pick the board with the greatest likelihood of achieving the best grade. E.g. do CIE internatinal English rather than AQA.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

nowimabeliever · 28/08/2026 09:20

Dooferer · 23/08/2026 16:32

Parents don’t aways send kids to private schools for grades. You know that don’t you? It’s a much more enriching experience. They come out of it much happier and more confident. That probably helps them more in future life than being a few grades higher in a few subjects.

Hmmm I went to one of the top private schools in the UK. Nearly everyone got straight As, but it was a hotbed of anorexia and self-harm.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:21

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

ONE THIRD is a huge number!

And growing, I’m sure there is a mix of both demographic!!!

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:22

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:15

No, they haven't. But private schools DO pick the board with the greatest likelihood of achieving the best grade. E.g. do CIE internatinal English rather than AQA.

What is the difference between IGCSE and GCSE someone suggested private use IGCSE as it’s more “coursework” therefore they can have a greater hand in outcome.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:25

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:17

What I find particularly interesting in these multiple very similar threads is that apparently 1/3 of families are effectively stealing non means tested bursaries due to being friends or relatives of teachers when they are extremely well off and don’t need a discount, yet simultaneously the (presumably same) 1/3 of families are completely impoverished and dressed in rags.

Perhaps both of these theories are a little extreme and fee remissions are spread more evenly for a broader range of scenarios? Just a thought.

All tiered fees should be abolished ALL

Bursary funds should be strictly means tested for those assessed as gifted.

This would also quash all “charitable status” debate, which I’m sure will be the next scandal to hit the independent school sector.

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:28

There isn’t really a consensus on more tech = better when it comes to education - there is a trend amongst the most tech savvy execs to place the greatest limits of tech/screen time for their own children, and many look for schools that strictly limit or even ban screen learning in the classroom.

if you look at the AI debate and impact it has on getting kids to think there has been a lot of handwringing about how private schools are better able to force more traditional learning experiences (writing essays in class for example) due to smaller class sizes, meaning they are able to offer a deeper learning experience. I think fully AI education is most likely to be foisted on the poor, not the rich - it sounds totally depressing.

i will also say there are many things I prioritise about my dc education, but ‘efficiency’ isn’t really top of the list, at least not in the way you describe. If some bits become more efficient the expectation will be that the extra time is used to do more - more extracurriculars, more hands on learning experiences, deeper exploration of topics, etc. Those are all things private school parents pay for today as part of the private package and don’t see it becoming less important

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:30

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:28

There isn’t really a consensus on more tech = better when it comes to education - there is a trend amongst the most tech savvy execs to place the greatest limits of tech/screen time for their own children, and many look for schools that strictly limit or even ban screen learning in the classroom.

if you look at the AI debate and impact it has on getting kids to think there has been a lot of handwringing about how private schools are better able to force more traditional learning experiences (writing essays in class for example) due to smaller class sizes, meaning they are able to offer a deeper learning experience. I think fully AI education is most likely to be foisted on the poor, not the rich - it sounds totally depressing.

i will also say there are many things I prioritise about my dc education, but ‘efficiency’ isn’t really top of the list, at least not in the way you describe. If some bits become more efficient the expectation will be that the extra time is used to do more - more extracurriculars, more hands on learning experiences, deeper exploration of topics, etc. Those are all things private school parents pay for today as part of the private package and don’t see it becoming less important

I’m quite exhausted of all the “talk”

Talk is cheap

I will be monitoring school financial records.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:31

Are you a private school parent @bedtimeaudible ? You could move your child to state if you’re not happy and their needs can be met in your local provision.

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:33

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:12

I’m talking about the attire of many children outside of the school gates. The wealth divide is becoming obvious WITHIN independent schools. Many things are “going missing” as children going-without are forced to sit in environments where many others have abundance. Things are going “missing” on a daily basis. Parents are talking and complaining!

hwre I was thinking my dc were just careless. Turns out there is a Fagin like mastermind behind my missing uniform?

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:37

Labraradabrador · 28/08/2026 09:33

hwre I was thinking my dc were just careless. Turns out there is a Fagin like mastermind behind my missing uniform?

The mums in local circles have used UV permanent markers for items this year. So it’s going to be interesting.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:39

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:31

Are you a private school parent @bedtimeaudible ? You could move your child to state if you’re not happy and their needs can be met in your local provision.

Many taking their children international monitoring the financial situation in UK.

If they remove the benefits culture and the tiered system they will bring them back. We’re all watching the financial accounts….

Tunnocks34 · 28/08/2026 09:40

My friend sent her son to a private school to avoid her son falling in with the wrong crowd.

He promptly made friends, and then became best friends with the son of a gangster/drug dealer.

Private schools do produce miles better results, and I say this as someone who works in a state school. Not due to teachers. But resources, class sizes, they use easier exam boards which state schools are not allowed to use, parents are often more conscientious (able and willing to get tutors), most private schools have entry exams so they are already selective about who they let in.

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:40

There you go, @Labraradabrador - you need to chase unsuspecting well-dressed children round the playground with a UV flashlight to see if they’ve stolen your child’s clothes.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:42

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:40

There you go, @Labraradabrador - you need to chase unsuspecting well-dressed children round the playground with a UV flashlight to see if they’ve stolen your child’s clothes.

Or if there’s any suspicion a private word with reception and examination of blazer/item will speak volumes!…..

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:45

CatkinToadflax · 28/08/2026 09:40

There you go, @Labraradabrador - you need to chase unsuspecting well-dressed children round the playground with a UV flashlight to see if they’ve stolen your child’s clothes.

Transparency is always available (when there’s nothing to hide) Independent schools will have to get used to this, it’s their new normal.

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:47

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:22

What is the difference between IGCSE and GCSE someone suggested private use IGCSE as it’s more “coursework” therefore they can have a greater hand in outcome.

Also, to get a 9 in IGCSE English is much easier than in GCSE. Depending on the exam board. AQA is generally regarded as the hardest for English.

Yes, coursework helps. Cuts down the variable performance in exams.

Araminta1004 · 28/08/2026 09:48

Elite schools are going anti tech and Meta had to pay out billions. Heavy heavy regulations is coming for AI and the tech bros and your bot OP.

bedtimeaudible · 28/08/2026 09:50

Slightyamusedandsilly · 28/08/2026 09:47

Also, to get a 9 in IGCSE English is much easier than in GCSE. Depending on the exam board. AQA is generally regarded as the hardest for English.

Yes, coursework helps. Cuts down the variable performance in exams.

Apparently some also exclude Shakespeare.

A mum who achieved 3 A A levels at state school complained to the private her dc is at as she was told they won’t cover certain topics?

When she found out about “IGCSE” she met the head.

Seems very unfair.

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