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To wish my DD's Girls Grammar School did not admit boys to the Sixth Form

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redange · 20/08/2026 10:17

My DD1 has just collected her GCSE's from her school which is an Essex girls Grammar with high standards. DD1 has done very well and 'likes' single sex teaching (if she wanted to learn with boys she would got to the Boys Grammar for Sixth Form). However, like most Grammar Schools whether Boys or Girls they are Co -Ed or in my DD's School partially with around 30 Boys in both Year 12 and 13. I know this seems to be the fashion that Girls Schools which really should be single sex all through are admitting boys these days into year 12. I guess it is probably due to funding though personally I would prefer single sex availability for girls with the Boys Grammars offering the Co=Ed experience if wanted.

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Aluna · 26/08/2026 15:22

Cosyblankets · 26/08/2026 11:17

How? If the boys' school only has Co ed sixth form?

It’s hypothetical innit - OP was saying what she’d prefer. The boys and girls 6th forms have already made the choice to be coed.

OP would rather the girls school was still single sex, and the boys school - up to them which they’d prefer. If the choice was given to the students and parents rather than made at board level - they may have preferred to keep it single sex.

Aluna · 26/08/2026 15:24

redange · 26/08/2026 11:23

The answer to all that being three different Sixth Forms . However, I have to say i don't think they are many boys who have a problem with having girls in a school with them. This is why most 'Public' Boys Schools admit girls to the Sixth Form and if girls Independent Schools are now admitting boys it is for survival not for enhancement.

And that’s what’s available in the private sector - a choice of single sex or coed. And you can mix and match - it’s much easier to change at 6th and there’s so much more choice.

Manthide · 26/08/2026 15:32

Ds old school is a public school which is still boys only even in the sixth form and my 3dd went to an independent girls school which is also not co ed in the sixth form. Who knows what the future holds for them though!

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