Partner using pictures of AI women and himself

[JammyJoggers]

ive jsut found out that my partner has been using pictures of himself on chat gbt and writing the caption ‘put me next to a beautiful woman’ and ‘put me next to a beautiful woman with big boobs blonde hair’ etc you get where I’m going.

we’ve had issues in the past but I really thought this time he’d really changed. I know it’s not cheating but it’s really disrespectful and we’ve got loads of pictures together, am I not good enough he has to put himself next to really beautiful woman who by the way look nothing like me 😭 he’s saying I’m over reacting and being ‘sad and pathetic’ cos there not real women. Why doesn’t he see where I’m coming from ??? If this was me I’m sure he’d be devestated

Aibu ?????

WTF- he is the sad pathetic one, not you! What bizarre behaviour from him.

Why is the OP 12 for being upset by this? Of course she is

No? Coming from the person who has swiftie as a username 🙄 I’ve heard of loads of men doing it and now mine is so genuinely asked on peoples opinions because I am hurt….

Ltb

Is it harmless? Yes, in the sense that it’s not actual cheating. But is it astonishingly juvenile, unattractive, crass, hurtful and cringeworthy? Also yes.

I would be dumping him. Not because I’m jealous of AI women, and not because I’d give a shit what he fantasised about. Just because he’s apparently got a mental age of 11.

What’s he doing with the photos? Having a wank, or posting them online pretending he has attractive women lining up for him?

I wouldn’t be devastated, I’d be mortified for him and wouldn’t be able to respect him enough to continue going out with.

I think he’s just doing it , we have the same friends etc so I think he’s just genuinely curious but it has pissed me right off. im not blonde, nor do I have big boobs nor am I a size 8

No I know it’s not cheating but it’s just ridiculous.hes been going through some health issues this month so being the partner I am, let him lay in bed and relax. And this is the type of stuff he’s getting up to when he’s been telling me he’s in pain. He doesn’t see an issue with his behaviour either I’m waiting for him to blame me some how, always does

How is that a child like response ? Surely any woman would feel like their not good enough if they saw their partner has cropped them out the picture to replace them with a ‘beautiful blonde woman’ maybe your just super thick skinned if it wouldn’t bother you

Yes, he's the pathetic one in this situation. Wth is he doing with these images? Homemade porn starring himself? Very weird. Don't let him try to convince you that other women wouldn't care, because I guarantee you most of us would. It's something you'd expect from an inexperienced teenage boy with out of control hormones and no girlfriend, not a grown man with a partner.

It wouldn’t bother me; I would be absolutely flabbergasted that I had inadvertently spent time and energy on someone who would do such a thing. It wouldn’t evoke insecurity, it would evoke fury and an immediate end to the relationship.
If I had a friend that used AI in this way, they’d no longer be a friend. If a neighbour did, I’d no longer say ‘hello’ to them.
I mean it’s ridiculous.

Detach if you want to continue, or leave. Leaving is much better.

Your final sentence is why you should leave him.

It’s wierd creepy behaviour. He’s always been so obsessed with women it’s a joke honestly

No I think most woman would feel he wasn’t good enough for them.

I would think DH had taken leave of his senses if he posted pics of himself with pretend women.

It’s not though is it. Funny I mean. It’s just bleak.

So fucking weird. That would be an instant dump. Hell no.

Don’t you have The Ick?

God what a saddo. I'd leave him out of embarrassment. How pathetic.

I feel sad and not a bit surprised that the more advanced technology gets, it just seems to get used more and more as a tool for men to wank with, as if they need anything extra. I saw a cartoon years ago by Gary Larson of a ball pit in which the balls were all boobs and the “children” were all men playing with them while women went shopping. I think that says it all!

mock up your own version, put me next to handsome man with muscles, height, big dick etc and then sack him off.

I'd end the Relationship on the grounds that he's an asinine wanker.

Some men just can't help but turn everything into sexual shit honestly. Like I use chat gpt to help with work, shopping lists, meal plans etc. Men are using it to create ridiculous pornographic pictures and videos and as a sexting robot or whatever. It's pathetic. I couldn't be with someone who is that sad.