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Should I fly to America for a gig?

104 replies

sidneytweeney · 24/07/2026 21:20

So my favourite singer ever is playing a series of gigs in Utah in October. It’s over the weekend my kids are with their dad. Is it mental to fly there Thursday see the gigs Saturday and Sunday and fly back Monday? Get the kids back Tuesday? I can afford it - I’d be going alone. I’m scared . Would anyone else/ has anyone else done something like this?

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Cluelessfirstimer · 24/07/2026 21:56

intrepidpanda · 24/07/2026 21:46

35 million animals kept as pets in the UK
35 million cars in the UK
35 million amazon deliveries per week
And you are worried about her getting on a plane to America when it will be going anyway. OP may do/have none of the above.

Agreee.... Nah im sorry - Taylor Swift is doing a 1 hr car journey in a private jet.. i think OPs once in a life time trip is granted.

I care deeply about the environment but I highly doubt my paper straws are making much of an input while billionaires are flying the sky's

Go for it OP and bloody enjoy it! Dont even think - book it NOW

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 21:56

@Mojuu- the plane wouldn't fly if there was no demand tho would it ? Jeez

RevengeOfTheDirtyLaundry · 24/07/2026 21:58

In the future, will you be glad you went?

GisGasGus · 24/07/2026 21:58

Sprig1 · 24/07/2026 21:29

It's irresponsible. Think.of the environment.

Will the plane not go if the OP stays at home? What difference does one more passenger make?

Mojuu · 24/07/2026 21:58

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 21:56

@Mojuu- the plane wouldn't fly if there was no demand tho would it ? Jeez

If OP goes or doesn't....... Will they plane be cancelled? Think about it. So if it flies. OP should never be allowed to go to America? Grow up

Notimeforaname · 24/07/2026 21:58

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 21:53

I mean the world is on fire right now due to global warming but you enjoy your gig op.

Someone said something similar to me at work when they heard I was going on ANOTHER holiday. They asked how I could justify my carbon footprint 🤣
I told her "I dont drive, I dont eat meat and I have no kids".

She has 2 cars 😆

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:05

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TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers · 24/07/2026 22:06

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 21:53

I mean the world is on fire right now due to global warming but you enjoy your gig op.

You’re literally telling us this information by using the internet to communicate it.
An industry that is at least as bad for the environment, if not worse, than the aviation industry.

randomchap · 24/07/2026 22:07

Depends on who it is

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:08

@GisGasGus- do you watch/read the news?
The world is literally on fire right now.!
The threads on mn make me despair of people.

Mojuu · 24/07/2026 22:08

Just go and enjoy. I know 2 young people flying to see Ariana Grande

Mojuu · 24/07/2026 22:10

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:08

@GisGasGus- do you watch/read the news?
The world is literally on fire right now.!
The threads on mn make me despair of people.

And so what? Should no one fly? What about driving a car? What about power generation?

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:10

@TheCrenchinglyMcQuaffenBrothers- are you having a laugh?

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:11

@Mojuugrow up and educate yourself!

MayaPyjama · 24/07/2026 22:11

owenkiks · 24/07/2026 21:28

Absolutely, my only advice is look to see if there is any kind of specialist insurance if the gig ends up getting cancelled, I had tickets to Dolly Parton’s Vegas residency which she needed to cancel due to ill health 💔 my hotel booking was refundable and the tickets obviously refunded no issue, but I lost over £1000 on the flights my travel insurance wouldn’t cover.

This, but I don’t think there is.

The two times I’ve travelled for a gig/show it’s been cancelled and I’ve been hundreds out of pocket. One we still did the holiday but it wasn’t the same, the other was in the UK but travel tickets were hundreds and we literally just turned around and immediately got the train back.

Nofeckingway · 24/07/2026 22:11

Hate this is hijacked by the environmentalists . If you can afford it , GO . But please tell us who ???

Mojuu · 24/07/2026 22:12

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:11

@Mojuugrow up and educate yourself!

Aviation makes up what 3% of emissions.

What's this one flight (which will still fly regardless do)?

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 24/07/2026 22:13

Would you go to the gig if it was in another country run by fascists, or is it only cool cos it's America?

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:14

@Nofeckingwayhow patronising!
I'm just a normal person who csn see the world is literally in flames fight now - does that make me an environmentalist? Is that a bad thing?
If it does fine by me.

Mojuu · 24/07/2026 22:15

EverMissWicklowSometimes · 24/07/2026 22:13

Would you go to the gig if it was in another country run by fascists, or is it only cool cos it's America?

Donald Trump isn't performing

pambeesleyhalpert · 24/07/2026 22:17

Deffo!!

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Mojuu · 24/07/2026 22:17

Greedybilly · 24/07/2026 22:14

@Nofeckingwayhow patronising!
I'm just a normal person who csn see the world is literally in flames fight now - does that make me an environmentalist? Is that a bad thing?
If it does fine by me.

Where is it burning? Can you see any smoke? I can't see anything

champagnedates · 24/07/2026 22:17

@Greedybilly- you’re boring everyone.

OP - do it! Sounds amazing. Such an adventure.

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