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To be amazed this family were allowed on the flight (Ryanair)

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sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

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Anxiety can be a disability.

But my son has a disability that makes him vomit. It's exacerbated by anxiety and her gets anxious in new situations and traveling, because of his autism, which is also a disability.

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Morepositivemum · 25/07/2026 08:15

Pure stupidity on Ryanair’s part- imagine he’d lost consciousness or gotten really weak in the middle of the flight. People are awful just to save money (from someone who cancelled a holiday and lost money because I had Covid before anyone says anything!!)

notimagain · 25/07/2026 08:32

Morepositivemum · 25/07/2026 08:15

Pure stupidity on Ryanair’s part- imagine he’d lost consciousness or gotten really weak in the middle of the flight. People are awful just to save money (from someone who cancelled a holiday and lost money because I had Covid before anyone says anything!!)

TBH you'd be amazed at the number of people who lose consciousness/become ill in flight for all sorts of reasons, and often with pretty much zero prior warning.

The only way the airlines have of avoiding that risk entirely is to not carry passengers...

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EmeraldShamrock000 · 25/07/2026 08:51

Are you sure that his mother said he had a bug or is that ad add on for the shock factor? I doubt they’d let him on with a bug, there was obviously something else going on.

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He enjoys holidays once we're at our destination. And it seems unfair that he and his siblings miss out on stuff because he is a bad traveller.

notimagain · 25/07/2026 08:54

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Exactly.

This comes back to something I mentioned a while back: in the case in question if the gate staff said nothing to the crew and there was nothing obviously wrong at the door there's no reason to deny boarding.

If the problem only manifested itself on taxy out or later it's (as a pp.mentioned) a decision down to the occupant of 0A as to what to do, possibly/probably having take remote medical advice.

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Sausagedog101 · 25/07/2026 08:56

Ewww this brings me out in a panic!!!! Absolutely not being unreasonable at all xx

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Morepositivemum · 25/07/2026 10:14

notimagain

but that’s not the case here, fair enough people might not look sick but if you see someone vomiting or unsteady or extremely unwell looking then it should be zero tolerance

notimagain · 25/07/2026 11:16

Morepositivemum · 25/07/2026 10:14

notimagain

but that’s not the case here, fair enough people might not look sick but if you see someone vomiting or unsteady or extremely unwell looking then it should be zero tolerance

I wasn't there so don't have the full picture but you're going to have least cut the airline/crew a bit of slack and maybe accept it won't have been their first rodeo when it comes to handling people being ill

Tinahowls · 25/07/2026 13:39

Buggeroffboss · 23/07/2026 18:29

You don't know he was contagious. DS has severe acid reflex resulting in vomiting, which is exacerbated significantly by anxiety and being autistic he is anxious a lot. He often throws up before traveling. He's not a risk to anyone and there's no cure/ mitigation for it. I'd be incredibly pissed off if we were not allowed to fly.

Throwing up before travelling is not sitting next to someone for hours throwing up. Unless it’s not just before but goes on throughout?

DraigCymraeg · 25/07/2026 14:24

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 16:47

We were flying with Ryanair last week to go on holiday.

Before boarding the plane, we heard them calling cleaners to our boarding gate. As we got closer, there was a young boy who had been sick all over the floor. He clearly had a fever and wasn't well at all.

We boarded the plane, and you guessed it, the family were sat really near us. Before the plane even took off, he was sick 2 more times.

During the flight, he was sick every hour. The Mum said 'it is such a shame he has a bug at the start of our holiday'.

I am just amazed that he was allowed to fly when visibly unwell with a sickness bug.

I am absolutely amazed we didn't catch it but I bet other people did. I thought it was SO unfair that he was allowed to fly, potentially infecting so many people on that plane and ruining holidays people have looked forward to all year. I know kids aren't allowed to fly with chickenpox, so why can they with a sickness bug?

Why are you excecised over this? You didn't catch anything. So calm down.

Brinny · 26/07/2026 01:23

GreenWhiteViolets123 · 23/07/2026 17:41

If my child was vomiting and clearly unwell I would want to take them somewhere to look after them until they felt better. Not force them to endure hours more travelling whilst feeling grim. Or others having to listen to my child be unwell. I wouldnt want to be travelling feeling like that so I wouldnt want a child to endure it either - if at all possible.
I dont see how vomiting is ever "nothing" - its horrible to listen to, it smells vile, looks awful etc.

The same who have cold virus , I now have chest infection after return flight .There were several people coughing sneezing , after 48hrs home yes I now have it , why are people so selfish , wear a mask 😷

Tinahowls · 26/07/2026 06:34

Brinny · 26/07/2026 01:23

The same who have cold virus , I now have chest infection after return flight .There were several people coughing sneezing , after 48hrs home yes I now have it , why are people so selfish , wear a mask 😷

Coughing and sneezing I would take any day over the sound of heaving, retching , vomiting and the smells!!!

plus risk of the toilet blocking and toilet being out of action as one poster said upthread

notimagain · 26/07/2026 06:45

Bit early in the AM for this but given what aircraft toilets are designed to cope with and have to endure on every flight what's the thinking behind the idea that someone vomiting increases the risk of one becoming blocked?

Tinahowls · 26/07/2026 06:49

notimagain · 26/07/2026 06:45

Bit early in the AM for this but given what aircraft toilets are designed to cope with and have to endure on every flight what's the thinking behind the idea that someone vomiting increases the risk of one becoming blocked?

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someone said they blocked the toilet with their extreme vomiting
not something you’d fib about I imagine when talking about you being the culprit!

Blushingm · 26/07/2026 06:51

shoesandshipsandsealingwax · 23/07/2026 17:07

But there are umpteen reasons why someone could vomit and it not be contagious - are you saying those people should never be allowed to fly?

If a nurse or HCP vomits they have to be off work for 2 days regardless. Same as kids and school. Why should an aircraft be different?

Archymum · 26/07/2026 06:53

sickflight87 · 23/07/2026 17:09

I would say that the most likely reason would be a sickness bug for a young child with a fever!

I'm sorry but this is just not true. I agree that it's revolting to be on a plane with anyone who is obviously very unwell. But many young children vomit on airplanes due to motion sickness. My child suffers migraines and vomits when they get one. All of these things have happened on planes, sometimes repeatedly on a single flight. None of them are contagious.

Tinahowls · 26/07/2026 07:02

Blushingm · 26/07/2026 06:51

If a nurse or HCP vomits they have to be off work for 2 days regardless. Same as kids and school. Why should an aircraft be different?

Actually that’s a good point

notimagain · 26/07/2026 07:06

Tinahowls · 26/07/2026 06:49

Upthread
someone said they blocked the toilet with their extreme vomiting
not something you’d fib about I imagine when talking about you being the culprit!

Fair enough but there are multiple toilets, and given how many people get airsick (sadly it will probably be greater than one on a Longhaul flght) the systems are designed to be able to generally cope.

I get many of the objections being raised because of the situation described by the OP but the airlines and manufacturers have been coping with these sort of issues (SWIDT) for years.

There has been the odd instance of flights having to divert because the whole toilet system/systems have failed but it's unusual and is more likely due to a mechanical problem with the plumbing rather than the system being overloaded.