Partner using pictures of AI women and himself

[JammyJoggers]

ive jsut found out that my partner has been using pictures of himself on chat gbt and writing the caption ‘put me next to a beautiful woman’ and ‘put me next to a beautiful woman with big boobs blonde hair’ etc you get where I’m going.

we’ve had issues in the past but I really thought this time he’d really changed. I know it’s not cheating but it’s really disrespectful and we’ve got loads of pictures together, am I not good enough he has to put himself next to really beautiful woman who by the way look nothing like me 😭 he’s saying I’m over reacting and being ‘sad and pathetic’ cos there not real women. Why doesn’t he see where I’m coming from ??? If this was me I’m sure he’d be devestated

Aibu ?????

YANBU, and anyone who says you are is being ridiculous. I’d be leaving my partner if he did this, I’d be horrified and embarrassed.

Its creepy because its a sign that he would absolutely prefer a slave robot to a real woman. Chatgpt and AI are promoted precisely for this set of men. It gives them a power they long for to have complete control over a fantasy person.

Why are you with him, then? Just dump him. Nobody’s disagreeing that he’s an idiot.

Weren’t you on here a few weeks ago talking about how you’re trying to get pregnant by him? Seriously, do not have a baby with this man.

Pathetic, sad, grim, desperate, peverted. Just a few words to describe this behaviour.

Do not have a baby with this man baby.
That's not cheating but it's so ick and rings a bell of misogyny. And he always turns things round to blame you?
Nope. Just no.

Apperently he was joking and I take everything too serious and we don’t have the same sense of humor. I know he wasn’t it’s cos he got caught out. If this was me and I said it was a joke he wouldn’t accept it.

Well I booked a last minute holiday last night with the kids so we’re on the way to the airport . He can have fun with his AI generated woman!

Weird! Whats he planning on doing wirh the photos?? Odd behaviour for sure, gives me the ick

It’s weird but how did you find out he was doing it? If you’re snooping then you clearly don’t trust him regardless of him standing next to Mickey Mouse in an AI generated picture or a big boobed unrealistic AI image.

It's disrespectful and pathetic. Do the same if you want to be just as petty. Show him the results of you being stood next to hunky men with big dicks. That will really dent his ego.

Yes I was also worried about that sentence. Blaming your partner for something you have done is a red flag for domestic abuse. (Not saying it is but it certainly rings alarm bells).

Reminds me of the 1980s film Weird Science! But that was from sex hormoned nerdy teenagers creating their 'perfect' woman (Kelly LeBrock). Its as cringy as can be, with laughs about behaviour but at the end they realise they dont need the beautiful big boobed girlfriend. They were teenagers and it doesn't appear uour husband has gotten past that juvenile stage which would be a massive turnoff for me in every aspect of the relationship.
Enjoy uour break!

Nope defo not snooping. Our daughter has his Gmail on her phone for apps. She was using chat gpt messing around and she lost what she was doing so I was trying to find it for her, and then I found a history of all the chat gpts ever made …. Low and behold

Flip it, how would he feel if you had done this? Also, it's not that you are not good enough for him.OP

Apparently he wouldn’t care because it’s ai and not real.. he 100% would care

What an unbelievable tosser. I hope you leave this barstard.

No I’d not feel like I wasn’t good enough and no I’m not particularly thick skinned, I’d get immediate ick and think the issue was him, not me, as that would be the accurate view point.

Dump him

Weird, worm like behaviour from the man. Calling you pathetic is projection. There's no need to be with people like this, surely being single is better?

It’s not weird or creepy just a bit immature and pathetic. All men are “obsessed with women” to a greater or lesser degree so unless there is some history of stalking or something you are starting to come across a bit nuts yourself tbh.

Sorry OP 😢 This would leave me feeling like shit and the relationship would be dead in the water, as far as I’m concerned.

I would just find this so unattractive, it's the behaviour of a 12 year old boy who's just discovered the internet for the first time, and as I'm not attracted to 12 year old boys, that would be the end of things for me.

I really couldn't in all seriousness continue an adult partnership with someone who I had lost all respect for. The fact that you're waiting for him to somehow blame this on you and make it your fault is just a further nail in his coffin.

Grotty.

Some history of stalking? So unless he's a stalker, this is perfectly normal Man behaviour and she's actually a bit nuts?

I would be upset with this too OP. It would make me feel like I was his back-up choice. Just settling for me as he could not get the women he really wanted.

That really makes all men sound weird and creepy tbh.