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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · Today 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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Everydayisdolmioday · Today 18:51

To be honest I don't think I would want to take my child on a plane if they were vomiting.

EvelynBeatrice · Today 18:52

FourSevenFour · Today 18:46

Yeah, pregnant women should stay at home for months, just in case they would have to throw up on the travelling day.


No one likes being around sick people, but the alternative would be compulsory temperature checks at the airport - and still many people would just dose up and go anyway.

No - that’s not the alternative. Pregnant women prone to vomiting take evidence of pregnancy - if visibly pregnant, you’re foolish if you don’t take a fit to fly letter anyway.

Westcoe · Today 18:52

TheDenimPoet · Today 18:43

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

Not if they’re going to puke and ruin the flight for others… nope. Get the ferry

AMurderofMurderingCrows · Today 18:52

TheDenimPoet · Today 18:43

What about if it's due to anxiety because they're scared of flying? Should they just never go anywhere?

Each case would be individually assessed.

In this case it seems that the boy and his family should not have been allowed to fly.

Westcoe · Today 18:53

Ponderingwindow · Today 18:23

No one seems to give a damn about other passengers when it comes to allergy safety for those of us gripping our epipens and hoping for this best. Even though it would be easy to make people safer on planes.

This is just unpleasant.

What I have realized is that people only care about themselves.

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

Newsenmum · Today 18:53

Im also very surprised. There are signs everywhere saying they can say no to boarding if youre ill. Poor little boy too.

Newsenmum · Today 18:54

Westcoe · Today 18:53

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

Because many people will openly eat nuts and not care.

Westcoe · Today 18:54

Buggeroffboss · Today 18:29

You don't know he was contagious. DS has severe acid reflex resulting in vomiting, which is exacerbated significantly by anxiety and being autistic he is anxious a lot. He often throws up before traveling. He's not a risk to anyone and there's no cure/ mitigation for it. I'd be incredibly pissed off if we were not allowed to fly.

If he’s chundering throughout a long flight… what about the poor passengers seated inches from him

Westcoe · Today 18:55

Newsenmum · Today 18:54

Because many people will openly eat nuts and not care.

But there’s lots of allergies. Why single out peanuts?

Newsenmum · Today 18:56

FourSevenFour · Today 18:46

Yeah, pregnant women should stay at home for months, just in case they would have to throw up on the travelling day.


No one likes being around sick people, but the alternative would be compulsory temperature checks at the airport - and still many people would just dose up and go anyway.

I think a small child who looks unwell and is vomiting multiple times is quite different to a pregnant woman who looks queasy. And tne airline could question her and if she tells them she’s pregnant, their risk to take.

Clearly this kid was not pregnant.

EvelynBeatrice · Today 18:56

Westcoe · Today 18:53

How do I know that you’re gripping your epi pen and how do I know what your allergic to?

The flight crew make an announcement asking passengers to refrain from eating peanuts etc.

DierdreDaphne · Today 18:59

Cakeface11 · Today 17:12

The selfishness of this is astounding! I would have more understanding if it was a flight home from holiday because obviously the poor kid would need to get home somehow, but the outbound flight at the start of their holiday?!

That's utterly grim. Airlines ought to be required to automatically change your ticket to 24 hrs later, and meanwhile ban vomiters from flying. I wonder what the staff associations/unions think about this (cabin crew and cleaners).

Westcoe · Today 19:00

EvelynBeatrice · Today 18:56

The flight crew make an announcement asking passengers to refrain from eating peanuts etc.

Yes mine did last week

Iknowthatfeeling · Today 19:04

I became quite unwell on a flight once, I had an ovarian cyst rupture likely due to pressure changes on take off. Within 20 minutes I had been sick and was in a heap on the floor where the cabin crew sort food. I'm sure there were probably passengers panicking but I was removed asap to the back of the plane.
It was a horrible horrible experience, and I was horrified about being sick the most.
But I wouldn't board a plane if I knew my DC was ill, it's not even about stopping people boarding for being sick, it's obvious in this case there was strong chance it would be contagious and if they did have a medical condition with a fit to fly they'd have arranged for the child to be seated so they weren't as close to other passengers as physically possible.

CareBearClaire · Today 19:05

Thedogswhiskers · Today 16:57

That happened on a flight to Singapore - our family all sitting in front of the sick child. And yes, we all came down with it the next day.

I hope that’s not us you’re talking about 😂 Back in 2017 we flew to Singapore. My daughter has stomach issues which make her sick (not infective) and vomited continually for 8 hours. We spent most of the flight in the toilet 🤦🏻‍♀️

Iamnotalemming · Today 19:10

I cannot imagine ever getting on a flight with DC that unwell. Poor kid should have been in bed. I would have been too concerned for them and everyone else on the flight.

Bedroomdilemmas113 · Today 19:11

I can violently vomit over and over and over again if I have cross contamination (or unknowing ingest) one of the many things I’m allergic to. It would present as a sickness bug for sure, and I am always mortified if it happens out and about and I have to use public toilets as I know this is what everyone around would be thinking.

Not everyone vomiting is contagious, as others have said.

sickflight87 · Today 19:12

Yes genuinely if someone became ill whilst in the air, of course that is just bad luck and you would suck it up. It was the fact he was so obviously unwell before even getting on the plane and had vommed everywhere. The chances her, a young kid being sick and looking very unwell is a sickness bug.

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notimagain · Today 19:21

DierdreDaphne · Today 18:59

That's utterly grim. Airlines ought to be required to automatically change your ticket to 24 hrs later, and meanwhile ban vomiters from flying. I wonder what the staff associations/unions think about this (cabin crew and cleaners).

Problem with that is there's no guarantee of there being seats next day....especially for a family group in holiday season.

placemats · Today 19:23

sickflight87 · Today 18:34

Peak mumsnet 🤣 Yes, I whipped my thermometer out and checked it. It was 39.9 🙄

He had very flushed cheeks and the parents were fanning him and taking his top off. He clearly had a fever!!

That means nothing. 🤣

Sartre · Today 19:25

I’d imagine it’s because many children get nervous and anxious which can cause vomiting in extreme cases, also obviously travel sickness once in the air is common. If they refused to let them on the plane you can imagine the furore if it wasn’t a bug… It’s grim though, I agree and I mostly feel for the child who must have felt awful.

ToffeePennie · Today 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

SunnyRedSnail · Today 19:33

I tend to wear a face mask on a flight out to avoid bugs!!

My DS2 has bad acid reflux which causes him to vomit. He is also autistic and has extreme anxiety so pair this with the reflux and he is likely to puke. We are flying soon so I will be armed with a sick bag! I do make it known if people give me funny looks that it's not contagious!!

Westcoe · Today 19:33

ToffeePennie · Today 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

one off or throughout flight?

Sallycinnamum · Today 19:35

ToffeePennie · Today 19:30

My 8 year old will likely vomit on the plan at the start of our holiday next week. (We are travelling by plane)
He has gastro-intestinal issues that are caused by an inflamed duodenum. We have his diagnosis printed out, but to the layperson, my son would look very sick. In actuality, his being very very excited will cause the inflammation to flare and he will be sick. Not his fault or anyone else’s and he takes meds etc but they cannot stop it.

So you're quite ok with the fact your DC could be vomiting throughout the flight? What about the people around you having to hear and smell it?